...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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ok, ive had problems shaving my underarms. ive already asked this question, and everybodys answer was helpful. But now nair, it doesn say that you can use it for your underarms, but can you? (link)
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dont do it! it is very painful and doesnt work!
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well, i've been having my period since i was 11 (i'm now 14) and i've skipped a month or two every now and then. But i haven't had a period in 4 or 5 months now. Any idea why that might be? I'm not sexually active at all, so that can't have anything to do with it.
suggestions?? (link)
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its natural to miss a couple of months at such a young age
hakuna matata
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What is the best kind for white strips you can find in a grocery or drug store.
i need whiter teeth. :] (link)
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Crest white strips are the bomb!
nothing else works as well but save your money cuz they are kinda pricey!
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okay so im making a cd to put in my car for the summer..can anyone think of some good summer songs to put on it..thanks =] (link)
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jacks mannequin
anberlin
jack johnson
fall out boy
mae
motion city soundtrack
panic!
ok go
those are some good summer bands to listen to... oh and you gotta add lil wayne for some twist!
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I got my nails done yesterday, I've never gotten them done before. I got a french manicure. When I came home I put an extra coat of clear nail polish over them. I want them to last until I go on vacation this friday. Do you think they will? (link)
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Yes.
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i was best friends with this guy (i mean we did everything together hung out like every day) and we ended up having a thing for each other the whole time. finally months later he asked me out and we were both extremely happy cause we like each other alot but problem is he is going to college now and im a senior in hs. i saw it coming but he broke up with me bc he knows he shouldnt be in a relationship when he is going to college and will be meeting lots of girls. we still really like each other but idk what to do. i totally understand the situtation and im not asking for a relationship with him but i still want us to be "talking". is that a bad idea and cause me to just get more attached to him? i DO NOT want to lose him bc he is my best friend and someone i like so much.. and how do i get him to keep his feelings for me and not forget about me?? what should i do? (link)
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i think that you should explain to him that you still value his friendship and would like to remain friends ans maybe talk every once in a while (but not every night). You should start seeing other people and maybe in the future after college, something will come about with the two of you... but dont get your hopes up!
If he says he doesnt want to be friends, then just give him some time, maybe call him in a month of so to see how hes doing
shay
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we are writing a diary for romeo and juliet and I am doing juliet. I am trying to think of new ways to close the entries. I've used until nextime, yours truly, etc., but i need some more. i have gotten to a sad part in the story so i kind of need one to end it in a sad way. if anyone has any ideas, please let me know! thanks! (link)
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unless your teacher kincurs, i dont think that it is a big deal how you close, so you can use the same ones over.
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does anyone know a site that has a really easy but thorough explination of photosynthesis? im in 9th grade and its on our bio final but i never understood it and i'm getting so frustrated because no matter how it's explained to me i can't understand it. are there any sites or anything?
thanks (link)
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www.wikipedia.com
use the search engine!
shay
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I told this girl a secret and she is going in the halls and screaming I know your secret. Help (link)
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if she sees that it isnt bothering you then she will stop so hakuna matata
ps. never tell her a secret again
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how can you wear abercrombie and hollister without looking like a wannabe? (link)
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just because you want to wear abercrombie or hollister doesnt make you a "wannabe". If you want to wear it, wear it!
shay
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hello..
i dont no wat to do.
ill tell you wat happend. on friday night, my bf had a few mates over and it was around 11, i was out the bak and he was out the front, and i unexpectedly walked out there n he was round the side, he came bak and smelt of smoke, i asked, have you been smoking and hes like yes.. i walked away very upset. the thing is, i asked him about 2 months ago to give up and he said he would, the same with weed to.. i asked him to give it up and he said yes he would. i even asked him 2 days ago if hes still given up and he said yes.. then on friday night, we ended up having a huge fight, becuase turns out he has urges and all this crap.. i was so upset, its like he tried to hide it from me, and thats not was relationships should be based on. hes also turned it bak around on me, making me feel like shit. also the next morning he got up me again saying that i should have cleaned up after the bbq because all the food he cookd went to waste, we also then had another fight. i just dont no wat to do.. do relationships go threw this at the 1yr stage, and how do u get threw it. i love him so much and dont want to lose him, but how do get around this, ive told him hes broken that trust and all that. do i wait for him to call or text since he hasnt spoken to me since then? or should i b the one to make it all better. im so confused... help (link)
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I know what you are going through and you cant let him make you feel guilty. He is trying to turn this onto you because he knows that he is the one at fault. If you still want to be with him then tell him that he needs to be honest with you about things and promise not to get mad when he tells you what he has done with the drugs and what not. He has probably been hiding this from you because he is afraid of your reaction. The second solution is breaking up. If this is somthing that you are absolutley against and he will not stop, then it is time to quit.
shay
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ok so heres the thing. im in LOVE with this guy. i mean im in love! but i never met him he never met me i never talked to him so he has no idea i exist. he lives in the UK i live in america. hes famous. now before you say this is just a celebrity obsession its not. im not obsessed with him. i have had other boyfriends but i dumped them because of him. and i didnt liek these boys either. and they would come to me and be like are you ok? its liek your in love with someone else its like your tryingto find someone so you dont have to be in love with him or something. theyve said that to me many times. but i have no idea what to do. please help (link)
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girl.. im sorry but you have got to get over it. you cant be in love with him, you have never met him. this is a celebrity infatuation. you cant let that interfere with your life.
