hey my name is sam and i am new to this kind of stuff. but trust me, i am good at giving advice and ill try my best to solve your problems for you!
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Member Since: July 9, 2005
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Last Update: July 17, 2005
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okay, well i`m 13 and i KIND OF like this one guy who i went out with about 6 times already. It`s weird. Like when we broke up, and he went out with other people, i got jealous. And even when i felt like i didnt like him anymore, i would stilL think about him a lot. But here`s the catch. When i was going out with him, and i was around him, i felt like i HAD to make out with him. All this pressure was put on me. And i mean i HAD made out with him before but i didnt want to do it ALLLLLL the time. Sometimes i just wanted to hang out and have fun. He likes me now again, and a part of me says to go out with him again, and another part wants to try going out with different guys bc i went out with this kid for a YEAR on and off. SO, can you please tell me wut u think you would do in this situation? thanks, Megan* (link)
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go out with him and see how things work out.if it dosent and he tries to get u to make out with hjim again, first try to tell him that you dont wanna make out. and that you wanna take things slowly. if he dosent listen, then break upo with him and try different guys.
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I have like this kid since the beginning of 7th grade and now we are starting 8th. I really like him but he is obsessed with this girl. Except she has no romantic interest in him, but he doesn't give up. He told me we could just be friends and I'm fine with that, except I just can't get him out of my head. What should I tell him and how can I fix this?
-Christine (link)
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well remember that there are plenty of guys out there and try to get this guy to know that she dosent like him and that you like him. its ok if he knows you shouldnt be embarassed to tell him. try to think aobut other things to keep him out of your head. and dont consentrate on him all the time if you see him in school, just say hi, dont try to impress him. try to get into other guys. remember: hes not the ohle one out there.
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hey i helped yu with ur advice coloum and u stole my back rounnd wtf !! ?? (link)
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its not like you made it! im sorry but i liked it too
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ok ..well ..ive liked the same boy for 3 years now and ive gonme out wit him 7 times so far. we go out now, and i really do love him. and he tells me he loves me to, but for some reason i keep getting this feeling like hes gunna dump me. and like ..i have also bad self-esteem level ..i always think im dead ugly and everyone else thinks im so pretty ..but like i dont think i am. im fat and i think im everything else thats bad and i dont want to think like that anymore with all those bad thoughts ..also the ones that are like "i think my b/f hates me" and stuff ..how can i get rid of those thoughts do you think? ..
thanks ..
blondiee (link)
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well, think about all the things that are good. like your personality. and you probably are not ugly and fat, girls always put themselves down when they are just lying to themselves! when i think about it, i think about the people who are uglier or fatter then me (but i dont wanna be mean) and sometimes it makes me feel better. for you, you could say how could guys like me if i was fat and ugly? and if your boyfriend hated you he wouldnt say i love you back, he would just smile and look at you.
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u see i hav not see him but i love him i dont care how ugly he is or how toll he is i just need his he is not online that much for me to talk to him but we talk somtimez and i just hope that he lovez me he told me I LOVE U but i need to no if it is true so i talk to my friend nataly bout him bc she nos him she went to skool wit him and she like him she did but now she going out wit him kid bernardo idk and she lovez this bernardo guy nvm that but i just dont want ot looooos my man TREY (link)
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well talk to him and be with him a lot and if he wants to talk, listen and give him a good answer and if he breaks up with you, try to still be good friends. i hear that guys and girls that are best friends usually get married so try your best to stay bf-gf with him and remember, if he does break up with you, there are many fish in the sea.
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Okay..well..there is this kid and I really like him. but my best friend started liking him. i have known the kid I like since i was 7 and im 13 now. and we are so close. but he is starting to like my best friend (the one who likes him) she said she wouldnt go out wit him if i liked him so i told her i didnt (even tho i think i love him )...did i make the right choice?
xO lOve
cOnfuZzLeD.. (link)
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no you should have told her you have feelings for him. if he dosent like you, dont put yourself down. not everyone will like you in life and there are plenty of fish in the sea. just hope that you and him can still be really good friends. if your friend and the kid do end up going out, dont get mad at them, be happy for them. you dont wanna lose any close friends.
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okay . im 13 years old && i cut myslef . ive been cuttinq ever since i was 12 . i had this boyfriend that made me feel bad about myslef but i loved him && when i made him upset he would iqnore me && i found that if i hurt myself i didnt feel sorry for myself . we broke up a month after i told him i cut . its been about a year since i started cuttinq && i just cant stop . my parents for out i cut && i told them i would never do it aqain but i still do && i try to hide it from them . i wanna top i really do but i just cant . any help?
- hopeless dreamsx3
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well, get your friends to do stuff with you and try to prevent anything that will make you mad or make you wanna cut. go out with your friends and invite them over and try to keep yourself occupied.
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