Member Since: February 27, 2012
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I'll get right to the point. I can't stand living anymore. Everything about my life has turned to sh*t. All my friends ditched me fir no reason and now have a new group of friends who all hate me. They continuously talk about me behind my back, give me dirty looks in the hall, and cyberbully me.I can't walk past them without seeing them whispering, staring at me, and then a sudden burst of laughter. I have mo friends that are girls. I get called a slut for hanging out with guys so much. Every day for the past two months I cut myself. I became bulimic about two weeks ago. I've. Attempted suicide twice. The only thing standing in the way of me really trying hard to kill myself is my parents and my sister. No one knows about my bulimia. The only person who knows about my cutting is my old friends because I did it even before all this sh*t happened. I'm terrified that they are going to tell somebody. My grades mainly consist of b's and c's. The only time I feel ok is when I'm acting on stage, but I had to transfer out of my performing arts class because my old friends are in it and I couldn't take their constant dirty looks and whispering and laughing. I really don't think I have anything going for me. I hate my life so much. Does anyone have advice on what I can do, besides telling my parents or my councelor about my problems? (link)
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go on the stage! Performing art is a form of release. If it makes you happy then you should do it! Who cares what anyone says of thinks! You're above them! They're beneath you! Let me tell you something: friends are not everything! They aren't there when your dog dies, or when you have an accident and are in the emergency room. Most of the time they're the reason you're there in the first place. Sounds like you're around 16 or 17. Those people are only part of your life until graduation. After that, go to a college far far away and never look back on this time! You need to shine!! Show them what you're made of!!
Oh, and, by the way, cutting yourself will leave scars and directors don't like scars. Once your wounds have healed(the ones on your arms, from cutting) tell your parents about bulemia and your problems with friends. They're your parents, they will understand. And trust me, it will help!
Don't give up hope!!
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so my life has just been terrible. first of all i'm 17 now and have been depressed since forever. now i'm taking anti depressants but they don't really work i still feel the way i feel. so to start my mom and dad were very young when they had me. When i was 3 or 4 my dad got locked up for domestic violance against my mom then at like 6 my mom got shot and killed in front of the house by our room mate then killed himself and this is the main reason why i've been hurting. so for a while me my sister and brother were just moving around with aunts and uncles. then my dad got out and ge "converted". this would be good if he didn't hang out with these nuts that pretty much told us we'd go to hell if we did this and that. So these people just drove me nuts. When i was and eigth grade is when everything just hit me and eversince then i cry everynight for what could've been but will never happen. alot of people take their parents for granted when that's the only thing i've ever wanted. well now i'm 17 and i've had my closest friend and well there's drama about him and this girl and me but anyways i moved in. They are the only ones in my life that have ever treated me like family and have showed me love. So his mom i see her as my mom i know it may seem weird but that's just how i feel. she's the only one that has ever really cared and treated me good. Now it's cool but again life just has a tendency to kick me in the ass. so i think of her as a mother right. i love her alot and my friends. however i still just reeally hurt from my mom and again to top it off my friends mom has a disease and is only expeted to live for 4 more years. This right now is especially killing me because how can life just take somebody so good like this. i'm not just saying this for me but how are her kids going to feel when she's gone. and it also. I really don't know i've hit some lows where i've done things. i also drink and smoke weed to try to just be happy and forget for that moment but really it doesn't help i feel like the anti depressants are a bunch of bull. i know i still have a long way to go before i die but really i don't feel like i can handle much more i really believe i'm just going to lose it. what will it i do when there's nobody there when everybody goes there seperate ways when my "mom" passes away. how can i be good when be good when everything has just gone bad. i always ask myself if i can't deal with 17 years how will i possibly handle even 40. it also hurts that my real mom died when she was only 25 she didn't even have a chance to live her life i mean she had me when she was 19 my sister when she was 17. and now what the nicest person in the world and the only person that's has ever showed me loved and has helped me and talked to me and 4 more years. for what has happened i really think it's impossible for me to be happy how could i possibly be happy. why does life treat me like this. i have no purpose not ambiions in life my only motivation is my friends mom and what will i do once thats gone. i really don't think i can handle this it may not seem like a big deal but it means everything to me. unless you see your mom laying against a wall bleeding telling me to call the 911 then later to sit in some comference room just so they can tell you she died. i haven't learned how to cope with this and probably never will but i don't know what i should do or how to think. what should i be happy about when life has just fucked me over and over and i'm just useless. i would do anything to get my mom back but if i could trade years left to live with my friends mom i would gladly do it. how can i can i be and do better any advice on how i should what i should do or what you do to deal with everything would be appreciated. i don't know what to do? (link)
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all families are dysfunctional. Since you're a teenager, it's pretty hard to grow up in that kind of environment. I can imagine all the crazy thoughts in your head. I was like that too, when I was 15. Now, at 21, I'm no different, or better, I'm afraid. The only thing you can do right now, is ignore your useless father and try to care for your younger brother and sister. If you have problems, imagine their plight. Perhaps taking care of them and making sure they have a motherly figure is better than letting them grow up to be adults with problems too. Apart from that, I doubt my advice is of any help. I mean, there's only so much a computer can do. Best advice I can give is this: go to a psychiatrist. They may charge like hell, but they do earn it and it does help you cope. So, pick up the phone now and dial 911 and tell them you need to see a shrink, 'cause you need help. The earlier you admit you need help, the better. Trust me.
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I just got my period 2 day ago and I want to know, will my period be more like my older sisters or Mothers? Just a predicted guess would help
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all girls get periods at different ages. I got mine when I was 14 and my mom got hers' when she was 14 too, so we're pretty similar like that. It depends on who you take after. In any case, you're particularly clear about what exactly you want to know. If you post that, may be I can help.
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How do you write a song like how do you find tunes for singing like YOU personally. (link)
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Inspiration comes only to the minds of geniuses. If you don't get it, give it up for a while. When I try to write songs, it's usually when I'm feeling blue and those songs usually are pretty low themselves. Although, I doubt geniuses can be created like that. Any way, give it a shot.
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I cant sleep i try to make my self tired by doing different activities during the day so im tired,i try reading and writing, listening to music I tryed a game where im not aloud to open my eyes till i fall aslee and noe of it works I need a way to fall asleep fast so I dont have to wait 4 hours to fall asleep. (link)
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drink a glass of milk before bedtime and walk around in circles until you're dizzy. There are times when I too, fail to fall asleep. But that time, I kill time by browsing the web and then am exhausted enough to go to bed. Try lying in your bed in the dark and listen to a soft song, like a lullaby. For me, "Strawberry fields forever" by the Beatles works like magic. I'm usually asleep by the end of the first verse.
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