Hi my name is Paige. I am 14, turning 15 this year, and am in nineth grade. Well, i kinda have a complicated life with boys, school, family, friends, you name it. I love giving advice though. I am the advice columnist for my schools paper. :] If you need advice i am here. My favorite topics to give advice to is love life, sex, families and friends.
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14/f
freshman highschool all of my second cusins have chests BESIDES ME. they are 14+ and older.
my 1st cusins aren't girls so yeah.
i've been a 32 a since like 4th grade and i never grew. what the heck is wrong with me? alot of boys make fun of me... and my cusins make fun of me too.. =/ low self esteem heree. (link)
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Well, people grow at different rates. If you are really upset about how you look, then get a push up bra. It really makes you look bigger than you are. If you find the right bra, then you will look your best. I have kinda a small chest for 15, but i have the best bra, that isnt too padded, that makes me look about twice my size. =D. Try Victorias Secret for some push up bras. Hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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I have a steady boyfriend and we have had sex many times. I just don't feel a spark though. We want to try new techniques and stuff. Any ideas? (link)
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Well, maybe you dont feel a spark because your doing the same thing over and over. Try doing it in your car, or the shower, or someplace daring. Once,my boyfriend and i werent feeling a spark, so he took my to florida (we went with his family but close enough) well, one night we were at a party at the peir. Well, he was like come here, and we went down and had a quicky, but i didnt want to stop. It was so amazing. Well, i hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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Okay, well i am in this secret santa thing with my friends. I got my friend Alyssa, but im not that close with her. We are doing somethnig silly, funny random and stuff like that. This girl is crazy and i want to get something good. Not like "oh...thanks. =\" I want like "AHA I LOVE IT!!!! =D". What would be good? It has to be within $20-$30. Where would i get it? Thanks (link)
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Maybe you can get some silly hats, or like a plastic microphone or something silly. If your getting a silly random funny thing, thenn idk. Hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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i met this guy at my friend's party last night. actually, my friend meant for us to meet b/c she was convinced that our personalities made us a "perfect couple." so she told the guy about me, and her best friend, who goes to my school, told me about the guy. so we were both there, and we didn't talk much, naturally, b/c we knew we were set up and we went to diff schools anyway. but then it became SO awkward when my two friends began pushing us, forcibly, to talk, and when her mom came to take a group pic of everyone, i ended up sitting next to him and my friend tried to make me lean back so he'd put his arm around me, and we both yelled at her. but that's not the point. basically, we said less than five things to each other, and i figured that, though he was cute, we simply didn't "click" as well as my friend had hoped. but today, i felt like whatever i was doing, my mind seemed to wander to him constantly. so now i seriously want to slap myself b/c this always happens: i say "yeah, it's all good" and then the next day i regret not saying/doing more. and we're most likely not going to meet again, so i wish that i could just stop thinking about him and move on with my life as if i'd never met him. besides, i've only had one bf, so my luck with guys isn't all that great, and it didn't seem like the guy took much interest in me. i'm sorry it's been a long explanation, but i have to get it out, otherwise it'll keep distracting me. i seriously don't know what to do! (link)
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I know how you feel. You were attracted to the guy, and i always feel how you feel. Like i always think this is what i want, i dont want to do anything and the next day i think about what i didnt do and wish i did do it. Dont worry, just stop thinking aboutit and it will go away. Stop thinking woulda shoulda coulda, it makes your life worse, and if you keep living in the past, how will you have fun in the present. I havent really had many boyfriends either. I actually only had 4 real serious boyfriends, and it will get better, dont worry. Stop thinking about this boy and start thinking about all the boys out there. Hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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Hi there~
So I was wondering if you guys could help me with some christmas gift ideas to give to my boyfriend.
Firstly, to give a little background on the relationship we have been together for about this friday the 7th will be 3 weeks. So we haven't been together for very long. I know he likes hand crafts and things that involve thinking like sodoku.
But I don't know what to get him. What do you guys think of an oragami book or do you think one can find enough designs on the web and therefore a book would be pointless?
Other than a gift, what cute things could I do? If anybody watches asian dramas I kind of want to do something romantic/cute like a girl protaganist might do. *sigh* I'm not too sure as this is my first relationship I'm not very experienced with these things.
Ideas that you have or things you've done in the past would be so helpful!! I really hope someone can give me some ideas.
