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met a guy
i met this guy at my friend's party last night. actually, my friend meant for us to meet b/c she was convinced that our personalities made us a "perfect couple." so she told the guy about me, and her best friend, who goes to my school, told me about the guy. so we were both there, and we didn't talk much, naturally, b/c we knew we were set up and we went to diff schools anyway. but then it became SO awkward when my two friends began pushing us, forcibly, to talk, and when her mom came to take a group pic of everyone, i ended up sitting next to him and my friend tried to make me lean back so he'd put his arm around me, and we both yelled at her. but that's not the point. basically, we said less than five things to each other, and i figured that, though he was cute, we simply didn't "click" as well as my friend had hoped. but today, i felt like whatever i was doing, my mind seemed to wander to him constantly. so now i seriously want to slap myself b/c this always happens: i say "yeah, it's all good" and then the next day i regret not saying/doing more. and we're most likely not going to meet again, so i wish that i could just stop thinking about him and move on with my life as if i'd never met him. besides, i've only had one bf, so my luck with guys isn't all that great, and it didn't seem like the guy took much interest in me. i'm sorry it's been a long explanation, but i have to get it out, otherwise it'll keep distracting me. i seriously don't know what to do!
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I know how you feel. You were attracted to the guy, and i always feel how you feel. Like i always think this is what i want, i dont want to do anything and the next day i think about what i didnt do and wish i did do it. Dont worry, just stop thinking aboutit and it will go away. Stop thinking woulda shoulda coulda, it makes your life worse, and if you keep living in the past, how will you have fun in the present. I havent really had many boyfriends either. I actually only had 4 real serious boyfriends, and it will get better, dont worry. Stop thinking about this boy and start thinking about all the boys out there. Hope i helped!
xoxo Paige <3
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