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No matter what I do, I can't seem to gain of lose any weight other than a few pounds. I'm a 13 year old female, and currently 147 pounds. Even if I'm using the threadmil, or just sitting one the couch, nothing really changes. Is this bad, or is it normal?
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Hi I had that situation for many years, but know I'm gaining weight because of working out. Don't worry about it if you lose or don't gain weight. It just means that you have a fast metabolism, just eat a lot and exericise daily like 5 times a week, but I do 6 times a wk and know I gain weight but I stay still below 140 pnds.
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Hey so my girlfriend and I are both in a long distance relationship for two months now, we're 14. The problem is, she'll sometimes have bad mood swings and get really mad at people for no reason. She's sick right now too, so that's not helping much. I was just wondering is there anything I can say to help her? I love her and I don't want anything to happen to her because of these mood swings
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We are in the same situation right now with the long distance relationship thing. What you should say to her is that you miss her and she should know that you love her. Tell her to get well soon and hope that I could be there beside you to take care of you. You should be the one to protect her or to prevent her from anything that might happen during her mood swings. Lastly you shouldn't focus on the mood swings she has you should focus on her being ill, and just talk to her in an app you both use to make her feel safe and welcome.
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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No it means you're not a virgin anymore since you had experienced anal already. If you didn't have anyone do anal on you then your still a virgin, because with what you said you've only been fingered, and you masturbate once a day. So in result you're not a virgin anymore.
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My friend and I just fought over something that happened weeks ago. Apparently she never let it go and felt she had to bring it up again. She won't leave me alone and keeps texting me about it and I'm getting sick of it. What should I do? (link)
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you should just talk to your friend about what happened and after we have a talk about this, just let it go, because if you don't it will just haunt you all your life and your just wasting your time and effort. we have to let it go and grow up and focus on other stuff.
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It's my last year of high school and I regret one thing, I regret staying in my one group of friends (two people) and not branching out and befriending other people, I mean I've made many acquaintances but the relationship never becomes at least a friendship. Long story short the friends that I came into high school with aren't the friends I'm leaving high school with, one of the friends completely cut me off she was never really my friend I knew she was waiting for an opportunity to cut me out of her life and she finally did last year. The other friend is my friend but we only talk in school, last time we hung out in public was at her birthday last year. Now it's my last year and I feel like a total loser I have no social life, I'm always home and I barely have any friends. I know I should be greatful for the ones I have but how would you like it if you had friends and they always made you feel left out or the third wheel? It's like a cycle with me ever since elementary school I've always been that third friend to two best friends. Nobody has considered me they're best friend and if they have they have another friend who they'd call their sister, so it's like the "best friend" title is pointless. Like I've tried making different friends but like I said earlier the relationship never passes the acquaintance stage. Here's some background info on me I'm almost 17, female I am socially awkward and have socially anxiety people complain that I talk too quiet but I don't understand it's like when I'm around people I don't know too well I feel uncomfortable, my eyes feel like they're gonna cross and I start to stutter (I've never had a stutter before) also I don't have any guy friends, the ones that I do are from my elementary school so they don't really count. My school is basically a school where if you're attractive, people will approach you no matter what and everyone will know your name or want to be friends with you, if you're not attractive like me you're basically fighting to fit in, or at least get someone to talk to you. (but that's for another story) anyways please give me some tips on how to make friends and how to make my speech better because it wasn't this bad till I started high school, in elementary school boys made fun of me saying my voice was too deep (this was before they hit puberty) ever since then I stopped talking and now people complain that I'm monotone, soft-spoken and mumble. It's like I can never win (link)
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We have the same situation of deep voice, and everyone was laughing at it, i just said to them that im just born with a deep voice meaning i have a solid and base voice that can be used for singing. Having a deep voice means you are already becoming an adult which is good.
In having people to like you, just use your good attitude like, ask how are they, and if they have a problem reach out to them if you think that you can help them, also see if they have the same talents of yours, Just be friendly.
Since i've been doing that all my life, i have made a lot of friends, since grade school until now at college and it's my first yr here in college.
Just be friendly and try to reach out to them and do anything you can to share stories and like that.
