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Whats a good store to get band tshirts? I heard Hot Topic had those. But what kind of bands are they? I'm looking for bands like Nirvana, Hendrix, the Beatles, you know, older bands, not modern ones. What stores would have those? Thanks! (link)
hot topic has just about every band there is if you go at the right time.


I'm not sure is this the right category but I'm pretty sure it is. I don't know is this normal, but I get this intense sharp pain, when I see, talk think or even IM my ex ex bf. It's weird like my chest/heart aches so bad, I have to grab it quickly every time. No matter if its good thoughts or bad it happens. Example; Last week, I was just on webcam with him, and I had to leave, suddenly, this intense pain shot through me in my chest. Sometimes when I even think of him, my chest aches so bad, its so unbearable, when I think of bad thoughts between us, it hurts so bad, but even if good times, I'm still getting it. My friend told me, it's because i can't let go of him, and that my body/mind's telling me we need to get back. Even so, I don't want to get back with him even though i truly love him. He said he loves me to, but when he said it i felt happy, but the pains comes, when we were together i had it also, but happy thoughts, now its a mixture, my friend also said he thinks its a mixture of emotion causing me pain. Could anyone help me please? Thank You for reading. (link)
okay so in a way i know what your going threw because it happend to me before but my best guess is built up emotion [[such as unexspessed pain]] if you dont let it out sometime it builds up and hurts more than ever like pain so i would go with exspress it and just tell him everything if it doesnt go away then and it doesnt for a while i would go see a doctor cause you could have a stress related problem. [[ and yes, loveing someone your not with is stress i didnt think it was either]]


Okay, everyone who knows my boyfriend knows that he's IN LOVE with me.
He' 16, I'm 14.
He's been through a lot and is mature enough to know the difference between lust, like, love, and being in love.
He's liked and loved...but I'm the first he's been in love with and, ask ANY ONE, I'm the only and first girl he's ever cried over.
That's not normal for him.
Well I really do love him.
I REALLY am in love with him....
And I know that this is a stupid question but is it possible to be in love at 14 and actually STAY TOGETHER?
My mother has been in love with my dad since she was 17 so yeah....but I know being in love has a lot to dowith maturity. Well I've only had one other bf besides him and so yeah.
He's had like 5 or 6 haha.
But anyway, I went through steps. Like I liked him at first, then later on I loved him, then now I love him.
We've been together for almost 6 months and his dad plays the wedding song as a joke.
He never did that to any girl but me. My bf's brother is the one who tries to break people up and I'm the only one he actually told "Sky, my brother is i love with you and if you don't break up with him, I know this for a fact ya'll will get married."
The thing is if we did it wouldn't be til I'm like well in my 20's. I'm too young to rush that haha, and so is my bf and he knows it. But this is the most serious relationship he's ever been in and he has his mind and heart hell-bent to stay with me forever...and I do too.....
I know if I'm sooo sure why should I even ask..?
I just have to know you alls opinion. Mostly because my parents are like w/e but my mother is finally starting to realize-well she knew he was in love with me- but she's finally seeing i feel the same...
Well just wondering thanks ya'll! (link)
okay so you might not like my answer but hear me out.

you are only 14 and some people say you cant be "in love" at that age but i think you can be so im with you on that part the only thing is you have like 6 years to stay with him and you've only been with him for 6 months saying i love you then is a bit rushy [[altho that might just be me]].

knowing that you've only had like one boyfriend before makes you think will you be curious about others? you'll say no now but later you'll think so before you get in wayyyy to deep and say "oh yea im going to marry him" just calm down and see were things take you.

if your ment to be with him you will be.


lmao. okay so me and this guy have gotten really close in the past skool year. im 13/f by the way. anyway, my friend and i like sorta joined his little group of friends.

well today my friend wasn\'t in school and so in the afternoon we were all just sitting around so me, him ( his name is gunna be \'josh\'), and our friend, x (lol) decied to play \'would u rather\" we started off with gross ones like would you rather eat your bff\'s face or make out with a horse. haha.

anyway we got to really personal ones. i asked them who they would rather \'do\' (ya know.. have sex with...) , me or my friend. they both said me. they asked me the same question and i said josh.

next our other friend anthony joined in. we had to say who we would do in the eigth and in 6th grade. then we did our grade (7th). we had to pick someone. i go to a private school so there are only 10 boys and 6 girls in my class. when we were thinking josh said that it was easy to pick someone.

x said this other girl, then josh said me!, then anthony did too. i really like josh if you haven\'t noticed!! lmao!

he is always asking me stuff and like there are alot of signs he likes me-

he asks me alot of questions about myself.
he has called me hot before this year
sometimes he just wont shut up! like he keeps talking to me!
and he always wants me to watch his videos on utube
he is really nice to me
he does that whole touch your arm thing that everybody says is a sign a guy likes you...


how do i get him to ask me to hang out with him!??!?!?!?!? anyway do you think he likes me??! (link)
by the way you describe him acting around you sounds like he likes you.

but instead of waiting for him to ask just ask him, then he'll ask you the next time.


17/f

Guys are very confusing.So i've been hanging out with this guy who i really like,and well i guess you could say were "friends with benefits" but all we've done is kiss for about a month now.He's a shy guy in school,but outside of school he's huge talker.We'll it feels like we go out,and i want to be his girlfriend but i don't know how to ask him like what we are without actually saying it because i don't want to be just a girl he gets with i'm tired of being that.So anyway,how can i ask him without actually saying "what are we?"

thanks :) (link)
just be straight up with him. Tell him how you feel and then theres only one way to ask and thats just coming out and asking what you are like are you just friends or what. most guys in the case will just tell you but if he hesitates about it just be as blunt as possible.

[[guys are slow]]


okay i'm a cutter and my whole family knows it, but they think that i quit because that's what i told my therapist and so she told them that i quit, but i didn't. so basically, what i do is wear a bunch of bracelets but it sucks ass and it doesn't work all that well so i need a really good way of covering them up. i live in texas so it's like 100 degrees here every day so wearing long sleeves is outta the picture. please give me any ideas i just need them covered up! thanks in advance! (link)
my best advise for that is to stop cutting.

its really stupid and doesnt help all that much.
[[i ust to so yea i no]]

butt depending on how far up you go on your rist try wearing hair tyes over them or try putting make-up over them it doesnt cover completly but does help.


so i blowdry & straiten my hair almost everyday. & it seems to be getting pretty damaged and dry. is there any kind of shampoo&conditioner i can use to help repair my hair and make it look shiny & smooth?!! (link)
try a shampoo that is specialy for dry hair like pantene or fructis.


and getting a hair cut or trim always makes it feel better.




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