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hi, i really like to give people advice, and to help them. my hobby is to dance and i have a lot of friends.
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Member Since: August 28, 2006
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Last Update: September 3, 2006
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Ok.. I know this may sound really stupid but I'm going into high school and had to take an elective. I chose Commercial Design.. although I wasn't really familiar with the subject. Anyway, what exactly IS commercial design? Like what do you do? lol.. thank youu :] (link)
well mabye you could ask someone from school. it mabye an application of art to buisness. for example, interior desighn and architecture. but i am not sure. good luck!


I just met a girl online at espinthebottle.com and she is 13. I gave her my phone number and she called me and we talked for like 30 minutes. Is it possible that this could be an online predator trying to get to me?

signed,

cluelessCPU (link)
If i were you i would be aware on what you say to this girl, and like you probably already have been told DONT GIVE HER ANY PERSONAL INFO.


I'm 13/f, idk what to get one of my best friends for her birthday! she just turned 14 .. so what would you get a 14 year old girly girl for her birthday? (link)
why dont you ask one of her friends or your 14 year old friend. and if you know her well she probably hasnt changed her taste on stuff. you could get her jewlery, make up, clothing, gift card to her favorite mall, hair extensions.


My best friend and I always go shopping at the mall together, but there`s been a problem lately. My friend always wants us to match & it's starting to get annoying because I want my own style. For example: We both were shopping together & saw the same purses. We ended up buying the same one`s but in different colors, and now my friend wants to make a habit of this and buy matching purses for every season like a fall purse, winter purse, etc. This friend & I went to the mall this past Sunday [ Yesterday ] and she saw what I had picked out to buy, it was like a tshirt and a pair of jeans, and then she picked out the same one`s. She DID ask if I was okay with her buying the same thing`s as me and since I was on the spot, I said yes. Well now I don`t really want to have the same thing`s as my friend, because I want to be an individual, not a twin!! I`m not sure what I should do or say, because I would feed bad asking my friend to take back her purchases and I don`t want to take back mine. So what I`m asking, is, what should I do to stop the matching in the future? Please Help!!

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I totally understand how you are feeling. If i were you i would tell your friend that you would like your own style. and mabye you could give her tips on clothing she could get that isnt identicle to yours. So she will have her own style with a sprinkle of fashion taste from you. try it. hope it works!


i feel so weird because im 15 and i havent had my first kiss yet. is this normal? (link)
it is normel, some people dont have there first kiss until they are in college i bet


ok well i have acne. lots of it, i mean its like almost every wear on my body my back my face my chest even my butt. how do i get rid of it?

Thanx in advance! (link)
ask your doctor first but this stuff called Diffren works the BEST!


My friend just told me she smoked weed. She is 14, and I don't know what to do. I can't get her in troble. She said she only smoked half a bowl. What can I do to get her to quit? I don't want her to fool up her life (link)
if you really care about your friend, tell someone, because she can get sick and you dont want that to happen, tell someone when she can control smokeing. and if your friend is mad at you just think you did the right thing. and if later on she is still mad, ask her "if i was smokeing would you let me do it and get sick" and if she wouldnt tell mabye she isnt a real friend


I know you're supposed to eat breakfast every day, and it'll help your metabolism, but i never have time to eat it during the school year. my bus comes around 7:20 - 7:30 and i'm usually dressed by 7 (i shower at night) so by the time i wash up and do my hair & makeup and stuff its time to go. last year i had those quaker things and a water bottle, but i dont think thats enough for breakfast. i also think my bus driver is catching on lol. so what are ways i can either fit a fast breakfast in, what to have, or something nutitious i can take with me on the bus

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mabye you should go to bed earlier and set an alarm clock. also it might help if you had the clothes you are going to wear the next day layed out some where so you can get dressed faster, and also leave the makeup you are going to wear layed out, try it. and if you have a cell you could set it as an alarm.


i've always wanted to curl my hair. i've always liked girls who curled their hair. the problem is that my hair doesn't easily curl, and it doesn't hold curls well. i've tried using a curling iron and curling first the bottom layer of hair and then the top, but it never looks good.

does anybody have any tips to help me curl my hair better/easier? like can you give me step-by-step instructions on how to curl my hair?

here is a picture of curls that i like:

http://www.ashleytisdale.com/images_pub/pat718.jpg


and what size curling iron would i need to use?

and here is a picture of me, can you please tell me if i will look good with curls, and if you think my hair can curl like that:

http://img224.imageshack.us/img224/4615/aug2506003mc0.jpg

thanks so much! and sorry this was kinda long.

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did you use curlers that you put in your hair, mabey if you leave the iron in your hair for like 10 sec it might work, then put some hair stuff that will hold it longer. good luck


I just got out of a 5 1/2 year relationship (we were engaged) in July and I'm finding it very hard to deal with.

I left him because after a while, I realized that it was more of a friendship. I love him very much but I guess I'm just not in love with him anymore. I didn't feel that SPARK or that passion.

He was my best friend for so many years and I guess a part of me just wishes I felt the same as him. I know he loves me and is in love with me and it breaks my heart to hurt him this way.

Sometimes, I just feel like running back to him because I want so badly to just take away his pain and make everything better but I know it wouldn't be fair to do that.

I just don't know how to deal with everything. I don't know how to move on and deal with the way I feel.

It's hard to explain. I just feel like a terrible person because I've made him hurt this way. Everyone tells me that I what I've done is for the best. Everyone supports me. I've been told several times that he just wasn't the one for me and it was obvious.

So in a way I know what I've done is the best for ME but it's just so hard to move on.

I don't know if I'm making any sense. If anyone has gone through this, how did you deal with the breakup? How did you get over feeling so horrible about hurting someone you care very much about? (link)
i think that if the man really loved you he probably would respect your answer. its not your fault mabye you are just ment to be good friends and you arnt comfertable with this step. dont feel bad, this could be a new adventure for finding someone who is right for you. and your ex could find someone right for himself.


my pregnant sister is trying to find a unique [maybe exotic] MIDDLE name for her baby girl, so far its between Cache[accent over the e] and chenelle....

the babys name will be Alexis [middle name] Smigelski

does anyone have any suggestions for a middle name?? and please dont say anything like nicole or ashley, NO common stuff

haha sry if im sounding mean but i just would like any suggestions that sound good, you can see our taste in names [chenelle, cache] if that helps so ya thanks, ill rate anyone who at least trys lol

~ xsharpiexlovex (link)
Zoey, Estella, Rose, Chelsey, Gloria, Alexandra,Serena,Dina, Tina, Extina, Ruby, mabel,Selena, Marina, Marilla, Marcie, Marcia, Margret those are some.


Whenever I've attempted to start my summer homework, I can't concentrate because I have 57354842349 different things running through my mind.

Can anyone offer ways to concentrate on a boring book or to calm my mind down? I don't want this problem to go on any longer!!

Thanks so much. (link)
this happens to me only a billion times, i take a break and when i am done with my brake i go in a quiet room where there isnt any distractions. then i clear my mind by closing my eyes and taking deep breaths, as silly it might sound it works. good luck!




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