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i realy lik dis person alot. only, they are so wrapped up in some other person, whenever they are sad or anything, im always there to help them, but they just cant see that i like them alot, idk what to do, what do you think i should do?
Hey, I think that you should tell them straight out that you like them a lot, no matter the situation,because you never know if you don't take the risk. I don't know what else to tell you but good luck ! If you need anything feel free to ask !
love,
Cindy
hey, i lost my virginity, im a guy if thats important, and im 12 years old, i cant help but to feel like i lost it at to much of an earlier age but i cant say i regret it, but still what do you think?
Some people might think 12 is an early age to lose your virginity, others might not. Either way, I think the important part is if you regret it or not. If you don't regret it, I think it's fine. Sex isn't bad, it's just that teachers/adults make it a big deal I guess.
love,
cindy
umm well my gf just left a while ago and i really liked her and i kno there are like 4 other girls that like me should i stay single and see if i can get her back or should i try to see if something works out with the other girls?
Well getting back with ex's isn't always fun, trust me. It's weird when you know they were ready to let you go and you weren't. Anyways, I also think that every person that breaks up with their partner have a good reason. So don't think they hate you because they don't. Well... if you're interested in any of the girls that like you then you should take your time and get to know them..pick one that makes you feel special..pick one that helps you when you need help..and pick the one you know will value your relationship as much as you do. I know it's not fun when your partner make you doubt that they love you..but its happened to me..and lots of other people too. So be wise and choose the right girl. Remember this : A relationship can last a week, a relationship can last forever..but in some way, it WILL change your life. Good luck finding the right girl. =)
love,
cindy
see for months and months now i've been writing to advicenators and asking advice. All of the times no one has responded. can you plz give me advice on how to get an advice columnist respond to your question?
Well you can ask me anything. i'll answer u in a week or less.
love,
cindy
hey i need umm advice lol my uncle was in a car accident my sisters are prostitutes my dad beats me and my stepmother and my mother had drowned herself, my brother and best friend is dying of cancer and i have a growth on my ear,my teachers hate me and only give me Ds and Fs i'll never get to college and my two sisters were on oprah the other day and now everyone at skewl makes fun of me and throw rocks at me,wut should i do?? PLZ HELP!!!
Wow... I know life can be tough. I'vve been there. But in my opinion, I tihnk that if you try your best to look at the bright sides of things then ur life will be better than before. You shouldnt pay attention to the ppl who make fun of you ! Your sisters are prostitutes..so what ? it was their decision to be that and you should accept them for who they are because im 99.9% that they love you. Schools really tough, TRUST ME. I have honors classes and they kill me but I dedicate my afternoons to homework and I listen to my teachers even tho some dislike me, because they teach me what I need to know for their future tests, ect. Hows your uncle ? Did he die or is he just injured ? I hope he's alright, but if he did die, you have to realize that God has a good reason for everything he does. Your dad beating you and your mom is very wrong. You or you and your mom should try and speak to someone immediately. I know it might sound "embarrassing" telling someone, but its serious and it can get worse. I'm sorry about your best friend and brother dying of cancer, BUT then again remember God has a good reason for everything he does. But you still have the chance to see them whenever you have the chance to, and you can tell them how much you love them and they wont forget that, trust me. I myself have had family members die of cancer and I remember their tears of happiness when I told them that I loved them with all my heart. Just because you can't see them, doesnt mean they're not there...they'll always live in you heart. I hope I helped, write back if I didnt.
love,
Cindy
hey, my friend is really sad all the time i try to help her and i just dont know what to do, what should i do?
Well, this is a tough one. About one third of the teenage population is going through depression right now..it's not something you can control. Most people going through it are very sensative.So it's very important to treat your friend well and try not to hurt them. Also, they can get depressed enough to start cutting or thinking of committing suicide constantly, and you got to try and prevent it from happening. One thing you should try and do, is talk to them and make them realize that the world is actually a great place, and that people love them and care about them. Staying home alone for long periods of times or constantly can sometimes be bad. It gives you a lot of time to think..which will most likely make them think of negative things which will just make them sadder. Try to invite them to got skating, bowling, just about anywhere they like to go with a group of friends they're comfortable with. Later, you can even try to introduce them to other people you know, which might make them feel better. I hope my advice worked !! If you need anything else i.m. me !
love,
cindy
hey, i just recently told my friend that i was wiccan and she freaked out and thought that i worshiped satan or something. thats not it al all. she ran out before i even got to explain my beleifs to her. so she tells everyone in school and they think im some satanic weirdo. they always wisper about me to. everyone in my school is so closed minded. what should i do?
Hey.
In my opinion, I think you should believe whatever you think is right. No belief is wrong or right. As I mentioned before, your true friends need to accept you for who you are. Maybe you should talk to them because since they're saying something different, maybe they understood wrong. When you tell them what ur belief exactly is, then hopefully they'll stop talking. Lots of rumors and dumb things happen because of miscommunication. If you need anything else, ask me !
love,
cindy
what do you do if your losing all your friends?
Hey! To answer your question, first of all, I don't think you can lose ALL of your friends. God has given every person ONE good friend that they can trust with anything. Hopefully you have one..If you think you don't then maybe you're just not sure or haven't noticed? Anyways, maybe you should try and talk to your friends and ask why you've become distant. If they give you a reason, and you think they're right to think that way then maybe you can stop whatever made them feel like that towards you. Friends are very difficult. I've lost a couple myself because I cut and they found out and said it was gay and other stuff. It hard because they don't know what it's like to be you. So those "friends" don't count cause they won't accept you for who you are. Your a great person and ur true friends would accept you for who you are and nothing more. Just be careful who you trust,and it's ok to have a few friends. Not everyone has a billion friends. But in my opinion, I think it's better to have some good friends but not too many...do you undestand me ? Anyways you can always i.m. me on aim and talk ! I hope I helped, if not tell me !
love,
cindy
im really bored what should i do?
lol stephen..idk find something to do...do your hw we got math and english. Go in a chat..don't ask dumb things lol.
love,
cindy