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Hey guys!,

I'm 16 years old and I live in Ontario Canada. I love hanging out with my really good friends. I have to say I'm pretty good at giving advice. So ask away:) and I'll do my best to help you.

Lots of love,

Lovely Lisa

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hey. I was just wondering why some girls have got to be such bitches.I mean sure at the beginning they can be all nice. but then they meet the wrong ppl and obviously have low self esteem and have something wrong with them so they try to be like someone they "think" is cool .which is really sad cause being yourself is the best way to be and will get you somewhere in life.not fucking be some dumb ass.clone of some person. and sometimes people say something and it totally gets turned around ..but some people are so fucking stupid they make it all damn drama and dont move on from it. so whoever is sending shit and being a complete bitch better damn well stop if they know whats good for them. get a life and move on!!! shit stop causing so much fucking bullshit that ain`t true!!!

I totally agree, some people are so immature

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Hi, my friend on MSN is talking about commitinf suicide. I really want to help him, but I can only talk to him on MSN. How do I convince to stay alive?

Hey hun,
This is a very tough thing to deal with. but if you wanna help your friend you have to make him want to live. remind him of the things that make him happy. people that care about him and the people that want him to be here. Dont call him stupid, dont say that he is stupid to want to kill himself. You probably dont know what kind of life he has. and you probably dont know the full extent of why he doesn't want to live anymore. DONT JUDGE. you could tell him, that life is hard, and by killing yourself you would be taking the easy way out. LIFE IS HARD! thats what makes it life. you just have to stick with things. and try to make it through allt he hard things in life. you cant give up. everyone goes through hard things believe me. and he may thing there is no way out but there is he just has to deal with his problems and try to sort through them.. its going to be hard..but he shouldn't kill himself..im sure someone will miss him and wish he was still alive.

I hope i helped.. lots of love!

Lovely lisa

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Hey, I really love my bros friend, but he's 5 years older then me!!! I'm really young, fat and ugly, and know that I will NEVER get a bf. Especailly my bros friend!! I love him soooooooo much and don't know what to do!! I'm only 10 and have a 36-38 AA size bra. It's not that bad but I dont feel comforatable around him. PLease help and if you have some diet tips please tell me. Also, I think he fancies my sis, he flirts with her ALL the time! I NEED ADVISE!!!!!!!!!

Hey hun,

I never want to hear you say you are fat and ugly. everyone is beautiful no matter what! and your not fat either. your sister gave me your wieght and hieght.Your a normal healthy wieght. your BMI ( body mass idex) is 23.7. which is normal. you may want to consider exersising just to keep your wieght at that normal level. but you are only 10. you are still growing! and im sure you are beautiful. you dont need to worry about that. NEVER GO ON A DIET!!!! diets are very very very bad for you. they can actually make you gain wieght. and later in life they make it harder for you to loose wieght. just enjoy life while you are young, it doesn't last forever! believe me. (even tho im only 16) lol..now about this boy I think he is to old for you. you guys what differen't things out of life right now. he is interested in sex most likely. so i think you need to try to find someone more your age okay hun. i know you really like him. i dont think he would be interested in a 10 year old. and it has nothing to do with the person you are or the way you look. he probably thinks your amazing. but you are to young..plus its pretty illegal lol..anyways your honestly to young to be thinking about a bf. just have fun and enjoy life okay sweety, u will find a bf when the time is right for you!!! and about him liking your sister.she is 17 i doubt she would date him lol.she is probably interested in older guys haha.i hope i helped love ya lots xoxoxox

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HEY HUN.
how come you're such a DOUCHE?!?!?!
i need some advice, mmmmmk??
so theres this girl LISA.
&. shes A HOMO!!!
&. nobody likes her b/c she copies EVERYBODY ALL THE FREAKING TIME!!
HEY BUD. HERES AN IDEA>
DONT FREAKING MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE FOR LIKING SOMETHING AND THEN 2 SECONDS LATER YOU TURN AROUND AND SAY YOU'RE IN LOVE WITH THE SAME THING.
THAT.. would be great.
hmm oh hey, looks like you're the one getting advice not me.
YOU SHOULD RELE TAKE THAT INTO CONSiDERATION.
it'd do you good
you MIGHT even make some more frens.
*MIGHT* was the keyword there.
ok? k.
so bye now
xoxoxoxoxoxxox
LOVE U HUN!!!!!!!1125t463!!one!~!!@12
(oh haha we can lie about "luving" people too you fake ass hoeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee)

I think you need to deal with your anger, you could try not blaming other people for your problems. you need to stop calling other people names to make yourself feel better. and maybe if you think this person is all those things stop being so imature and talking about it on an advice coloum..this is for people that actually need help. not for all your bull shit. so just grow up. k bye now * still love ya LOTS*

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My parents got divorced and i'v been living with my mom, brother, and step-dad for over a year. I feel really bad for my dad because he lives alone and seems lonley. I think he should get a pet too bt he works and say`s he wouldn`t be able to take care of it and stuff. I think i want to live with my dad, but if i do i know my mom will cry and get alll upset.. :/ what should i do or say?! Plez help

Hey hun..


