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Hey everyone! My name is Ash, and I love giving out advice. I am a very friendly person, I am outgoing, and honest. My friends always come to me for advice, and I always give it. I've lived a life that has taught me, a many of things, and if I can help someone, I'm doing okay. [:

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I have a best friend, he says to me yesterday the smallest thing that made me mad.. the way I eat my icecream. I know this sounds weird but I was upset. I talked to him but he said he couldnt take my mood swings. What's some advice about not switching moods. I know this is dumb but I would really like a good response

Thanks..

Hi there,
We've all been there, done that. Well at least a lot of us. When someone told me that I had out of control mood swings, I was pissed. Then I realied, maybe he's right.

Some ideas, though, when you feel yourself going from calm to upset, just relax and start counting. breath slowly, and inhale, and exhale. you can say mantras, like "patience", "happieness", or "joy". I find that those really seem to help a lot.

Also, take mental notes of when you are going from your moods to different moods. That will help you, so you can take stock, and know what tirggers you..

Hope that helps!

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Hi, I really want to make a differnece, but I'm not sure how.. Can you give me some ideas?

There are SO many different ways. For instance, if you are a vegeterian, you can join Peta2 at www.peta2.com, if you like Barack, you can join www.barack-obama.com. There are so many resources out there, but you have to do a little bit of searching. I'm not quite sure what you want to make a difference in, but if you can mail me an idea, i can definitely tell you were to get started.

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i need some more ideas of hot guys to google for my locker. if anyone has any ideas please let me know.

thanx.

Daniel Radlciffe most definitely.
Johnny Knoxville, That one guy from Gilmore Girls, Milo V.. I can't spell his last name.

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is there a scene in the newest harry potter (order of the pheonix) movie where he's naked? i googled harry potter and i keep getting these pictures of daniel radcliffe half naked in scences from one of the movies

No, but if you Google, "Equus" you will see different pictures of him naked for the play. You will see him from both the front and the back.

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ok so i have sort of a problem. im 15/f. i have, well had this best friend, lets call her w. ok well w and me were the closest friends you could possibly find. we were together 24/7. i loved her sooo much but at first she was kind of mean. at school she would always tell people all this bad stuff about me if we got into a fight. but we would act like everything was ok when it was just me and her. but she has always had this guy best friend and he is pretty mean to me and always makes fun of me with her. i just ignore it and act like everything is ok. then we started become really good friends with lets call her m. so me w and m became a group of friends, but then i was getting pushed aside. then they became friends and made this mean nick name about me and always talked about me, but pretended everything was all cool and they invited me places. but sometimes it just really hurts. but the other day i was pushed over the edge but im afraid to show them, because i dont have any other friends and its kind of hard to make new friends when everyone has their clicks already set and everything(im a sophomore by the way) and i want new friends, but m and w are so funny and i love being around them. but they are so different behind my back. i dont know what to do. i really need advice on how to deal with this.i've been friends with them like my whole freshman year, but i need a change because its making me feel bad and really crappy.

Sweetie, those are definitely not friends. You should stand up for yourself, and not let people treat you that way. Friends are people that you love being around face to face, but when you aren't around, they won't talk about you behind your back. Friends don't make you feel bad and "really crappy", friends uplift.

Making friends is always easier said than done.
In some classes, you should try branching out, joining a club or a sport that you like. That will make it easier to find people to be friends with, because you all have something in common already. You should also, try and be friendly to everyone. Smile a lot, and use body language that shows that you are open to making and meeting new people. It's not going to be an overnight process, and if it is, consider yourself not only lucky but blessed. Love yourself, so others can love you.

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i want to know if im considered a racist. i can be friends with black people, i have 3 black friends but i can never picture myself dating or having sex/children/marrying a black guy. is this racism or just prefrences?

This is SO far from rascism. This is just preference. Myself, I'm African-American, and I don't picture myself having sex/children/marrying someone of my race. It's all just preference, and don't worry, you aren't rascist at all.

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Okay well there's this guy that I really like. And he really likes me too. But the only problem is I don't talk. Like we'll be on the phone.. and I can never think of anything to say. He always says the "how was your day" basic things so I can never say those. And then when I say weird off-the-wall things he's like "uhhh okay?" so there is nothing to talk about. WHAT CAN I DOOOO????

At one point in time, we've ALL had that problem, so don't sweat it. You're probably just really nervous talking to him, and you don't want to say the wrong thing, which is making you uncomfortable. First, you should realize that he's human, he's not some "God", and who you are is who you are. He needs to be able to accept you, the good, the bad, and the ugly if you want a real relationship.

Then think of conversation starters, like tell him something that happened in your day. Something extremely funny, or talk about a teacher you don't like, or you want next year. Talk about how disgusting the cafeteria food is, you can talk about how you're sad that your favorite show is ending.

There is SO much you can talk about, you just have to get over your nerves, and trust me, you'll do fine.

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i've always heard that masturbation was ok to do, but how do you know if your even doing it right? i mean it seems that it doesn't even last long for me..so why do it? because it feels good?

Masterbation is EXTREMELY normal, and pleasureful. I mean, I don't see any down sides, there's no pregnancy scare, you can't contract an STD from your hand, and it's FREE. Plus EVERYONE does it!

You know you're doing it right when it feels good. Masturbation is extremely healthy, and it's good for you. You realease your pent up sexual energy. I don't think there's a "wrong" way to masterbate so don't worry about it, you're probably doing well.

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what are some healthy ways for a teenage girl to masturbate? i've already heard about the water and the fingers...but isnt there something betta?

There's TONS of ways to masturbate. You can use a vibrator, or a dildo. Anything that vibrates works well. The side of the electric toothbursh that does NOT have the bristles, you place that on your clitoris. I've heard of people using the hairbrush handles too. There's basically an array of stuff that you can use other than your finger or the water method. You can buy toys online, from e-bay or other places, and they use a discreet method of shipping, too. So hope that helps!

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