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My Boyfriend and I broke up a month ago but the truth is...I still love him. He just wanted to be friends and I didnt like the Idea but I just told him thats what I wanted to (Just to spair me the heartbreak). Should I tell him I dont want to be 'Just Friends' or should I just move on?
-Emma

Aww just be like "____(boyfriends name) i dont know if you still like me but..i still like you alot" and if he doesn't like you as more than a friend anymore just accept it and move on. Hope I helped =] If you need anymore help just IM me itzKINDAlikeLOVE

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MOls

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what do i do when theres this girl that likes me and i now like her but i dont know if she likes me like she used to?

are you friends with any of her friends? ask around..one of her friends will probably know. hope i helped ya!

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MOLly

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Molly-
One of my "best" friends is i guess....popular. And it seems now she doesn't want to hang with me. I we have 1 class together and she talks to me there. but not anywhere else. I was wondering should i talk to her about it or leave it as it is??

Aww id definately talk to her about or something. Make an effort to talk to her outside of that one class. If you see her in the halls wave to her or say hey or something. Maybe she never gets the chance to talk to you? I hope I helped!

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MOLly

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Molly-
my best friend likes the same guy i do but i am afraid to tell her because i think she will get mad, i want to know a way to tell her.
-Afraid

No best friend should hate you for liking the same guy. just be like -best friends name-, i dont want you to be mad but i like -his name-. most likely she wont be mad and she'll be glad you told her. thats i would feel =] i hope i helped

xox*__mols

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I have this friend who is changing for the bad... She was sweet and nice when I first got to know her but now she completly changed...Shes dating guys at a young age, she swears, and she wears clothes to flash off her body. I think it is because she goes to a bad school, or hangs out with the wrong people. I am sure that if I try and tell her she will come out with a answer like "Who asked you!?" or "How would you know!?" Should I tell her she should change her ways? Or leave her as a friend.
-Confused

I would definatly talk to her about it. Let her know that your worried about her. Give her a chance to explain whats going on with her. I hope I helped!

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Molly

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i have had many thoughts of suicde. for stupid reasons what do i do?

Okay, the number one rule..JUST DON'T DO IT! I mean think of what would happen! I mean for one, you could possibly DIE. And then whenever people think about commiting suicide because they're in pain and they think that'll make it go away, just think of who you are leaving in pain whenever you commit it. Your family, your friends.. everyone you love and that loves you. What I suggest is that you talk to someone.. your mom, dad, friend about this before you start to get more serious. And maybe even suggest going to counseling and getting some help there or going to a talk group. Because commiting suicide is not the way to solve anything. You should be here adn alive and experiencing life, because people always think," Oh I'll never be able to get through this, I wanna die" etc. And really, if you try at it and stuff, you can get through it. But you said for stupid reasons which I kinda don't understand, like something dumb that you shouldn't even think of suicide for happens but you think about it? I don't know.. but seriously, just talk to someone about this immediately. Because if you are in pain and stuff, letting it out by beating a pillow or talking to someone or something really does help a whole lot better than suicide. I hope you get better and I hope I helped!

x3*___Molly

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hey molly i need some help,.... i have this friend that i really like and she likes me to (im a guy lol) but her best friend also likes me and whenever her best friend talks to me she tells me how much she likes me but i want to go out with the other girl and i dont want to make the other one hurt...

ok i was wondering if you were a guy or girl for a second lol.. anyways.. hmmmm that's a really tough situation. You just have to think: do you REALLY REALLY wanna go out with this girl? Because then maybe I might suggest not dating her, because:

-it'll possibly ruin the relationship you have with her

-it'll possibly ruin the relationship the girl you like has with her


.. but if you guys really want to date eachother ; then I would try sitting down with this girl and just calmly explaining to her how you like her best friend more, and how you would just like to be friends and how you all are gonna work on making it not as awkward as possible and just going back to normal because you all really wanna stay friends and stuff. Because no matter what you do here ; you're kinda gonna make someone hurt, and I hate these situations, and I'm sure you hate it more. You're gonna hurt the one girl for dating her best friend, and the other for maybe NOT dating her. You just kinda have to think about this really hard and do what feels right. Because even though you might hurt her, you have the chance to fix the relationship with her, and you'd be dating that girl in the process.


..hope I helped!!

x3*___Molly

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I NEED A FEW WAYS TO MAKE SOME MONEY FOR BACK TO SCHOOL SHOPPING AND I AM DEFINITLY NOT A RICH PERSON AND WE CAN AFFORD ALOT OF THE CLOTHES I LIKE, BUT I WANT THEM SO I NEED AWAY TO MAKE SOME MONEY AND FAST B4 SKOOL STARTS!!