Thank you so much~ (link)
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Okay, well maybe get him a little bear holiding a soduku book or something cute, but with his interests. Well, to do something romantic, make the bear hold a sokuku book, and/or a rose or a picture of you two together. That would be so cute and he would have to love it. One year, i made my bf a wooden heart, with 4 layers (each heart getting smaller to fit on the first one) and on the smallest heart, i wrote "Shane and Paige AAF
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im almost 16 and been with my gf for almost 5 months and recently she saw my penis and she said that its too small she said that to other people and im getting jokes about how small i am i do like her a lot but im not certain if i want to stay with her do you think i should just break it off with her? do girls really care about size? (link)
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Well she is being a b*tch if you ask me. I think that shes conceited because if you have been dating for 5 months, you should be able to trust her. I think you should break it off, and i dont care about size, most girls dont, but apparently your gf does. You obviously cant trust her and deserve better.
xoxo paige
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I am 15 and I have this problem with my mother.She always doesn't think right and her on the spot decisions are always wrong.Most of the time when I talk to defend myself she tells me to be quiet and then shouts at me.I mean like I didn't do anything wrong.I know what I'm feeling is wrong but am I gonna keep feeling the same thing for the rest of my life?? (link)
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Well im 15 too, so im not really "wise" but whenever i fight with my mom, its best to just wait til theyre done, and in a clam voice, explain whats really true if they dont listen, try again. Dont yell because it makes them more mad. Your calm voice willl show your in control. You wont feel like this the rest of your life, you and your mom are just in a tough spot right now. Try to talk to her when shes calm. Then hopefully youll get through to her and shell trust you more, and think your not wrong.
hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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My bf and i are 15 and ive started to give him handjobs and when he gets an erection his penis is bent over a lot hes embarrassed about it i told him its ok is it normal to be bent a lot? (link)
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Yeah, its ok, its pretty normal for some guys. Every guys differen. Some get really long, others go in, and some may be bent over. next time he does it, act like its so sexy. He just needs a little confidence boost. Hope i helped!
xoxo paige
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How can someone go from being very popular to totally unpopular, to the point where people don't talk about them anymore ? What do you have to do to become very unpopular? (link)
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Well, it depends what you think is popular. Its just a group, and its approachable. Well, i have gone from completely unpopular, to popular, to in the middle. Its not really about having "what it takes" it just is who your friends with. Like say your friends are "popular" then you are. If you drift away from some poeople, then your "unpopular". I am sorry if this advice doesnt help, but the situation varies. Like you can drift, get in a fight, be a b*tch, or a backstabber or anything. So, this is hard to answer. I hope this helps, sorry if this doesnt.
xoxo Paige
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hi paige i was just wondering if you have a sister
and if you do is her nickname RJ (link)
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I have a sister, but her nickname isnt RJ. Why? Do you know someone who has that nickname?
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15/f
I don't like my friends anymore. Please pardon me if this sounds conceited.....But I'm just trying to make a point; I'm at a higher level than them. I consider myself to be, and I've been told I am. They always either put me down or just.....ignore and neglect me.
They never ask to do stuff with me. I'm the one who always has to ask.
They go somewhere with their other friends and don't even include me. They have parties, don't include me.
At other times, they talk to me only when they need homework help or when they're bored.
And these are my BEST friends. Like, I won't hang out with anyone else.
And they make me feel bad about myself....I know I'm prettier and smarter (please don't yell at me...I'm not trying to sound conceited) I consider myself to be...And they just sort of.....detain me, you know? I already set a high level for myself.
They all have boyfriends. And most of them broke up with their boyfriends, and their boyfriends formed an interest towards me...And they get SO jealous.
It's like..Friend 1: OH MY GOSH! WHY ARE YOU TALKING TO HIM?!
Well, maybe because he's not your bf anymore?!?
I feel like i'm wasting my life/time/energy on these girls and guys when I could be out there hanging out with better people or, even better, not hanging out with anyone at all (I wouldn't mind)
I really wanna show them that I'm not interested in their friendship.
Any advice? :) Thank you very much. And please please pleaaaaaaase don't think I'm conceited. I'm really sorry if I sound like I am. (link)
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Okay, the thing about your friends, that i noticed, are they are jealous and b*tches. Well, i think that they are jealous that your prettier, samrter, adn their boyfriends like you. I know you want me to tell you brilliant advice, but all i can say is that this is what highschools like. Try to branch out and hang out with different people. Like if they have a party and dont invite you, have your own party and invite different people. And instead of hanging out with your so called "best friends" hang out with other people. Hope i helped!
