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Is It Possible?
Okay, everyone who knows my boyfriend knows that he's IN LOVE with me.
He' 16, I'm 14.
He's been through a lot and is mature enough to know the difference between lust, like, love, and being in love.
He's liked and loved...but I'm the first he's been in love with and, ask ANY ONE, I'm the only and first girl he's ever cried over.
That's not normal for him.
Well I really do love him.
I REALLY am in love with him....
And I know that this is a stupid question but is it possible to be in love at 14 and actually STAY TOGETHER?
My mother has been in love with my dad since she was 17 so yeah....but I know being in love has a lot to dowith maturity. Well I've only had one other bf besides him and so yeah.
He's had like 5 or 6 haha.
But anyway, I went through steps. Like I liked him at first, then later on I loved him, then now I love him.
We've been together for almost 6 months and his dad plays the wedding song as a joke.
He never did that to any girl but me. My bf's brother is the one who tries to break people up and I'm the only one he actually told "Sky, my brother is i love with you and if you don't break up with him, I know this for a fact ya'll will get married."
The thing is if we did it wouldn't be til I'm like well in my 20's. I'm too young to rush that haha, and so is my bf and he knows it. But this is the most serious relationship he's ever been in and he has his mind and heart hell-bent to stay with me forever...and I do too.....
I know if I'm sooo sure why should I even ask..?
I just have to know you alls opinion. Mostly because my parents are like w/e but my mother is finally starting to realize-well she knew he was in love with me- but she's finally seeing i feel the same...
Well just wondering thanks ya'll!
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okay so you might not like my answer but hear me out.
you are only 14 and some people say you cant be "in love" at that age but i think you can be so im with you on that part the only thing is you have like 6 years to stay with him and you've only been with him for 6 months saying i love you then is a bit rushy [[altho that might just be me]].
knowing that you've only had like one boyfriend before makes you think will you be curious about others? you'll say no now but later you'll think so before you get in wayyyy to deep and say "oh yea im going to marry him" just calm down and see were things take you.
if your ment to be with him you will be.
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yes. it def. is possible. while some might not make it to marriage it is possible. i have been dating my boyfriend since i was 14 and i am now 16. i am very much in love with him, and am a firm believer of if you love him, then you will do anything to stay with him.
good lucky sweetie.
-jessicamarie.
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It's a little bit of an age group difference, some may say, but age is just a number. Maturity at this age, and compatibility are more important.
If his brother is scaring you, or if anyone else is bothering you, let them/your boyfriend know that. Chances are, if he really likes you, he can wait till your ready for marriage.
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