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confused and upset
hello..
i dont no wat to do.
ill tell you wat happend. on friday night, my bf had a few mates over and it was around 11, i was out the bak and he was out the front, and i unexpectedly walked out there n he was round the side, he came bak and smelt of smoke, i asked, have you been smoking and hes like yes.. i walked away very upset. the thing is, i asked him about 2 months ago to give up and he said he would, the same with weed to.. i asked him to give it up and he said yes he would. i even asked him 2 days ago if hes still given up and he said yes.. then on friday night, we ended up having a huge fight, becuase turns out he has urges and all this crap.. i was so upset, its like he tried to hide it from me, and thats not was relationships should be based on. hes also turned it bak around on me, making me feel like shit. also the next morning he got up me again saying that i should have cleaned up after the bbq because all the food he cookd went to waste, we also then had another fight. i just dont no wat to do.. do relationships go threw this at the 1yr stage, and how do u get threw it. i love him so much and dont want to lose him, but how do get around this, ive told him hes broken that trust and all that. do i wait for him to call or text since he hasnt spoken to me since then? or should i b the one to make it all better. im so confused... help
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I know what you are going through and you cant let him make you feel guilty. He is trying to turn this onto you because he knows that he is the one at fault. If you still want to be with him then tell him that he needs to be honest with you about things and promise not to get mad when he tells you what he has done with the drugs and what not. He has probably been hiding this from you because he is afraid of your reaction. The second solution is breaking up. If this is somthing that you are absolutley against and he will not stop, then it is time to quit.
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