I TOTALLY understand exactly waht you are going through...about 4 years ago my parents separated..and i had to choose who to live with..and at first i was going to live with my mom..but then i knew she wouldn't have a lot of money after the divorce so i figured it would be better for everyone if i lived with my dad..but after a summer of living with my dad..i got totally sick of it and i wanted to move back with my mom..so i did..and my dad was all like why dont u want to live with me whats wrong with me..and i didnt know what to say to that..so i just left..but then when i lived with my mom i never went to school or anything..so my mom made me move back with my dad..even though i knoe she didn't want me to..but she said it was for the best..and so now i live with my dad..but i know what your going through..it isn't fair for teens/children to have to go through something like that..but dont feel that you would be hurting one or the other with your desision..if they love you and know what is best for you..they should let you make your own desision..its totally up to you..its your choice not theres..i hope i helped..

mad love

lisa xoxoxox

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hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high

hey hun..

first of all..cant you leave tampons in for 6-8 hours..and school is only about 5 hours..so why would u have to change it inbetween classes?..that kind of confused me..but if your scared of your friends seeing it..you shouldn't be..they all go through the same things as you...although if you have guy friends that go through it it might not be such a great idea...but i think if u change it durring lunch that should be fine..i wouldn't worry about it k hun

mad love

lisa xxoxox

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Okay maybe i'm just over-reacting, but, me and my boyfriend have just recently become sexually active, and we had sex the first time without a condom, i know i know bad decisio, but it wasn't hardcore sex.. it was a put it in take it out kind of thing. Like an experiment. But non-the-less, it wasn't protected. But we've had sex about 3 or 4 times since then, in the last 3 months. I had my period after the first time we had sex, and I know for a fact none of the other condoms have broke. But, for some reason, I haven't had my period in over a month, going on two! I've taken two pregnancy tests and they both said i wasn't pregnant, but i just cant' shake this feeling that I am!! Why haven't I had my period!? I know this is long, but I really need advice. Please help!

hey hun!..

well first of all...how old are you and when did you start your period. because when you first start it, it can be irregular for some time..you can skip months between periods..its perfectly normal. but if you are usually regular i think you should go to the doctors and let them do a pregnancy test just to be sure. with some pregnancy tests especially done by the doctor..they can detect a pregnacy within first week of implantion..so i would go to the doctor just to make sure.. but i dont htink you have anything to worry about. you probably just missed a few periods. but i dont mean to get all motherly on your ass LOL but i think you should go on the pill or use another birth control method other than a condom just to be safe...becase then you wont have to worry as much about these kind of things. i really hope i helped..my email is curvylady88@hotmail.com if you want to ask me anymore questions. just so you know im 16/f/canada...it might help you to relate to me more.

much love
Lisa xxx

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Okay.. i went out with this one kid a couple times. One time we broke up because we didnt hangou enough.. and then brokeup again because we hungout 'too much' i really really like him but he acts like such a jerk around his friends! i asked him back out and he said he didnt know.. then his friend came on the phone and said NO. what can i do to make him really jelous and come to his senses

Hey hun!,

I think that you should totally end this relationship!!! Its pretty obvious that it isn't going to work out between the 2 of you!...if it doesn't work out because u hung out to little..and then it doesnt work if you have hung out to much. then i dont think it is ever going to work out.. i say dont worry about it..get over him ..it will take time but im sure you can do it..he isnt the right guy for you. i hope i've helped...

lisa xoxoxoxo

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What do you do when you have an ex girlfriend messing around with you behind her new boyfriends back?

hey,

well i think that if she has a bf and she is messing around with you..its kinda clear that she doesn't really want to be with her bf.. she wants to be with you.. so i think that you should talk to her about it. i think she needs to break up with her current bf..she is being a total bitch for cheating on him.. and if she still just wants to mess around with you behind his back..i think you should dump her..you may care for her..but she needs a reality check hun..i hope i helped

if you need anymore help just ask me!!!!!!

lisa xxxxx

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I never really wear make-up, because I don't think it looks good on me at all. Does anyone know of any colors I should be using or colors that would look good on me? I have black hair and brown eyes, and I have very white skin.

hey hun! try to use natural tones..maybe just wear a little bit of blush and mascara maybe a light and pretty eye shadow. DONT OVER DO IT!

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Alright i recently got my hair cut to shorter then i ever had it before...kinda past my shoulders...and it's soo thinned out too but the point is my hair use to be where my boob was...around there and its about
------------------------------------------- this much. how long do u think will it take for me to grow it out again? my said a month but then again it's her...so please help! i've been depressed about this since wednesday! i'm never getting it cut at that place again. please help!

ITs just hair hunni. Just chillax..it cant be as bad as you think..believe me just calm down life isnt about hair. there are more important things.

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Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx

hey hun,

It can dry and damage your hair. But it depends on your hair type. If you need to wash it everyday it probably means that you have oil build up or something like that. my hair gets greasy really easily so i have to wash it everyday. dont worry about it to much. just use a good conditioner and shampoo that is mild on your hair

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My brother's friend Dan is wicked hott! and he always shows off his stomache to me and stuff when hes at my house. we flirt a little. He even was goin to beet up a kid that was being mean to me, him self. i really like him, and he may like me. the thing is that he's my brothers friend and hes 2 years older than me. would i be betraying my brother or would he even care?

I wouldn't say you would be betraying your brother. your brother may feel the need to protect you and he may not trust his friend to date you. He may feel like he has to be the big brother. It could create problems. but if you really like this guy. I would say go for it. you only live once hun. live it the best way you can.

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ok...I lost my virginity when i was 11...im 14 now..ive never messed around w/ anyone except one boy...but both of them boys i truly LOVED...does that make me a slut?...

yeah that is kinda young sweetie. but i wouldn't say you were slutty. Its a normal thing hunni everyone experiences it eventually in life. some early than others. Dont worry about it.
SB

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