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i finished my period about a month or two ago and i have this clear gooey discharge in my underwear..should i be worried? (link)
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no I get that for me it just means that my period is coming in about a week. mine smells but that's it. and it kind of feels like I got my period in my underwear but then it's just that
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hello,i turned 13 on the 16th august 2011&ive been talking to this lad for quite a while&we always seem to talk about sex,but im a virgin:/,i feel ready to have sex,but i feel asif he's just gonna use me for a fxck&then hate on me. He has been telling me about the positions he wants to use on me&asking me to get on my knees for him,everytime i see him he blanks me,never says a word to me,but when were at home he will inbox me talking about sex,i feel ready and the convo's are making me more ready,should i wait untill i find someone who loves me for who i am and can wait,or do i just go ahead and let him have sex with me,please help me i feel so confusied,i just want to get it out the way but i could be doing the rong thing,all my friends say its good but i dont want to do it to fit in,just think its time for my most loved childhood memory to be given to him:/please help me as you can see im clearly stressed&confused im really scared of doing the rong thing!!!!!!1 (link)
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Don't do it I had sex with a boy when I was your age and got pregnant and I'm still scarred for life and that was with my boyfriend that I was Inlove with and loved me and I was with him for 2 years. So from me I say hell no
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most of the times when i smoke weed i dont feel anything.
how do you smoke? do you inhale all the smoke? (link)
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Yes you have to light it really good inhale while you are lighting it and hold it in for as long as you can then breathe out. And if you do that and it still doesn't work you either don't have enough of it or you just aren't inhaling right
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i think i have bulimia and im frightened of the fact that maybe in the future i might not be able to conceive. is there anything i can do about it? and one that does not involve taking drugs. (link)
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I was belimic and I was hospitalized for it. I ended up in rehab for about 9 months but that was only because
Mine was really bad. All I know is that talking to someone about it helps and with talking to someone about it
Hopefully they will tell you that it is okay to think that you are bigger it's just the way your body grows. You should just keep a good attitude and don't pick yourself apart. I hope I helped any of questions feel free to inbox me.
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I'm 15 And Pregnant I Just Found Out And I'm 14 Weeks And My Mom Wants Me To Get An Abortion But Yes I Don't Want The Abortion But The Thing Is... I Haven't Told My Dad Cause He'll Kick Me And My Mom Out Of The House And We'll Have No Where To Go? No Family We Have Here Where We Live So It's Hard On Us She's Really Mad At Me And The Father And The Baby's Daddy Is Still In The Picture And Wants The Baby No Matter What But My Mom Wants To Put A Restraining Order Against Him Since He Is 17 We're 2 Years And 8 Months Apart And She Wants To Get Him For Rape Which Isn't True, But Me And The Father Want The Baby It's Just My Parents Opinion. And If He Gets Put Away Again It'll Be For 6 Years I Don't Want That For Our Baby And Not Have Our Baby Grow Up Without A Dad Or Aleast Knowing His/Her Daddy. What Can I Do??? :| (link)
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I am only 13 but have the same problem I don't know what you should do but don't do an abortion my sister had one and she is now living in depression. Just my advice not much help but good luck
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when you are so far down how to find the strength to climb back up? (link)
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Honey i am absolutley posative that suicide is not the anwser. I dont know if you have herd of this kid that didnbut his name was Ryan Halligan. His dad spoke at my school and was balling his eyes out while he was telling his sons story. And i bet that if you past away your parents friends and family would be doing the exact same thing. So please dont do it. If you are cathloic you could talk to a priest and pray that always helps. Or maybe a scool conusoulor. Im
Not exactly sure but please for me and everyone else in the world DO NOT DO IT! I hope my advice has impacted you. I will pray for you xoxo
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Okay, so this might be hard to make sense of but here goes.
When I was year five I had my first boyfriend, I really liked him and he really liked me. Then we broke up after four months. It didn't get to me, I just moved on to another guy.. But I didn't like him the way I had liked my ex boyfriend.. But I had heard that he did like me so I went out with him, not coz i liked him but coz i wanted a boyfriend. After we broke up, I didnt feel anything. I don't fall in love anymore, I don't feel happy or excited, not even nervous or angry... I lack emotions.
I am now year nine in high school and I thought that it was about time i researched what the heck is wrong with me. So I researched all last night and came across something called 'ANTISOCIAL PERSONALITY DISORDER' and it was amazing at how many of the symptoms I can relate to... And it was amazing how there are so many other people out there who feel the same way like this.
I don't know what to do anymore... I don't know who I am anymore. Ive lacked emotions since year five, I am now in year nine. its been five years... Nowadays I just pretend that im happy or excited, angry or nervous.. and i also pretend i fall in love like normal people. so i don't look like im not human or something..
Please help, its not as easy as it may look, going for five years without emotions. its hard work.
I am 14 years old and I am a female. (link)
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Oh my god! I am pretty much the same way! But i thought that i just wasnt over him! So i dont knownabout your meddical problem or if you have it or not but my theripist tells me to write a journal and really try to connect to a sad side of you. But its harder for me to get over my ex because he trys to hook up with me everyday! But good luck! Hope my advice helps!
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