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ok i decided that I want to wear shoes with a pointed front but I don't know how to decide if it's right or not since it feels akward.

are your toes supposed to feel tight in the front?

or are your toes supposed to be bellow the point, feeling comfortablely?

on the sides of my foot, are they supposed to feel really tight or really firm? or are they supposed to be a little loose and comfy? (link)
Your feet are usually supposed to start before the point starts and the shoe becomes narrower. You may need to try a few different pairs as every shoe is not right for everyone. However, I am sure u will find a pointed shoe you feel comfortable in. The shoe should fit the shape of your foot and shouldnt be to loose because then u are at risk of blisters. Again the point should start right wear your toes stop.
Hope thats helpful!


okay so i'm REALLY wanting songs that are like remixes,
like how Goodnight Nurse did milkshake

anythings great! :D
thanks! (link)
well theres old stuff like Rockwilder remix of Destiny's Child Bootylicious with missy elliot. I cant really think of anything else I dont know what type of music ur into, sorry if that didnt help!


Does baby oil cause someone to tan better? (link)
yes it does allow you to tan better, I do however kno someone who used baby oil for many summers to get a better tan and ended up with skin cancer, not that baby oil gives u skin cancer, its the tanning and the attraction of the UVA and UVB rays that does it.


"in literature, evil often triumphs but never conquers"

can anyone paraphrase that?
also, does anyone know how i could start off some topic sentences?

thanks in advance :) (link)
In many cases throughout the history of literature the evil attempts to take over, and may have short lived glory but it never actually wins the battle. I dont kno ill try to think of more. This is just a quick thought.


Does anyone know any pop or rock songs that involve being imperfect? I wish that I could hear some things that relate... help? (link)
video by india arie
or beautiful flower by india arie
beautiful by christina aguilera
hope i helped!


im 16/f. what are some 'summer essentials' i should get. like makeup & lotions & hair stuff. i cant really think of anything. ideas are appreciated. thanks!! (link)
all the other summer essentials that were given were great, I agree. I would also like to add to summer essentials sun block!! With at least an SPF of 15!


i have no idea what to get my best friend for her sweet 16.
Money is not a big problem so if you have any good ideas for gifts please leave a link to the gift or tell me what it is

thanks =) (link)
If shes gonna start to drive I agree that a gascard is a great idea. Also something from tiffanys personalized or not is a great keepsake. They even have key chains or if you want to get her personalized jewlery from tiffany thats nice to. Or get her a gift card to her favorite store.


what are some cute outfits to wear these days?

i am 14 yrs old./female.
tall. blonde hair. blue eyes.
kinda tan.

what are some good like summer-ish outfits?
name everything, cause i have EVERYTHING!

also make up and hair ideas
would be nice too. =] (link)
a light summer tunic with leggings and flip flops is cute. In the summer a casual pony tail is always cute and functional. Soffe shorts are comfy and cool if ur just hanging around in the summer. colorful flats or jelly flats short shorts and bermuda's are in as well.


Ok sorry if this is long,
i used to cut my wrists in 5th and 6th grade(im 13/f) but i stopped. Now im just really tired and hungry all the time. the only thing i do is play online video games and sleep and watch TV. My mom thinks im this happy kid and all, but i'm not. I've just been sad a lot i get headaches and chest pain and i wonder if i am depressed. My cousin is always being mean to me and calls me bad names. I feel like if i tell my mom i'll be failing her or something. Do you think im depressed or am i worried for nothing? and if i am, how would i tell my mom? or who else would i tell? (link)
Well I think you definitly need to talk to an adult you trust about this situation. In the end it will be for your own good. It is possible you are depressed or may have some other kind of chemical imbalance that only a doctor or physcologist can diagnose. If you dont feel comfortable talking to your mom by yourself you can always ask a school guidance counselor to help you with strategies. Plus sometimes your school may be able to offer you with services to help you with this problem. You are NOT failing your mother by telling her about this. You must tell an adult you trust becuase otherwise your condition will not get better and it could possibly worsen. Depression and other types of mental illness (this doesnt mean your crazy) are medical problems. If you broke your arm you would tell someone right?
I hope I helped let me know if you need any more help!


I am looking for a really cute outfit to wear to my uncles wedding this summer, doess anyone know any good clothing websites? (link)
forever21.com
if its fancier jessicamclintock which u can find through her boutiques nordstrom, macy's, and possibly nieman marcus.


i have this project in my 7th grade class and i have to make a collage that relates to me. i really want to get the pics from magazines.. so what kind of magazines have alot of cute girly stuff but also random things that i'd like.. like sports such soccer, volleyball, dance... other things i like like the color green, sunshine, beaches, fun quotes, etc. i have an idea of how it would look but where can i find these magazines because i currently have none and i dont think my friends want me to be snipping through theirs. im okay with buying a couple magazines that have alot of stuff so i can find exactly what i need. thanks soo much for the help, its a big project! :)

and another thing for the project is that i have to find a song relating to me.. wow.. i mean either i sing it or i just play it. i was thinking of singing it maybe.. but first of all i have no idea how to find a song like that! i mean some kids got it easy.. like they have a song their parents sung to them since they were little and it relates alot to them, or they just heard it alot.. or they've gone through death, tough times, and stuff like that.. i havent really gone through alot of that.. but i cant find a song really relating to me! i mean im a positive person, i guess people describe me as "sunny", humorous, i love nature and just having a good time, understanding, kind, interesting, and etc. the song either has to make you feel a certain emotion relating to you or the lyrics have to relate to you. and when we present our projects we'll say why we chose it and stuff. if your kinda like me or wanna help in anyway feel free to say songs relating to you and why they relate to you and/or any advice that would help me choose a song.

