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Mature Woman and mother of 2 soon to be 3. i've been married and divorced. Now exploring a new relationship. I maybe young but i know a bit about a thing or two. So if u gotta know something just ask im all ears! Giving my HONEST opinion.
Gender: Female
Location: louisiana
Age: 23
Yahoo: purplehazelnut22
Member Since: January 15, 2005
Answers: 7
Last Update: April 20, 2005
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when are the chances of getting pregnant the highest? (link)
when u have sex with out protection.!


ok, i like this guy. my friend IMed him and asked him what he liked about me, he told her i was nice and kind and then she tried to get him more into details and he avoided the subject and told her it's not nice to talk about people behind there backs. almost like he was sticking up for me. he used to IM me all the time but now he dosn't i IM him with a random question which ends up turning into a conversation. he recently told me his dad had cancer, and the way he told me i didnt get what he said at first, so i asked him if his dad had cancer. he said he had to go and said bye, and signed off. In school i notice whenever im hanging out with a guy he looks at me laugh or watever, same with my best friend.

he sit's closer to me at lunch and talks to one of the guys i hang out with. i've caught him looking at me and i look away. i've also caught his mum looking at me like he told her something. His mum and my mum talks.i've called him once and it's always akward we end up taling about more personal stuff on Instant message too. more about our families too! when ever i tell him something random, he points it out or when i say somthing he teases me or tries to prove he's right!we are kinda friends i mean we've kinda talked in school and when he looks at me i look away. when i didnt go to a dance he Imed me and asked me where i was? and also when i left home sick, he asked me where i went? and it was like he accually cared about where i was. i know most guys would tell the girl they like, but the last time he told a girl he liked her she didnt like him back and it broke his heart. i watched him say by day in pain!(i kinda felt bad and fell for him) when ever i enter class he stares at me but dosnt smile.once in class he said my name and waved, smiling. that has only happended once, besides him looking at me. my friend always chats with him, but im usually by him and i kinda see him looking at her and then me but i look away. i see fear and sadness in his eyes. like he's afraid to tell me.

does he like me?

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hmm well to me like he is hurt and afraid, to tell u that he likes you. but you also have to remember that guys are gusy and they do weird things. some guys will be mean and say hurtful things because they cant show their true feelings. So i can say just be there for him a lil more flirt and see if he flirts back. he should come around. if u need any more help just ask .


Not really a health question I guess but is there a way to get rid of a few zits I have like 4 and I want them to go away!!! Is there something at HOME I can try to use to make them go away or get smaller? I don't really wanna go buy something b/c I have oxypads but those take a few days... so please help me! O and I heard toothpaste helps is this true? thanks!!!

ps. 13/f (link)
toothpaste effective yet inexpensive. i use it myself especially on the nose and chin areas . DONT EVER POP A PIMPLE ON YOUR NOSE!!! leaves scars got two as evidence lol. but toothpaste dries it up so well and makes ya face smell fresh.


What are some ways to clean my dedicates like bras and pantyhose? They always come out tattered and deformed in the regular wash. (link)
hand wash mild soap hang dry.


I am sick with the flu and my grandmother want to give me some medicine that they used to use in her childhood days.Viniger and greentea.how can i get out of this?quick i am getting my next treatment in 30 minutes! (link)
put it in ya mouth and spit it up faking that u threw it up. hey worked for me and too well my kids do it to me lol


OK. See me and my b/f have been going out for a little over three months...everytime i see him all we really do is make out. i mean he has gone up my shirt, but he hasnt tried to go any farther than that. im starting to get tired of the same old thing everytime i see him. why wont he go farther with me? another thing is... i want him to finger me and i know he wants to because he told my friend he wanted to but he never has, and he told her this when we had only been dating a month. if he does finger me tho im scared that he wont like it because i have hair... down there... should i shave it? what do guys perfer? does it really matter? plz answer ill rate sincerely confused (link)
i say dont go any further with him. he's a kiss and tell person.your friend shouldn't know what yall did or do! god knows who else he told or whom he'll tell! you dont want false reports out in the streets about you.


My boyfriend went to my window yesterday but my mom was in the next room awake. Its now 2:15 and he left because it was really cold but is there anyway that i can get him inside without my mom or dad noticing i need to get him in my room! He is really nervous that he will get caught because if we do then most likley i wont ever be able to see him again and were next door neighbors! Help please!!! (link)
seriously i wouldn't let him in the house like that. cause all it takes is 1 time for ya parents to catch him or for another neighbor or perhaps a cop that may drive by seeing him enter or exit the window and think he is up to something criminal. i know both of u dont want that. think about it.. its too risky to have him come over like that. entering caught, being in the house at that time caught, leaving caught! DONT DO IT. OR STOP WHILE U ARE AHEAD.




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