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Can anyone tell me what " a otra cosa mariposa " means?

i'd greatly appreciate it.

a otra cosa means to another thing
and a mariposa means butterfly.
so that doesnt really make sense..haha
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15/female

I'm asian, with glasses [but i have contacts, & everybody says i look good with glasses], i am a tiny bit overweight. not huge, but just like a little baby fat. My hair is black, with sidebangs. My friends have been trying to find me a boyfriend but most of them say no, and i think it's because i'm unattractive to them.

So does anybody have any tips for me so i can like..makeover myself? Thanks!

I don't think you should change the way you are to get the attention of random guys. You should be happy as you are. Plus, the guys probably say no because its coming from your friends, not YOU, and they might not know you very well. Just be confident with yourself, and friendly with every one else.
But, you didn't ask what I thought.
You can try doing your makeup differently, or asking your friends to come over and help you try out new things. You can go to the mall and find a makeup counter there and ask them to show you some tips. You can get a haircut that fits you really well (the one you have now might be flattering you you already) or wear your hair differently. One of my guy friends told me that I look so much prettier with my hair down, rather than in a ponytail all the time. Kepp trying out new things :)

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if one of my friends doesnt have an honesty box and i leave them an honesty box message, will they still recieve it?

They'll get a notification that says you sent a message, and if they want to read it they have to add the application
hope that makes sense
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I love Mayday Parade, Sherwood, October Fall, and Cute is what we aim for...does anybody know any other bands that have that type of music without any screaming and heavy meatal and song names would be fantabulouss :) thanks guyss.

Fall Out Boy
Panic! At the Disco.
love both bands.
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Okay this woman jodie says i am really pretty and wants me to date her son. She says i have a good personality and i am a truly beautiful girl, and thinks that i would be a good match for her son sterling. But the problem is i live in KY n he lives in IN. So the conversation kinda fell off in the distance. But the thing is i really wanna go on a date with her son the next time im there. But how do i say it without sounding desperate, or being too obvious?? thanks

Thanks for the question :)
Next time you see him, if you are in his town, ask him to show you around. Or you can ask him if he wants to hang out, like go see a movie, go to the mall, get something to eat. You won't sound desperate. If he says "no" just be really cool with it. Or joke around and say "Well do you have another friend I can hang out with?" You won't be too obvious.
Good luck, let me know how it works out ;)
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so me and my boyfriend have done prettymuch everything but sex. i dont really want to have sex yet, but i do want to spice up the sex life a little bit. any ideas for kinky or fun games or things? ;) thanks!

I don't think we are really allowed to go into detail, so to play it safe, here you go:

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my moms best friends dad died this weekend and they are having a funeral for him on wednesday. i dont even know the guy. My mom wants me to go but im not sure if i am comfortable going. she told me it was my choice. i have never been to a funeral before and im gonna feel really awkward and kinda scared and definitley sad but then again i feel bad not going because she wants me to and my moms friend has a daughter my age that is my friend and i want to go for her. she wont be heart broken if i dont go because were not really good friends. i still dont know what to do.

Help! what should i do??

You should do what you feel is right.
If you don't feel comfortable going, maybe you shouldn't go.
If you don't go, you can call up or just talk to your mom's friend and tell her you are sorry for her loss.
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OMG ok so its really weird whenever i am with a guy (usually one that likes me or i like him )((not ones i am only brotherly friends wiht)) i shake. like its sooo weird i feel like i have had wayy to much coffee and im like excited shaking. Is there anyway to not shake it is sooo embarassing ahaha

Haha, I can relate :)
What you have to do is get more used to the guy. Talk to him more often, and hang out with him more often, like in a group, not just the two of you.
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this story is kinda complicated, but i dont know what to do.
the guy that i like, who is one of my best frenz, said that he has an issue wit alot of my close girl frenz, and that they get on his nerves.
bt i neva had a clue, until he told me to my face. i was rilli upset, and the thing is...
i think he likes me....
and i like him too....
but i dont want there to be an issue between him and my friends if we go out...

i love my girl frenz nd him too. i mean they are my best frenz.
ugh...wat do i do??????