xoxo Paige
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i recently shaved my vagina for the first time, like the top part of it, and now there r all these red bumps and stuff and it looks gross! my boyfriend was unbuttoning my pants a while ago and i made him stop cuz i didnt want him 2 c. i dont know what wrong! help! (link)
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Ok, dont freak out, this happens to a lot of people. All it means it that the razor irratated it. I dont think you should shave for a few weeks because the bumps will show up again. Just cut the hair really close, and try shaving a few days later. If the red bumps come again, i dont think you can shave
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Heey ,
I am going to get Proactive for my acne ... has anyone had any experiance with this product ? Good / bad or inbetween ? It would really be apreciated and I will rate if you help !!
xoxo
Stephii (link)
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Yeah proactive really works, i love it. It gets rid of acne if you use it everyday, and for me, i only had a few spots, and they went away in 4 days!! i hope it works for you
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I am part of a group of a few people (most of whom are guys) and I've developed a sort of crush on one of my best friends. Okay, I'm full-out into him. He's not perfect, debonair, bad-boy or anything like that--he's casual and goofy. Anyway, so for a long time, before I began seriously liking him, people used to tease us...you know the whole "you two act like a married couple." joke, etc. Even my friend's mother thought we were dating! So now that i do like him, i'm delusional because of those things. I told my other best guy friend, who is a close friend of the guy i like, and he told me originally that everyone always thought we would end up together. So now i'm even more delusional. What i'm really trying to ask for here is advice: i've talking to him about a girl he likes...he's never been very clear about it, but i don't know what that means. He has told me someone told him her friend likes him. I asked him (since i'm his friend i can easily ask personal questions) if he would date her, and he told me it depended if he liked the girl or not. Oh dear, a lot of babbling. I really just don't know what to do about the current situation. I like him a lot, and I'm very desperate for a female opinion since all I've got so far is male advice. I spend a lot of time with him, and still, people, like my friend's girlfriend, say we're "cute" together, but he doesn't seem to like me in that way. He teases me, makes eye-contact, tells me if he can't make it to meet after school (we walk home together), we sit together on a couch when we hang out, he puts his arm around my shoulder sometimes when we're walking home, he lets only me wear his hat, and he's really very nice to me. All the tell-tale signs right? Or maybe not. Am I reading too much into it? Is it all just mixed signals on my part? I'm confused, frustrated and upset. It's affecting my life in a negative way, and i can't focus. Overall, I'm very shy and insecure about this and myself in general; I've only been in one other relationship which was counter-productive (and that's putting it nicely). I don't think I would ever be able to confess to him, as my guy friends have suggested. I've asked them, "Does he like anyone?" and "Should i just give up?" They honestly don't know; he's not very open about his feelings, apparently. I've told him i like someone; most likely a mistake. I can't tell him who it is, without lying or embarassing myself beyon belief, and even if, for whatever reason, i'm not being delusional, he probably thinks i like someone else now. I've really dug myself into a big, dark hole. What do I do?! I really need a solid answer or i will drive myself insane. (btw 17/f, and if this seemed really fragmented, that just how jumbled my thoughts are now) (link)
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Ok, wow, your really into this guy. Well, i dont want to be like everyone else that says, "tell him how you feel" because i know what its like being heels over head for your best friend. You have to flirt with him a lot and see if he flirts back. Also hang out with him alone, and see how it fits. If you think he really does like you, tell him how you feel, if your still unsure just keep on looking for signs but dont become obsessed with it. Once you do, it takes over your whole life, and that is the worst thing that could happen! Just try and look out for some signs and signals. Let me know how it works out!
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Once I knew she doesnt feel the same about me I started to feel that knife in my heart. I had in me for 8 years and I still cant get over her...she is my best friend and I see every other weekends. How do I get over her? People say be busy (I go to work and still think of her) People say meet knew people (When I do I feel like I am using others to get over someone)
People say move on (when and how?)
I guess I have to deal with this...
PS I told her I felt and she says she not feel the same. we are still good friends and we do hang out alot with our friends too.
I am basically her only friend she hangs out more often she has other friends too but we hang out more and with my other friends also. I cant just leave and not be her friend it is unfair to her.
Bi/f/20 (link)
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Ok, well i know its hard but you gotta get over her. Its been 8 years and she doesnt feel the same way. Being with her alot is hard, its like when your with her, shes got you, and you cant let go. Be busy, but not like anything that comes up. Find a hobby, read, do a sport. Dont meet someone to use them, but meet new people and be friends. You have to have a little healthy distance, but dont cut her off completely, that would be unfair to her, and you wouldn't be friends. So find a hobby, that has your full attention; meet new people to be friends; and give this girl some healthy distance. I hope my advice helps!
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