Let's see, my name is Tiffany and I am 16 years old. I am a sophmore at highschool and i just happen to be taken junior classes. Yes I am a good student, but i do have a social life and plenty of friends. I have a job and tons of homework. I know what it is like to have problems or questions that need to be answered or just simple advice. My life is very overwhelming and sometimes I myself need help, so I am willing to help you guys/gals. Anything you want to ask, just go for it. If you really want i wont ask for any information regarding you or your personal life, but i will look at the question given and give you my best advice i possibly can. Trust me I am a teenager i know what its like, i've been there done it and all that stuff. If i did not witnes it with myself i can guarantee one of my friends have and i just happened to help them through with it. Whether it is about a relationship, on who you are, appearence, body image, reputation, insecurities, friends, disorders, abuse, parents, personal, anything...if you ask it, ill respond. So ask me a question, ill be here waiting to help you or whoever the question is about.
E-mail: tiffany224x@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Rhode Island
Occupation: school and waitress
Age: 16
AIM: tiffany224x
Member Since: February 27, 2006
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Iam 16 years old and I want to have sex so I could get pregnant becouse I feel like nobody loves me and if I have a baby iam sure my baby will love me is this normal? (link)
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That feeling is completely normal and i understand where your coming from.
Personally i think that have a baby at 16 may cause more porblems for you. Babies need a lot of attention and love. Yes i understad a baby will love you but it will also need. If you can't provide for the child i recomment not having one, it could actually make you feel worse. Also i understand a lot of people have sex at a young age and if your ready then you can...(im not saying to do it, but its up to u) but dont do it because you want a baby, do it because it feels right, and use a condom. Be safe and think about it, you'll find love eventually. Another thing is, you haveing sex should be with someone who u love, and who loves you back..not because you want a baby. I hope that helps you a little bit, but things will soon get better, so dont do soemthing you will regret? good luck!
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i've been really stressed lately and i finally cracked. yesterday night i was working on homework late at night and i just started crying. over all the things that are wrong in my life and it seems like theres nothing left to be happy about and im just not happy with my life right now. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Okay my first advice i have for you is to breathe. I know what you mean, life is very stressful and most of the time overwhelming. But something that might help is trying to organize your life. Make a list or many lists of what needs to be done. Put them in the order of importance. It actually does work. Sometimes things seem worse at that moment but doing somethig you love to do, can take away from the stress. When make a list of this to do try doing your homework when you get home. I know its sounds stupid but it actually saves you a lot of time and stress. Try to make some "you" time. Watch a movie, go for a walk, exercise, listen to music, write, do anything you like to do. You could even take a nap. Just try to do it by yourself. It will let you think and let the emotions you feel calm down. Friends/parents can add to the stress. Talk to them and tell them you have a lot on you mind. They may be able to help you get organized. But seriously everynow and then just take a minute and just breath and let everything exscape. It works! i hope that helps a lil bit!! good luck!
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Well, I am really wanting a digital camera these days. I know they are pretty pricey also. I want one that has the little screen in the back so you can look at the picture you took.
How much are digital camera's in range? And another thing, I am about 13 and I really want to buy my own because I know my mom can't buy me one.
What would be a good job for me to get some money for that? Babysitting is my biggest option right now. How many times do you think I would have to babysit if I ask for 6-11$ an hour?
Thank you so much for the help! (link)
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This might sound wierd but they have really nice digital camera's at walgreens. So if you have a walgreens near where you live you could go and get one. I recently went and bought a kodak one for about 80-100 dollars (they have different types) so if you can find someone to pay you lets say 5 dollars and hour, then you need to babysit for 16 to 20 hrs. But that isnt that bad if you babysit for at least 2 to 3 hrs eack time. Also you might get paid more money. Okay so if you wanted to save $90's the you would have to babysit 6days for 3 hrs each. Which isnt bad if you spread the days out. Since you only about 13 that may be the only kind of job you can get, but maybe ask you mom or dad or whomever you live with that if you did extra work around the house, if you could get paid.
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I have red bumps on my armpits and i think it is from Shaving. How do i get rid of these bumps and still be able to shave at the same time?
Any recommended razors, shaving cream, lotion, or anything that will help treat and prevent these bumps? (link)
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Red bumps can be a certain amount of things. One could be an irratation of the skin due to an allergy/dull blade. But I had the problem at one point and what worked for me it that after your done shaving make the water a little cool...it causes the skin not to get irratated, it sounds a little stupid but it has worked for people. So juss next time when you done just make the water cool, and wet under your arm and pat dry with a towel when you out. Also you should wait about 15minutes to put deodarent after a shower/bath, because it could also irratate the skin. Hope that helps a little bit!
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Well my best friend and I went on a week long vacation together and I think were really annoyed with each other. I found out everything HAS to be her way; nothing can ever be her fault; and she thinks everyones in love with her.
Now I can't stand talking to her cause I realize all these little things about her that drive me insane. However, I feel so empty with out her! What do I do? (link)
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I understand completely where your coming from. Friends are good to have, but sometimes you need space. Try taking a break from her, I am Not saying stop being her friend just give yourself some time to breathe and relax. See how you do for a week without being with her every waking moment. Friendships are priceless and should not be wasted just because of an uncertainty. If you have any siblings you would know, that you guys fight alot and annoy each other, but would you ever trade them for anything ina world. Same goes for a friend. Maybe try hanging out with new people, but do not lose touch with this friend, just don't make her your only friend.
so basically just take a break, dont tell her because she might get upset. Being stuck with someone for a long time can bring out someone flaws, but that doesnt mean they are always like that. Remeber what qualities that are good about her, and you friendship. Just take time to relax and hang out with some new people, just try not to lose touch...you might never find a friend like her agian.
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