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Hiho! My name is Meg...and I like giving advice. My friends say I give good advice, and lead me to this site. I liked the concept, so I signed up for an account. I hope to help everyone with their problems. If you need advice, just ask! ^_^

I'm back from a LONG haitus, so I've probably missed a lot of advice giving! I'm really sorry! My computer died, so I had to get another one...and that took a while. But, I'm back now and ready to give advice! ^_^

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any sujjestions??

Here are some:

Cancer-My Chemical Romance
The Tide-The Spill Canvas (the music video is so sad...look it up on youtube)
Anthem Of Our Dying Day-Story Of The Year
What Hurts The Most-Rascal Flatts
Without You-RENT (it's from the soundtrack to the movie/musical...but it's still a sad song)

Hope I helped!

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15/f

Just to clarify one thing:
I'm a vegetarian not because I want to lose weight but because I promote animal rights. And I plan on turning a vegan when I turn 18. [No one seems to know what goes on in the animal factories. It's living h*ll for the animals and we as people certainly do not need meat to survive.]

I basically run 2 miles in the morning and walk 2 extra miles and do some target toning exercises for 40min the morning or an hour of pilate [sp?] I need to lose weight because I have fat on my stomach and down below all the way to my calves. I need to watch my caloric intake, and to do this, I cook for myself most of the time, because 1. I'm the only vegetarian in the family 2. I can control my food portions to the right amount and 3. Because I cook my foods in a healthy manner [steaming, boiling, baking. No frying or stir frying in oil, etc]

My parents "worry" about me being a vegetarian. To tell you the truth, they worry about everything I do because they think I'm not well knowledged in things I believe in. So basically, I can't get through to them that I'm a vegetarian because I choose not to be part of the society that fuels the animal factories & NOT because I want to lose weight. So this is the weird deal with them: they tell me that I need to get slimmer yet they say that I don't need to "diet" They automatically assume that running = eating whatever and how much ever of it. My parents pretty much eat portions that are meant for two people. Not one. So when I do eat food for one person, they think that I'm not eating enough or something.

So, I was wondering how can I get through to them that I want to cook for myself in a nice way but still a strong way? How can I get them to stop worrying about everything I eat and that I can take care of myself??? They won't get off my case and they're making it hard for to lose weight because they keep criticizing me about what I eat!!! And usually they're making me stuff myself to death by pulling guilt trips on me!

First of all, you should tell your parents straight out that you can take care of yourself, and that they need to stop bothering you about it. To make your point stronger, try searching up facts about being a vegitatian and how it's healthy. If you show your parents the facts and how much your willing to be dedicated to it, it'll show your parents that this is something you really care about and want them to stop bugging you about.Hope I helped!

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Well, my dad has this girlfriend, and i hate her with a passion shes just plain mean if i told you some stuff she's said to me/done to me. you'd hate her to. she has 2 daughters but now one is going to college [with most of my dad's money] and the other is my age and shes a major devil. she'll be all nice to your face then she'll start talking about you like she's miss. popular and talk about me like im a major dork,b*itch, single cat lady when i grow up ect. and how she's going to be a model because she's skinny,tan,perfect skin and like flawless hair. im a little jelous to because i have dull blondish hair and slight pale skin and im about the same height but not as "skinny" as her. shes like 80 pounds and shes 13 and im like almost 100 and im 13. my brother is going off to college soon, and im worrie my dad is about to ask his girlfriend "the question" and i already get beat up and talked down to enough, one time she hit me when i was 8. i told my dad but he didn't listen. how can i get rid of her? shes like 40 and my dad is rich and hes like 55. [also my parents divorced]. what can i do? please give me advice on how to get rid of my dad's evil girlfriend and stupid little daughter. they're so mean! help!!

