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I am a great person in this boring world...ha! I just gave myself a compliment. That doesn't happen very often. Uhh, I have a boring life with my skillfull friends and dreaded enemies to spice it up. I think I give good advice and I also think all the advice in the world could never help me because I am not good at following it. Yes, I'm that stubborn. But of course, I need it all...sigh. Well, I have a lot of hobbies and am too lazy to list them. I guess you'll just have to ask me to find out. You are awesome!

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Okay for our yearly band trip we are going to dallas. and we are staying in an embassy suite. Is that a good nice hotel? I come from a weathly family and we usually stay in Waldorfs, Hiltons, Marco Polo, Etc, and i didnt kno what to expect. should i make reservations for myself at anpther hotel or will i be able to deal with it? Thanks and it may seem like i am being snobby but i really am not.

Cody* (link)
I wouldn't dich it. It's a pretty nice place. I've been there before, except I've never been to the one in Dallas.

I agree with the person below. You really shouldn't go to a different hotel just because the one you're going to stay at isn't as nice.


hey guys, theres sum girl i like and well when ever i see her walkin i wanna say sumin but i got nun to say, what yall say? (link)
Try, Hey. Or, How's it going? Small things like that will work at first but then you'll have to say more like, How was your weekend? Just try simple stuff like that.


How can I talk to an ex-boyfriend who is avoiding me? And ignoring me? And who is also telling people I'm psychotic and scared that I'm going to stalk him? Who thinks I still want him even though I broke up with him?

I've been trying to get out of his life, because when someone goes out of their way to avoid you, I can only assume they want me gone. I'm fine with that. But all his friends keep telling me he's saying this and that, which is mostly him insulting me, it's pretty hard to play invisible when everyone is very much in my business about the thing I'm trying to make disappear.

I tried to approach him once, I asked him "So, do you just want me out of your life?" And he just sighed, rolled his head back, and walked away. I think if I tried to explain the whole breakup, I'd exceed the 2000 character limit for these questions. It was a VERY messy breakup. It still IS a messy break up, and I broke up with him over a week ago.

I'm used to my little anti-social life. I love it. Having all these people that never acknowledged me before, but now throwing me in to the spotlight.. which is also making me very uncomfortable.

I really need help. I've run out of ideas. I hate feeling this hopeless and feeling like such a victim. I hate it.

If you have AIM and feeling like talking to me, my screen name is killswitchkid978. (link)
I think you should just ignore anyone who wants to talk about it because it is only your buisness and no one else's. They are all being pathetic losers because their lives are much too dull to live, so don't worry about it. If someone asks, just pretend that you don't know what they are talking about. I hope this helps and things get better for you.


hey :] 15/f

okay. there's this hot guy i met through my brothers soccer (hes older and he helps out b.c hes coaches son). last week we talked for so long and stayed like 45 mins after practice just to talk. He added me on msn and we talk there too. He asks me if i have a b.f (then i say no and he says im smart:P) and he tells me im cute and he said he lets beautiful girls like me call him. He always compliments me when we talk face to face (like i bet you're really good and im more interested in your pilates then my workout etc.) He goes to another school though so i cant see him everyday(N) My question is does he like me? (link)
This guy seems a bit dangerous. He is obviously interested in you, but you should play hard to get to see how he is.


i have a crush on guy 1.
my guyfriend is guy 2.

i always thought guy 1 and guy 2 were friends, but it turns out that guy 1 bullies guy 2. i feel bad about my guyfriend (guy 2) but i still REALLY like my crush. i really want to know who my crush likes... but i'm afraid to ask my guyfriend for the fear of either... my crush finding out that i like him or my guyfriend's feelings being hurt.

please help. (link)
Well, it really all depends on whether or not your guyfriend likes you the way you like guy 1. Besides, you might not need anyone to ask guy 1 who he likes. You could just observe the way he acts around certain people...without stalking him.


okay so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and i have a problem. i don't talk to his parents that much, like i say hi, how are you? but not usually a conversation. it's not because i'm ignoring them it's just i don't know how to start a conversation with them. i almost feel awkward talking to them. if anyone can help i would appreciate it! thanks (link)
You could ask them if anything new was going on, if there was a place they always wanted to go, what they think about the war in Iraq, or maybe you could ask them about how they met. Conversation starters like these will really show them you care.




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