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Hi 18/F
My bf and I have been togheter for 3 monthes now but it's getting a bit difficult for me because he is not affectionate but I am. I try not to push him too much but it makes me sad sometimes and I feel he doesn't care. I really like him. On top of that my mom is forcing me to break-up with him. Help me plz?
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Guys are funny.
I'm in my 20's and I read books about men. They are quite fun to read if you're interested in reading one.
"Playing hard to get" by Cindy Pan, Bianca Dye
This has helped me with dating in general.
If he doesn't like what you are doing or doesn't care then you need to talk to him.
You should also ask your Mother why doesn't she like him? You may not agree with what she says, but, there might be a good reason why she doesn't like him.
I'm in my 20's and sometimes I listen to my Mother- haha. Sometimes hearing her out may solve some issues.
Guys might get bored because you put out too soon or weren't a challenge for them. I don't your situation on that. But, I've learned from experience to wait a while before anything. That way they respect you more.
I'm sorry if I sound like your mom haha. But you should talk to him. Ask him why aren't you affectionate towards me anymore? If you can't reason it out then maybe he isn't worth it?
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I've been in a relationship for about 11months, and this is the second time we are dating.. The first one lasted for about a year and five months then we ended it on mutual agreement.. Two days ago, my boyfriend (now ex) called me and told me that he found his calling and after many years of running away from it, he decided to do what God wants him to and he doesn't want distractions.He also said that the first thing that came to his mind in the list of distractions is his relationship.. He said he wants to cut it off and he loves me but he needed to do so. I was shocked, I couldnt cry or talk, I was shaking allover.. I old him earlier in our relationship that it takes quite a long time for me to fall in love, then I fell in love with him, and now he broke it off again.. I feel sad, wasted, devastated and my friends have been trying to calm me but it's not working.. Everything I do reminds me of him.. What can I do to get over it cs it's hurting me.. (link)
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Break ups are no fun. I have dated a few guys but not many.
Focus on what makes you happy. Try not to think about it and keep yourself busy.
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Making friends is easier said than done if you’re an outgoing person. I’m not really outgoing, I’m super shy, I’m starting to get over my social anxiety but when I talk to people I meet at school I end up talking about school cause idk what else to talk to them about. Since all I do is go to work, school and then home (since growing up my parents didn’t let me go out so eventually people stopped inviting me out, I only go out once in a blue moon) Anyways during my first year of university I went to orientation week by myself (we weren’t allowed to bring friends who didn’t go to the school). I didn’t want to enter the orientation by myself so I saw a girl who was struggling and she said she was going to the same orientation area as I was and we became friends. Long story short no offence to her but she never wants to do anything to be involved in the school she always says she does but ends up not doing it, now she’s dropping out of school and I’m left with one friend again (that friend too says she wants to get involved but never does it unless I force her, she also says she wants to make more friends too but I’m the one that has to talk to the ppl first). I don’t want to do activities around the school alone, for one I’m not allow to cause the school clubs meet around 6pm which is already dark outside and my parents don’t want me on campus that late unless I have a friend/group of friends. Second usually when I do go to school events I notice people already are with their group of friends, so do you have any tips to make friends at my school? The semester is almost over so technically I only have 4 months left to make friends until the school year is over (link)
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I would check out to see if your school has clubs.
Meet ups- is a website you can go to and look up your interests. By looking up your interests, ex. "volleyball," you will see places in your area where they play it. There are LOTS of activities on meet up. Lots of different hobbies, opens you up to new things.
That is a great way to meet new people.
Churches- I'm not sure if you have Faith church in your area or any other churches. They have events there. I love Faith church- lots of young people go to church events. Doesn't necessarily mean you have to be religious. Churches have different events.
Swing Dancing!!!- I love swing dancing. I don't know if you're into dancing. But this is a great way to meet friends and you do not have to have a dance partner! Maybe your area has swing dancing? It also helps you with social dancing and is an awesome scene. The dancers are awesome.
I used to go to bars by myself and do everything by myself. It takes time to meet people.
Facebook- has tons of events on there and sometimes I go to them by myself to meet people.
Newspapers- some newspapers even online have events you can go to, to meet people.
