Member Since: December 8, 2004
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Last Update: December 15, 2004
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i get horrible cramps right before and during my period. what can i do to make them not hurt so much. i have had to stay home from school like every 2 months when it comes. (link)
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buy cinnamon sticks, boil one in one cup of water, wait for the water to get the color of the cinamon stick, cool down a bit and drink this like tea. IT IS GREAT
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Okay, so I have had a lot of downs with my mom and i even went as far as not living with her for while. Now I am back with her because social services said that they couldn't do anything. I am living a normal life now, only not getting along with my mom, now social services wants me to go into foster care, but I have made several new friends since we just moved and I don't want to hurt my mom, but I know that being with her isn't the best place for me! She has NO JOB, lives with a guy she met off the net, has severe health problems and I have been in a mental institution and am on medicines. I don't deal with stress very well and with Christmas almost here, I know it is going to be stressful, especially if I end up in a foster home, WHAT DO I DO?????? (link)
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How old are you? You don't sound immature, you understand the situation with your mom and YES it does not sound like the best place for you to be. I was in a similar situation LONG time ago I was 15, I could not live with my father just because he was crazy, and I was new to the place, the area, the country where I found my self with him. What I did was get into the hearts of my ONE friend (who i knew for only a couple of months) she had a good home and parents, I said this is the place where I want to be, so after I lay out my charm, I let them know how much I wanted to stay.... I was very lucky! See if you have an option like this one. If not I would say stay for the holidays, since leaving will make you sad, then think about what is best for you. Breath and remember "there is no pain that lasted 100 yrs nor a body that could resisted" OLD Spanish saying. Believe me there are GOOD people who would want to help you, search and you might find.
Good luck and PLEASE take good care of your self. "live adversities can only make you stronger"
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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help! (link)
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You are 13. I did not get anything till 13 and half. Some people develope differently. Don't RUSH this. Your just bluming
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im 18 i have a son and im still with his dad but we fight alot the problem is i have a crush on this guy i grew up with he has a kid too and brings his son to my moms daycare i know he likes me but he has a girlfreind they fight sometimes , i want to tell him how i fell but i think that would be tottaly out of place and wrong what do u think ? thanks (link)
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I think you should come down and stop thinking about boys so much. Your a KID but now your a MOTHER, so settle down and think about what your going to do with you life. IF you continue like this, YOU will go from one GUY to the other and end up 25yrs. A COUPLE of kids and no DECENT GUY that may WANT YOU.
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I always thought my wife liked my body. But recently, in front of a whole group of friends, she stated that I'm "not allowed" to wear a swimsuit, which got a laugh. She then expounded on this, stating that I am "very white, and very hairy, and when I wear my work shorts, I get a "tan line" from just above my knees, to just below them. This shows in my swimsuit. Everyone thought it was really funny but me.
Do you think she was "just kidding', or did the truth slip out there? (link)
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Yes, she probably just need it to show off, but it should not have been at you expense. There is always some truth in peoples jokes. I would first talk to her, let her know that you do not appreciated her making fun of you in front of friends, and then i would ask her if she is happy with the way you look, dress, ETC. Most Important is. Are you happy with the way you look? because if your not then you cannot expect her to be. If this is the case I would work in making some changes. This for your own self.
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hi i love my mom but every day she always yells at me for no reson like if i write sloppy. and she loves to get me in trouble with my dadi need some help what can i do to be a better daghter.
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Don't think your not being a good child, adults sometimes take there frustrations on their children, I'm sure she doesn't realize she's doing this, so just tell her. write again let us know how it went
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Is there anyway to get rid of acne and blackheads fast or at least to get less of it?? PLEASE TELL ME!! I'm 13 and a girl (link)
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Dunno. What ever you do, don't pick on your face. The acne will go away eventually but if you pick on your face you will have scars for ever. Keep your face clean and don't touch it with dirty hands/
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I know there is something messed up in my head because i get angery, sad, and happy really quickly and when i am mad, i throw things. i hate the way i act and i have been trying to change, but nothing has been working. ive told my mom and sister this and they really havent done anything to help me. what should i do? (link)
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Don't believe any of that bipolar shit, your probably in your teenage years, and thru this is hard to understand you own self. The good thing is that you are conscious of the way your acting and that you would like to change. Do you have really good friends that you can talk to maybe they can help, just try to understand what is it that make you angry and go from there.
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My best friend and I have gotten really close in the past year or so. He is such a sweet heart and I love him to death. He treats me like a queen. Whenever I see him we always make out and stuff. We havent done more then that, but lately I have been like really horny and I just want to seee him and have sex with him. I dont kno what to do? I am always horny. It's practically as bad as a guy. Even if he and I dont have sex I just want to get closer because I am in love with him and I kno that he loves me. What should I do???
**Samantha** (link)
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What do you mean? what do? I don't see the dilemma, you're a horny girl that know a guy that would probably love to be with her, don't say shit next time you are together just let it go to the next step... Use protection!
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my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it. (link)
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Does he live with your parents also. If so send him back home your parents have enough with you and you child. If he is allowed to live without having to work then he will continue living and not working.
As your parents for help in handling this problem
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Hey there. I started dating my best friend a while ago, you just moved here from Toronto, and he doesn't tell me a whole lot about his life back then. Anyways, we started having sex a couple of monthes ago. I'm on birth control so we don't use condoms, because we both hate them. Anyways, in october i got two infections, and was really sick for a week. I couldn't get out of bed, and i was in pain. I had an yeast infection and urinary tract infection. I went to my doctor, she gave me a lot of medicine. whatever, i got better, continued on with our way of things. Anyways, now in december, i seem to have another infection. I'm thinking it might be yeast infection but i don't know. It's different. He says he hasn't had sex before me, but with all these infection that i get, could he have, or could it be my birth control? (link)
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You should not be having unprotected sex, birth control is intended to prevent pregnancy not infections and diseases. You can never trust everything someone tell you NOT when it comes to you life and you health. I have heard from other girls that like you hate condoms and choose not to use them, to end up wit infections and also bad odors. Every time you have sex with someone without a condom your also sharing the other persons partners and there partners. This is a delicate thing, you should treat like it
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