--- babysitting
--- lemonade stands
--- set up a car wash
--- if your 14 you could work at a resteraunt (sp) as a bus boy/girl
--- also if you 14 you could work at meijer as a cart pusher or bagger

hope i helped!

x3___*Molly

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hey mol* ...well i was wondering how do you know if you like someone thats the same sex; im not kidding either! PLEASE HELPPPPPPPPP!

If you feel attracted to someone in any way or you can't stop thinking about them then you probably like them...hope i helped!

xOx___*mOlly

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ok..well, im really having problems with my love life. im not really sure whut to do because there is this little problem that i have. this person that i like is my bestfriend.... but its not a boy. yea thats my problem. i dont kno whut to do anymore i cant take it i need to tell sombody i just dont know how to come out and say it, can you help me?

If you like someone..even if its not a boy..you should tell them or one of your other best friends that you can trust. Getting it off your chest will help a lot. Hope i helped*!

x3____*Molly

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one of my best friends likes to gossip a lot!!
i donno if i should tell her anything personal because im afraid she will tell the whole class.
i dont want to not tell her anything either because she probably wont think i like her very much.
HELP!!!

Talk to her and tell her that she's one of your best friends but your afraid to tell her things because she gossips a lot. Make sure you let her know you still want to be friends with her (if you do) but you can't trust her with very many things. Hope i helped!

x3___*Molly

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okay my best friend like wont talk to me about anything personal. she wont even talk to her mom about it i want to help her because her house is up for sale and if it sells she is moving to a different state.if it doesnt sell i think she might stay here for 8th grade year. i really want to help her with something that is goin on in her family.should i ask her if there is anything personal she wants to talk about or what? i donno if i should tell her anything personal about me either cuz she doesnt tell me anything.

a best friend should be able to talk to you about anything. maybe she feels uncomfortable talking about her situtation. i think that you should leave up to her to decide if she wants to talk about or not. asking her if theres anything personal she wants to talk about may make her feel even more uncomfortable, if shes really your best friend give her time - she'll come around eventually. Hope i helped!

x3____*Molly

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hey...well theres this boy...and hes so mean to me, but i still seem to like him..:-/...i don't know what it is with him! theres just something about him that i loveeee!!! Please help me with somethin ...i donno!

talk to him about it ask him why hes so mean to you cause some guys are mean to the girls they like (its happened with me before lol) hope i helped!

x3____*Molly

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how do you know you reallly like someone?

when you always think about him/her && no matter how hard you try you can't get him/her off you mind

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14/f i am going to be a freshman in highschool next year and when i get ready for school i just put my hair in a ponytail and jeans and a oversized sweatshirt. i dont take the time to get ready because my bus comes at 6:00a.m. and i dont like to wake up early. but for highschool i want to look good. not perfect...just put together. what are some ways that i can do my hair and waht style of clothes should i wear that are simple, dont take too much time to look nice (so i can sleep in alittle) and not have to wake up at 5:00. thanks! ill rate!

try different hair styles such as: half ponytails, scrunching your hair, straightening, messy buns, or braids - easy stuff like that. Hope ii helped!


x3____*Molly

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ok... i have a question.
How do i get more girls tolike me. i mean its bad i havent had a girl friend sence friken 3rd grade and i ned one. soi gues i am saying how do i get a girl to like me?

It's not bad that you haven't had a girlfriend since 3rd grade and you don't need one. Just be yourself around girls, girls should like you for who you are. Don't try to change who you are for a girl, if you're yourself you'll get a girlfriend whos interested in the real you. Hope i helped!

x3____*Molly

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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

A best friend will always be there for you and never ditch you to do something else. You should feel comfortable telling this person everythiing and not laugh at you or make fun of sometime you told them. Hope i helped!

X3____*Molly

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

Theres not one perticular age were people start to act more mature - people mature at different ages. For some they'll mature fast others it mike take a while to start acting mature. Hope I helped! In any case, though, a friend should always give you a shoulder to cry on.

x3____*Molly

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How did you get so magical Molly? You can anwer anything just like that, its crazy

lol well thanks fer the compliment. It's really not that hard..giving advice.

x3____*Molly

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OK I'm probably overreacting, but I've got my grade 7 piano exam tomorrow and I'm sooooo nervous! I don't know why, I mean I've done 6 before and I've done OK, but I really don't feel ready for this one! Can anyone suggest anything to calm me down before the exam, or anything that will make sure my fingers don't shake during the exam?? I need answers fast because it's TOMORROW!! ARGH!

Wow grade 7! Thats really good. I've been playing piano for 5 years going on 6 so i know how you get neverous before exams and recitals. the only advice i can give to you is to be practice a lot so you'll be more confident that you'll do well. Also try breathing in and out slowly a few times and have a glass of water before you take your exams - that always helps me =) Good luck on your exam! Hope i helped.

x3____*Molly

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