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I’ve been working at this restaurant for a few weeks. The assistant managers have been complaining about me to the manager (I’ve overheard their convo’s complaining). The manager told me i was doing a good job, but the assistant managers haven’t liked me from the beginning, now the manager is acting funny. They were complaining because I asked questions about my tasks during training the week. Isn’t that what training is for? To learn? I do all of my tasks and when they when I was done, I asked if they needed anything else done. I restock the food, clean the area, etc without asking. But sometimes the prep team needs help with dishes or something. Last week they gave me TEN hours and sent me home early so I only got seven. This week I only got FOUR hours. I was supposed to work Saturday, but the manager said that it was a slow day and i shouldn’t come. I texted him and never got a response. I suspect that the assist managers didn’t want me to come in. I’m very respectful, but quiet and don’t like drama.
Just wondering if anyone has had something similar happen and would like to tell me how they dealt with the situation. Do they want me to quit? (link)
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You can always try to find a manager to see what is going on. I would only imagine you'd get more hours because of the holidays. But, when I was in customer service jobs, I wouldn't always get enough hours. That and there were so many other people working wanting more hours too.
If you do not feel like you are being respected or he has not returned any of your texts, I would ask him in person or someone else asking why did he not get back to you.
You could always look for a new position as well.
I am on Indeed and Craigslist all the time.
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Hello. 21/F. I felt like I needed to vent somewhere but I can never tell anyone my true feelings. I am already 21 y/o but I have never had a relationship with anyone, I have never even kissed. My younger brother has already had countless girlfriends and has done it all. My youngest sibling, my sister, has just recently been kissed by the boy she likes. While I am very happy for her, I just felt this deep wave of depression come over me. It was awful. I have liked so many guys but never managed to have any of them reciprocate the feelings back. Recently I was beginning to wonder if I should just resign to the fact that I will probably stay alone for the rest of my life. I'm not very sociable, and its very hard for me to be in social situations, so its easy for me to become lonely after a certain period of time. The few guys who have shown interest in me I have not seen that way, are too old or young for me (usually ends up just creeping me out).
This is when it occurred to me... that maybe I just wasn't that interested in guys. This past year I began to question my sexuality because I started to notice that I've never had a boyfriend and usually the guys I'm interested in are unattainable in some form or way. I started to try and imagine myself being with a girl... and was surprised to find that I didn't really mind the idea. My family though... is not very supportive of the LGBT community. I myself was supportive before I started questioning myself, but now I'm scared. If it turns out that's who I really am I don't know if I'd ever be able to tell them. I don't think I could. But I still don't know because I haven't dated either sex, and personally, I believe in falling for a person for who they are, not for their gender. I'm very confused and don't know what to do next because this is giving me a lot of anxiety. (link)
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Dating is never easy. I am 28 years old and I struggle with it. I read up on books on guys and articles about guys all the time. They are fun to read and quite useful. I am currently reading "Playing Hard to Get by Dr. Cindy Pan & Bianca Dye." They sell the book online on Amazon. It has helped me with the little dating that I do.
Everyone goes through depression and the thing is to distract yourself with things that you love. Find hobbies, be with healthy people.
I get a lot of guys that I am not interested in too! I think other girls get discouraged too and might want to date their own sex. As a joke, I sometimes tell that myself too, to date a girl. But, I'm too boy crazy for that.
There are too many guys out there. Does not seem like it but there is. The best thing to do is work on yourself, focus on things that make YOU happy and without thinking about it a guy will come along.
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Im 12 yrs old and i hate my eyebrows who ever sees me or looked at me they say oh you're brows are so thick and they are connected with you're hair i reply yeah ik and smile it seems that I am careless but im really tired of them i asked my mom about plucking them but she regrets so please guys help me
And sorry if I have any mistakes cause im from lebanon and I'm trying my best in English
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I probably starting plucking my eyebrows at a young age. I think girls may do it different ways, as I do mine in an arch. I also check on celebrities who have the same facial structure as well as hair and skin tone as me.
Your eyebrow hair will always grow back. If your friends are doing it, maybe you can get your friends to help convince her or maybe their mother's. They'll grow back
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