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I don't really know where to begin but i am going to start off by saying i am a 26 year old femaleand awhile back I moved in with my cousin and i think it might have been the biggest mistake I ever made in my life becaus a sonreally who has autisim who is 24black but has the mind of a 2 year old and he is really attached to me ge follows me everywhere. I can't even go to the bathroom without him wanting to know where i am going. I talked to my cousin and explained to jer that I get nervous easily and have panick attacks and just need time to myself amd she wont speak to me .She said that I was mistreating him because I kept avoiding him because I needed a break and I don't want her to be mad at me but I can't even watch a movie in my room without him pitching a fit so I moved in with my mom and now she hates me what should I do? (link)
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Don't worry about it because she would understand in your situation.
Next time you encounter this situation again, you just keep it to yourself and just let it happen, because that person has an autism, and you should be understandable and be polite to that boy.
Just be nice and let him follow you, and don't be creep-ed out of what he does.
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Tonight's my first night staying in a house by myself ever. I've seriously never done this before and I wouldn't admit it if this wasn't anonymous, but I'm scared. I live in a nice neighborhood and don't know of a single break in that's ever happened here, but I still can't help feeling a little nervous about it. I'm a woman by the way and I'm paranoid about what would happen if the wrong person found out that I live alone. I have three small dogs who bark at noises. Part of me thinks that will make thing better, but the other part thinks it will make things worse. I feel like they'll let me know if someone's outside or anything. However, I also think they'll scare !e when they bark at nothing and then I'll get used to it and ignore them if something actually does happen. Is it rational to have these fears? (link)
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It's normal for a person to be scared to live alone, like me i was scared before to live alone because of what i imagine that something would come out when i'm alone. But now i'm not afraid of being alone because i grew up, and just think of my friends and family being with me all the time.
Also in the bible says that you're never alone, God is always with you.
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Hi, I am from Australia and am turning 14 soon. I like to have a slim body, not too bulky and muscly (just my preference for me). What is a good workout routine for just at home in my room? I don't have much strength in my arms so I won't be able to do like 50 pushups or something like that. I have a skipping rope with weighted handles that I plan to use more. Thanks! (link)
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Just eat meat a lot then work out a lot also but just don't do what i do, you could just get some of it and then do it if you can do it. Because what i do is extraneous work-out
I am a person who workouts in process, so what i would do in your situation just workout 30-45 minutes of your time for 5-6 times a week.
What you could do is start with push-ups, then use your jumping or skipping rope and do it for 5-10 times or more so you would have a slim body. What you could also do is pull-ups and leg raising for 20 times. Lastly what you could do in your room is jump push-ups 10 times for how many sets you could do.
I am just a person who works out 5 times a week with weights 25 pounds, runs in my treadmill for 2-3 km, and does curl-ups 60 per set, barbell that weighs 50 pounds, and lastly push-ups for 30 times
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I complained about this since grade 10, I'm in grade 12 now and I haven't felt this lonely before. I'm almost 17 and I've never had a boyfriend, never had a first kiss and boys rarely hug me too. It's like I repel boys or something all my friends through my high school career have had at least one boyfriend and I can't even get a guy to say hi to me. My little sister who's in grade 10 attracts more boys than me she told me a boy offered to walk her to class but she declined and another boy was playing with her hair and another boy was mad that he didn't get to sit beside her. Also my dad is putting pressure on me saying for prom he wants me with a date otherwise it'll look like I'm a lesbian to his friends. I keep on telling him that none of the boys like me and it's true because I'd always hear boys call me "burst" or "beat" which is slang for ugly. My friends that are obsessed with makeup always beg me to wear makeup too and my mom begs me to wear powder even though I have clear skin. Also I'm average weight I weigh 130 and a little curvy so I'm not overweight either. Here's more background on me I'm socially awkward and whenever I'd have a crush on a guy i would avoid them completely. Some boys used to say they thought I hated them because I gave them a dirty look but I just have chronic bitch face syndrome (Which is what Kanye west has, meaning he never smiles) some boys even thought I was awkward around them when I'm just an awkward person. What could be the problem with me? Even the kids who don't talk to anyone ended up in a relationship like what the heck? The older I get the more embarrassing it is for me to admit that I've never even kissed anyone before. Also do you have any suggestions where I could meet guys my age because the ones at my school are douchebags :) thank you if you read all of this (link)
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This is the first time i'm using this but I've given advice's to my friends who have relationships, since high school.
As for me you should wait for the right person to come to you, that would make you happy. That specific boy shouldn't focus on your looks but should focus on the inside of you, like your attitude, and etc.
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