THANKS! if i ace this project im getting an A in Writing! btw im a girl if you didnt notice, haha. (link)
I would think good magazines to cut out things from would be Cosmo Girl, Seventeen, or Teen Vogue and maybe even Time if you want to seem inteligent and have some interest in word affairs. Anyway in terms of songs like the previous advice giver destiny's child's girl and many other songs or maybe even independent women would be good. Christina Aguilera's beautiful or fighter are good to. India Arie, I dont kno if you have heard of her shes a great artist songs like Just for Today or Video are great inspiration "girl power" type songs. You said that your understanding and love nature etc. so now that im thinking beautiful or fighter might be a little to like intense to like tell about you but just for today and video are greater natur"e" type Im loving just being me type songs which I happen to love as well! Good luck!!


i'm so paranoid about keeping a tampon in for more than 1 hour. i don't know why, but i feel like i'm gonna get TSS or something if i keep it in for like 2 hours or something. yesterday i put one in and i took it out after 30 minutes! what should i do about this? (link)
Well thirty minutes is a little bit short, but if thats all ur comfortable with thats all your comfortable with. However, keeping a tampon in for about four hours is definitly safe.


13/f -- Could someone give me links to cute dresses at places like, JCPenny, Macy's, etc (American Eagle and stuff to if they are good enough) for my 8th grade semi-formal? Actually everyone calls it the formals but I think its semi formal. I don't to go over board. Plus, I dont want any dresses lower than my knee. Thanks!

-Light brown hair, roughly 2 inches past shoulder
-Brown eyes
-Pretty light skin but not albino
-5'2
-100lbs (YES no disagreement on GAINING weight lol)
-Pretty skinny
-34A
-Bangs on the left side of my face, just past my eyes (not side-swept bangs)

Thats just info to help me find a good dress for me. I can't put a pic on here, but if I had one I would. If you need more info to determine a good dress I'll be more than happy. Thank you so much in advance, and every answer will be rated. (link)
forever 21 sometimes has cute dresses, its hit or miss though depending on the day you are there. or Delias.
www.delias.com
www.forever21.com


Ok im 16. Had my period since August of 04 and it has always been regular and on time, give or take a few days. Its been late on 1 occasion last year due to stressing about something but thats not the case this time. I have not been stressing at all about anything recently, my diet hasnt changed, ive not been sexually active.

Well now it is late, it was due around April 27th.

This may sound insane, but please dont judge..
Im starting to worry because im making myself think im going through early menopause or something because i keep gettings like hot flushes and stuff and i dont know.. i guess i could just be being stupid.. but it is not uncommon for this to happen.

But what are the chances of that happening? like.. the odds of it or something.. idk.. (link)
usually if a person is going through early menapause there are other symtoms other than a slightly late period, its only May 8 so I dont think you have anything to worry about yet. If you dont get it by next month you should call your doctor and ask if you should come in for a check up of some sort. At this point I wouldnt worry. SOmetimes even if your period is normally regular as a teenager it can become slightly off, sometimes you dont think your stressed but your body knows differently. If it goes more than a month again you might want to call your doctor just in case because I am not a doctor so I dont know your medical history nor can i analyze it.
Good Luck!


my friend's birthday is on Friday and i have to give her a present i don't know what though!

i know i am giving her a duck for her rubber duckie collection

but i want to give her something else as well.

she is a very outdorsie kind of girl
and likes making things
like are and stuff.
help? (link)
hmm I dont kno if this will help but you could get her a gift card to like her favorite outdoors or art supply store, or even a place like target where they sell both! I dont kno if a gift card is special enough though but when Im not sure what to get a gift card is always the best bet! lol. You could also take her to an arts and crafts class! Sometimes they offer them at like A.c. Moore or a local art supply store and then if she likes something at the store you could let her pick out something or if you see shes interested in something at the seminar and its in your price range you could sneak to the side and buy it for. I dont kno if thats realistic for you but I hope that helped!


Does anyone know a website that I can buy sports posters that are large in size.

Also...i'm redoing my little brothers room...he's 14 and a sports finatic. ANy Ideas? (link)
many inexpensive stores such as target and more expensive stores such as potterybarn teen sell sports themed bedroom items, such as lamps, bedding etc. Because hes alittle older you might not want to have bedding with like sports stuff on it just like bedding that matches the colors of maybe his favorite sports team, solid colors are usually good for teens that age.


how do you double space?
like what do i press. like format, then what? or am i wrong? idno. help (link)
you can highlight the text that you wish to double space or set it before you start typing. If you are using microsoft word go to format and then paragraphing you will find the double space option there. Hope that explains it, if not let me know.


is it hard to become a police officer?

what classes can i take in high school to prepare me for a major in police science? (link)
forensics is always a course to take if you school offeres it and your interested in a career in police science.


in the song umbrella by rihanna what does "you can stand under my umbrella" mean.. or is it actually about an unbrella. im confused? lol

thankss (link)
I think its figrative meaning like symbolism like ill be here for you you can stay with me and when the weather is rainy ill stick by u like when things are bad im here for you. I think I could be wrong but thats what I take the song to mean.


My dauchshund ate a fairly large amount of peanut butter yesterday and later had diarrhea then started to vomit, she has been extremely lathargic since. She does not want to eat but she does drink water and later vomits it up. Is there anything I can give her to counter act the possible effects of the peanut butter. and it is not the one that has been pulled from the shelfs (link)
I would call your dog's vet if you can if the problem persists more than a day or two. Your vet will tell you exactly what to do and put you at ease if it is nothing serious.




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