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me = 17/f ... him = 16/m
How can I talk to an ex-boyfriend who is avoiding me? And ignoring me? And who is also telling people I'm psychotic and scared that I'm going to stalk him? Who thinks I still want him even though I broke up with him?
I've been trying to get out of his life, because when someone goes out of their way to avoid you, I can only assume they want me gone. I'm fine with that. But all his friends keep telling me he's saying this and that, which is mostly him insulting me, it's pretty hard to play invisible when everyone is very much in my business about the thing I'm trying to make disappear.
I tried to approach him once, I asked him "So, do you just want me out of your life?" And he just sighed, rolled his head back, and walked away. I think if I tried to explain the whole breakup, I'd exceed the 2000 character limit for these questions. It was a VERY messy breakup. It still IS a messy break up, and I broke up with him over a week ago.
I'm used to my little anti-social life. I love it. Having all these people that never acknowledged me before, but now throwing me in to the spotlight.. which is also making me very uncomfortable.
I really need help. I've run out of ideas. I hate feeling this hopeless and feeling like such a victim. I hate it.
If you have AIM and feeling like talking to me, my screen name is killswitchkid978.
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I think you should just ignore anyone who wants to talk about it because it is only your buisness and no one else's. They are all being pathetic losers because their lives are much too dull to live, so don't worry about it. If someone asks, just pretend that you don't know what they are talking about. I hope this helps and things get better for you.
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if it was me i would make him look bad next evryone then maybe he will learn his reason and understand how it feels to be treated like that also its leary sweet of you to give me your aim hope to talk to you soon love joujou
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