shay
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does anyone remember this really dirty song that came out in around 2002, maybe 2001? it isn't my neck my back, or that how many licks song by lil kim. i tried to google everything i could think of in the song but nothing came out.
all i remember is that its sung by a woman and it was really dirty and had a lot of innuendo. thanks for any suggestions. (link)
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christina aguellera? maybe? lol
shay
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Alright so i like this kid and we have been friends for a pretty long time but just this week he broke up with his gf should i ask him out or give him time..? Plzzz help (link)
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I dont think that you should ask him out right away, he just got out of a relationship, so who knows what his motives are right now. Maybe you should ask him how he feels about the split and if he doesnt seem to broken up and seems into you then ask him if he sees anything happening between you two.
shay
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SO theres this boy[David] , that I used to like and he used to like me too, we never went out because we just didn't believe in it really. We did alot of stuff [if you know what i mean] and that was the first time for both of us.We both never really did it with anyone else.The other day, i was at this party and these guys were all fingering me[no i didnt like it and i didnt want it]. David was there and he watched them do it and after the party, when a few of us were waiting for a ride,he brought up how they did that. And I think he seems kinda mad that they did that ,since he usually is the only one and I like david so much and he likes me to , we just dont believe in going out at our age [so please dont lecture me on that].I Don't know what to do and Im just scared that he thinks I would let anyone do that to me[and i wouldn't,they just did it and no one helped me] and that I didnt care about him and I was just a plain out slut but im not!
Please help? (link)
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So, basically what went on was you were getting mulested by a couple of guys and no one was around to help?... I don't understand if David was around and noticed that you didnt like it, wouldnt he help you? This is very skechy to me... can you explain better?
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Dear shay!
I am in love with the guy who is 6 years older than me. I got to know him because of my aunt. But one thing is that I've never met him outside. He's in UK and I am in SG. We just contect by mails. And sometimes he seems sooo caring. Sometimes he seems cold..I have a plan to go to UK in november. Alright ! to be honest, this is like a on line romance.. you can say that. But he's the doctor and i dont think he would play arond like others. And I don't even know if he got a girlfriend.. The thing is I am soo shy when I write to him .. The feeling I hae for him is completely different that I had had with oters. Plz.. helep me !! give me convident to ask him if he got gf or a little clue to show him i care and I want him soo badd!! (link)
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Even though he is a doctor he is most likely like all other guys, its like in their blood they have to play games. anyway, i may hav gotten to this a couple months late so I think you may have already asked him so i am sorry but if you havent just nonchalantly ask him if he is seeing anyone at the moment.
shay
again, im sorry for getting to this late
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Sometimes I feel pressured to do things with guys that I know I shouldn't do. Some of my friends have been talking about how they have done some naughty things with guys. It makes me feel as though I kinda have too. My parents are against it, although my mom doesn't trust me anymore because she found a note in one of my pockets talking about that? Is there anything I could do or say to regain my mom's trust? What should I say to my friends when they start talking about stuff like that? (link)
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Tell your friends that you have standards and you are looking to live up to them. You cant just expect to gain your moms trust back right away, you have to give it time. Show her that she can trust you.
shay
Sooo sorry i got to this late!
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okay this is actually a very long thing but ill make it as short as i can:
Theres this guy and we were like BEST FRIENDS last year and we were always flirting and everyone knew we liked eachother.. and then over the summer we told eachother that we really do like eachother.. and then the next school year rolls around and were still friends but like the whole school knows hes trying to ask me out, so things are a little harder and more akward but we try hard but then things start to get so annoying cuz people wont stop bugging us and like mostly him cuz he is just like retarded and too afraid to ask me out so we like take long walks talking about it and he says he wants to ask me and not me to ask him and that he still likes me and everyhting but he still doesnt do it.. it gets really old and i let him know that but things kind of continute the same then things start to slow down a little cuz we both have kind of lost energy trying to find time for eachother cuz were not in any classes together and not from the same town. So then all of a sudden he says he doesnt like me anymore.. after liking me for sooo long, and then a few days later he says he does and tehn the next week he doesnt, so RIGHT NOW hes saying he doenst but omg he acts like he likes me like even more now and he like i dont even know but now im hanging out with a lot of guys more than usual and he gets all like jealous kind of and i don know what to do, cuz we will prolly never end up going out cuz hes stupid but i still like him, but i hate him for what hes done to me and how he wasted my time!! ahh i need help! please do your best, i knwo this is kind of too retarded of a situation but i tried
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I understand completely what he is doing. He likes you, I can tell you that much. The reason he says he doesnt is because he doesnt want to keep getting bugged about it, and he is scared to ask you out. Although he may know that you will say yes he probably scared of committment.
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Hey i was wondering (ne one can answer this) what are some good types of make up? like eye shadow? eyeliner? mascara? lipgloss? lipgloss that tastes good? and if you could put a price and where you got it.. i would highly appreciate it.. thank you! (link)
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MAC is a really good kind or make-up, but there are cheaper make-up stuff at Wal*Mart
-shay
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hey,
i am going to redo my room what should i do.
pick colors. (link)
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light blue is always kind of cute.. Dont choose yellow, it always looks gross, maybe a light or dark green will do
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