I think what you should do is talk to your dad about it. Get him alone, so his girlfriend and her daughter aren't around...and just talk to him. Don't be jealous of his girlfriend's daughter, she'll probably end up being "single cat lady" if she keeps treating you, and probably other people, like trash. Hope I helped!^_^

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whats the name of the fall out boy song that goes

"we're friends, we're friends, just because.."
or "we're friends, just friends, just because..."

thanks

The song is called "Champagne for my real friends, real pain for my sham friends". And it's off the cd "From Under The Cork Tree". Hope I helped!^_^

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My name is Mia. Lately i've been feeling really bad about myself because i'm horrible at making friends because i'm so self concious about every thing I do. But luckily I had one true friend who lives in another town. Let's call her Megan. Today on myspace, I was looking at megan's profile and saw she had a few comments from Lea, a popular girl at my school. They were "who's the annoying girl?" Then the next one was "mia who?" then "no i dont show my comments, " So I was like omg, please don't tell me Megan is saying i'm an annoying bitch. Well, I know how to look at peoples comments if they hide them, and i'm not a stalker. I only do it in situations like these. Sure enough, comments from Megan said "so you have seen the ANNOYING GIRL! " the next one said "omg lol MIAAAAAA" then "CHEERLEADING MIAAAA" (cause i do cheering with lea) here's the horrible one. "yeah haha she was asking me like a billion times to come over but thank goodness I had a reason for my cousin being here and shit! you dont show your comments do you" I FELT LIKE CRYING. she's the only girl I get the courage to actually ask if I can hang out. and I did NOT ASK HER A BILLION TIMES. she always says she's busy so I ask her like once every 2 weeks. But i'm so confused because when we do go over each others house, she acts like we are best friends, and she invites me to all her parties. WE WERE FRIENDS SINCE WE WERE 3!!!! How should I address this to her, on the phone, IM? And how should I say it. And I don't want to be little shy Mia. I want to be a little nasty with her.

What I think you should do is tell her flat out that you saw the comments, and tell her it hurt you. You don't have to be nasty about it, just tell her the truth.

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ohkay. so 15/f. My best guy friend has a girlfriend. And I dislike her very much. But if I tell him that I dislike her, he gets upset at me. And he sometimes doesn't talk to me after I tell him that :| But what annoys me...is that I fakely try to be nice to her. (I know it isn't right) But I try and be nice to her, just so he would talk to me more. But it annoys the hell out of me, when all three of us are talking...he embarrasses me...and puts his girlfriend in a more superior "position" than me! And I hate being fakely nice to her, because I KNOW that she doesn't like me. And I know she's faking it, just so she seems perfect to him! But she's not..she's SOOOO fake. I've been trying to convince him that she is. But he won't believe me. It's like one of those movies, where you try to tell the truth, yet nobody believes you. The thing is, I'm younger than him. And I have no intention of like going with him or anything. He treats me like a younger sister/girlfriend. But the thing is...when his gf isn't around...he flirts with me! I just don't know what's going on. Sometimes when we're on MSN...and both of them are online...I sign in, and they both just IGNORE me completely! I feel so left out. lol...I wish something bad would happen to her. ;_; Is this jealousy? =/

First of all, I don't think you're feeling jealous, but more like you feel annoyed that you're being ignored. What you should do is flat out tell your guy friend what you think about what is happening. Be honest, and tell him what you think of his girlfriend too. If he truely cares, he'll do something about it.

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15/f

omg, my friend. is being such a big huge slut. and doesn't even care. she sends naked pictures of herself to guys she doesnt know, her mom found out , she doesnt care and still does it. then she sent it to this one girls boyfriend, and his girlfriend freaked out. [not that i blame her at alll] and my friend kept making it worse. i cant stand what shes doing. and whenver i agree with the other person, just a little bit, she freaks out and gets mad at me. what should i do? i dont want her to end up being pregnant one day.

I think you should sit your friend down, and tell her what your thoughts are about the situation. Tell her how worried you are, and that you're upset about it. If she's a true friend, she'll understand...and hopefully stop. If she doesn't stop, or doesn't care, then maybe having her as a friend isn't worth it.

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