I am in a similar situation. But you aren't sure if he likes you, so you are okay for now.
If and when he asks you out, its okay for you to say yes. You like him, he likes you. If he really likes you, he'll get over the fact that he hates your "frenz" (please spell friends right next time)to be with you. Also, you don't have to hang out with your girl friends and him at the same time.
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(16/f) i have a bad temper. im an extremely angry person. theres no warning for when im about to get angry. even i dont know when its going to happen. i dont even know why i get mad sometimes. some days i wake up mad and sometimes i just randomly get pissed. but when im mad im violent. ive thrown desks at teachers in school before. when i fight i dont know how to stop. i have to be pulled off of that person. i fuck people up when im mad. i broke some kids jaw because they looked at me on a bad day and it rubbed me wrong. i get really violent thoughts over stupid things. if im angry at someone, even for something small, i get these crazy thoughts. examples: a kid was playing a guitar in class, i wanted to choke him with a guitar string; the class was taking a test and they were near me, i realized i could just stab my pencil into their neck if i wanted to; some kid something that pissed me off and he was sitting in front of me, my thoughts were "does he not know that i could easily snap his neck right now?"; we were walking down some stairs and this kid was cocky and i shoved him down the stairs for it. if im watching a movie or a show and i see a fight i want to fight so bad that i get mad. i browse through channels and the only things that i stop at are people arguing or fighting. i see or hear about a fight an i get mad and riled up. and i ask everyone this but no one has it happen to them; when im mad i get goosebumps everywhere on my body. they come in waves starting from my head to my feet over and over again. is it me or is this a problem? and no punching bags, counting to ten, holding my breath, etc. do not help me. ive tried believe me. showers dont help either nor does running or any form of exercise. and i cant do something like karate because ill fuck the kid up and kicking pisses me off. like i said i dont just get mad i get furious. i get mad to the point of tears. i dont hvae different levels of anger. im either happy or fucking violent. sorry this was so long.

I don't want to insult you, but you have a problem.
I think you should go see a counselor before you take things too far.
You said channeling your anger won't help? Have you tried yoga?
What if, as you felt yourself getting mad, you stepped back and looked at how ridiculous you look? You are just embarrassing yourself by doing the things you do.
Talk to your parents or doctor.
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I'm practicing French Horn. Or any musical instrument for that matter. What are some good practice habits or routines that I should use?

Thanks,
Andy

Practice makes perfect, so practice daily I guess.
I don't play a musical instrument, but I play sports, and we practice virtually every day.
Keep going over anything you learned in a lesson (if you take them) Good luck!
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13/f
k, well. i dated this guy and we had a really serious relationship; like to the point that i thought i acctually loved him, and im only in 8th grade, so i know i couldnt have been. but, we dated for almost a year and now ever since that i can't find someone to math with what we had. i mean, i really like this one guy but well its complicated. but he doesnt want to date, but i feel im ready for a relationship. and like, for a couple months now i feel kind of.. eh. un social? and i don't flirt as much as i used to. and i mean, im not saying i want a relationship with someone becase i flirted with them, and i know that if i want a good relationship i need to find someone that likes me for me and blah blah blah; ive heard it. but i mean, how could i flirt without being slutty but also being kind of serious. like, i need alot of options. like, things i could say things i could do. but, i also want to have fun doing it and not drive the guys away.
anything will help.

I think that because you are only 13, you shouldn't be worried about relationships, but that's my opinion.
So what you are asking is ways to flirt, right?
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/19

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What are some good ways to practice?

Some good habits?

Should I practice everyday or every other day?

How long should I practice for?

Thanks in Advance,
Andy

What are you practicing?
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http://www.pbteen.com/gift/thm/thmgrl/thmgrlucd/index.cfm

That is how I kind of want it to look. Do you have any ideas? Other things I Can put in there? Do you have any teen room websites? Besides wakeupfrankie.com

I love it! If you don't want to buy all of the stuff from pbteen, you can always try these:

http://www.lnt.com/home/index.jsp
http://www.ikea.com/

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15/f

My handwriting absolutly sucks! Once I forgot to put my name on it and the teacher said it looked like a boys handwriting (since girls are more neater) and when I saw it, it was mine. I'd like to change my handwriting to be neat and clear. Is there any way to make it better?

Do not tell me to write slower and take my time because I need to be able to write fast in school. (lots of notes)

any suggestions?

I agree with the girl below.
Just keep practicing, eventually it will become easier and easier, and your handwriting will be what you want it to be.
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