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hey my name is sam! i am 13 and i go to oltman jr h! i love to help people with there problems! and i love to talk baout it with them! i am VERY open! i can keep secrets! and every thing that i get and answer is between just me and u!! so u can trust me and if u have any questions just ask!! i live in ellsworth wisconsin i just moved out of my moms in cottage grove into my dads so yea!! sincerly *sami*
E-mail: sammers91@yahoo.com
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Location: ellswoth wisconsin(just moved in with my dad)
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my friend is well a "slut" because she goes from boy to boy and the only reason why she does is because she thinks they are cute but recently my other friend broke up with her bf and now my "slut" friend wants to go out with him what should i do because they are both my friends but i dont want any of them to get mad at me...what should i do? (link)
well just say that u think that is wrong!! and if she doesn't listen and ends up going out with him there is really nothing that u can do about it sry i!! i hope that helped sincerly *sami*


well my friend keeps having these mood swings..like during luch she just takes my other friend and goes and sits at a different table and all she talks 2 is her and ignores the rest of us..then some days she is all hyper at lunch and stuff and sits w with us. Sometimes--like in the middle of my basketball game she yells put im mad at you. and she does it for no reason.

what should i do_

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well my boyfriend said out a bandaide on it but who cares wat he said and if she is going to do that then she aint a good a friend and a true friend!! so yea just tell her that u r sick of her switching back anf forth i hope that helped u!! sincerly *sami*


recently i had a cast on my leg because i broke a bone in my ankle. now i have a splint on my ankle and i look like a retard. I know people at school will make fun of me. What should i say back to them? (link)
okai well i would just fight your own battles and tell them that they can shut the hell up!! and if they dont listen tell an adult or just ignore them bc they are just trying to get u mad so if they ignore them and they will stop!! i hope i helped!! sincerly *sami*


So my two good friends are fighting, and no one can seem to get them back together. I'm okay with this, but whats most annoying is the way they fight/talk about each other behind their backs. I'm tired of it and want some help. Any advice? (link)
okai well u just need to tell them that they need to stop and that u dont want to here it!! well yea i dont kno wat else to say!! so i hope i helped!! sincerly *sami*


Everytime im around people i get nervous and i worry to much about what to say. Do i have some kind of disorder
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not not at all u r just very shy just step up and start talking it works!! trust me i hope that helped u sincerly *sami*


well.. the guy i like wants to finger me and i told him he could and..i know that we won't talk about it anymore i know that its just going to happen, and i just started using tampons the really little ones and.. i've never done anything else .. "downthere" so im pretty tight, and i know all guys automatically think "ohh use two fingers" is it going to hurt really bad? should i judt deal with it and it will get better? (link)
it wont really hurt!!i promise!! it will hurt for like 2 minutes or so but it wont hurt that bad!! so yea i hope that helped!! sincerly *sami*


alright, my friend is gettin really paranoid. he keeps thinkin that there might be "side effects" from masturbation. he's 15 and he says he's like addicted to bangin himself. so are there any "side effects" from too much masturbation? if so, what are they?

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no there isn't and if he is really paranoid it is probably sick of doing it himself and wants sum1 to do it for him!! or it could be because he needs it ALL the time and if he doesn't then it could make him crabby!! so yeai hope that helped!! sincerly *sami*


is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant? (link)
yes it is very safe!! it will make it much easier for her!! but if she is like 6 or more months pregnant then no!! i hope i helped!! sincerly, *sami*


im in my upper 30 so it is not like im a teen my boyfriend that i live with is not giving me what i need (passion) tried everything well that is except cheating on him to get what i need my problem is if i get caught he will leave me or throw me out i want to have all the passion but i dont wanna get thrown out for it what should i do i have not had it for 4 yrs (link)
well if u want it that bad just tell him!! dont cheat on him!! that is not the right thing!! but i hoped that helped u!! sincerly, *sami*


Well, My friend and i were just in a fight and recently we just made up. I still feel I don't trust him and that I kinda don't want to be friends anymore. He ALWAYS hurts the one he loves the most and then regrets it. He has done it to me way to many time and it has gone to far. Should I end the friendship because I don't want to get hurt again or should i keep with the frienship. I kinda feel like I am being used for advice, Help, support, and love and I know that is the meaning of the friendship but he expresses it in a different way... I know I said to him that I never wanted anything to come between us and never to have brake a relationship and I have always been the one keeping the friends together.. Should I stay friends or Not?? (link)
well if i were in your spot i would just tell him straight out and say that u r sick of getting hurt and if he keeps it up then your guys relationship is over! it all depends if u love or like him! but if your heart says yes then be friends but if your heart says no then dont be friends! i am going threw the same thing right now and i decided to not be her friend because we were best friends and now she wants to kick my friends butt and i wont let that happen!! so yea i wouldn't but some people would!!! but i hope that helped you!! sincerly *sami*




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