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Hey I'm Sean and i'm an empath lol!!I'm here to help!!
advice
My mom has 3-8 weeks left to live.
I'm so depressed.
what do I do?
17/f
Stay strong for her and for yourself.
Enjoy the time you have left with her and apprecitate all the little things you take for granted in life.
Understand that she will be moving to a better and peaceful place where there is no pain.
She will always be looking down on you.
When someone passes away they are never really gone forever, they always remain in your memory.
It's hard to stop grieving over death and to start celebrating life.
Just know that whatever the outcome you will meet again one day.
Everything happens for a reason hun. Sometimes life is unfair but we have to keep marching on.
The sadness will pass but you will never forget.
My advice is to stay strong and make her proud.
God bless.
I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now. Everything is going OK but I'm really just not happy with him being my boyfriend. We don't have anything in common and so it makes it hard to talk to each other since there isn't anything we're really both interested in. I'd rather just be his friend, I guess, because he's a good person but just nothing that makes us really compatible.
Last night we were on the phone and I knew I had to tell him my feelings about our relationship. I told him that I had been thinking of breaking up for awhile because I think we're better suited for different people and he totally blew up. He cried at first and I tried to calm him down but then he started talking about being depressed and that he can't stand to lose me. I was freaking out because I've never dealt with this before and he has never said anything about being sad like this before to me.
We talked some more and what it came down to is him saying to me that if I leave him that he will kill himself. His dad owns a gun and he knows where it is and how to use it. Last night he said he would go get it and blow his brains out while we were on the phone talking about breaking up. It really scared me because he was sounding serious about it.
I don't want him to kill himself and I especially don't want to be blamed for his death if he does commit suicide for some reason. I can't be in this relationship and I don't know how to get out now. I told him last night that I was sorry and that we would stay together but that isn't what I want at all. I'm so afraid of saying the wrong thing now and starting up this kind of conversation with him again.
Please, help me, I'm trapped. What do I do now so that he doesn't hurt himself and so that I can move on?
This relationship is volatile and selfish on his part. You would be better to leave this relationship.
For him to place a burden like this on your shoulders is not love, it is only fear.
You have told him how you feel and he doesn't accept it. This is not your responsibilty.
Obviously you will have feelings for him and do not wish him any harm.
But the only harm he receives is from himself.
If he cannot learn to recognise your unhappiness in the relationship and let you go then he will never be able to deal with his own.
The best advice I can give you is to have a break from him, consult his mother/father and let them know the seriousness of your dilemma. They will supervise him and make sure he gets all the support he needs.
Tell him that you are not happy just like him.
Is there an age limit to purchase condoms.
There is no age limit to purchase contraceptive.
However if you are under the age of 16 you can usually obtain them free of charge from your doctor or sexual health adviser.
There may be clinics or youth programmes in your area which will also provide you with them.
Sometimes sexual health advisers may visit your school to teach and advise on the importance of being careful through sex and may provide you with contraceptive to take away with you.
Whatever age you are, it is important to be careful at all times and to be sure that you are ready physically and mentally for intercourse.
so there is this guy i just met and we have been talking on facebook but we never really have any conversations because there is nothing to talk about. we just say whats up and tell each other what were doing and then the conversation stops.
how do i get conversations going with him??
it's also kind of hard because i only met him once so there's not much to talk about and i don't know him too well.
Hey, if your looking for conversation starters then here's a few..
music, movies, work. Everyone loves music and im sure everyone has seen a movie.
Talking about friends might improve the communication between you, if you live so close to one another then chances are that he probably knows some of the people that you do.
Stating that there is trouble talkin to each other is putting up a barrier on communication flow straight away.
Try not to think like this, if you like the guy then you will enjoy chatting to him and also enjoy listening to him too.
It's not so hard, just relax and say what you feel. Let it flow.
14/f
22/m
.........I was never plagued by the crushes my friends had for their male teachers in grade school. I always thought it was so stupid. Why like someone you OBVIOUSLY can't have?
But, now, unknowlingly, it's happened to me.
When I first met my History teacher, I thought him to be very odd, if not a bit unself-confident and awkward. I didn't really think I'd enjoy the class at all.
Then, suddenly I've realized a month later I have a small crush. A pat on the arm makes my heart leap. A smile makes me warm and happy. A note of approval on my work makes the sun shine. You know the feeling you get with a regular crush, except this time the crush is 8 years older than you.
I am VERY VERY good at hiding crushes, but... still.. this is a really really awkward situation to be in and I don't want it to happen. I want to get over it ASAP. I can hide my feelings, but I'm bad at getting rid of them. It's only natural I'd like this teacher, as we share almost all the same interests and get along well, plus he's just overall very goofy and fun to be around, and treats me with respect no boy my age does. Even though he isn't very attractive, I like his personality.
I know, I will get over it. I know I like him because he's so kind and mature, and this is my heart screaming "I want a guy like this when I'm older!!" But... how do I get over it more quickly?
Hey!
Teacher crushes are more common than you may think!
But overall the best thing to do is take a step back because it could only lead to trouble!
Teenage hormones are a pain at times, sending you in a whirlpool of emotions but at the end of the day we simply cant help how we feel!
Eventually you will grow out of it and look back and giggle.
My advice would be to try and focus more on the work rather than the teacher.
(IM A GIRL) There is this girl at my shcool that i really like. she is super cute and has a great personality. we text like everynightt but i dont know if she is in to me. im not really open about kinda being bicurious so i dont know if she knows that im like that. but how do u know when the girl likes you? and how do you get a girl to like you
hey!,
you should totally drop hints about it, say stuff like "imagine me and you kissin" and see how she reacts and even if she acts shocked in disapproval, then you can always say you were just kiddin lol!!
be yourself!