Member Since: December 27, 2004
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Last Update: December 27, 2004
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i found the perfect guy for me. i'm a christian girl, and he's a youth leader, we have the same sense of humor, he's totaly cute, and he's the sweetest guy i've ever met. the problem is that he's quite a bit older than me, and by the time i'm old enough to date him, he'll probably be married, because, well who wouldn't want to marry him? see, i'm only 14, and he's 20, but i think he likes me a little too. i'll find out for sure by tomarrow if he does, and add it on here. but he told me i was beautiful and stuff, so what should i do?
thanx for helping, i rate all 5's.
xoxo
sincerely,
Puppy Love (link)
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It is very common for people to "fall in love" with teacher-figures...he's your youth pastor, right? And you're both Christians? You probably like the fact that he's a good Christian leader and is teaching you things that you really can apply to your life..however..getting in anything beyond a just friends relationship would be dangerous-for you, and for your youth pastor. You are under 18, and he is above it, meaning that this can be illegal! If the police found out, or if someone in the church found out, it would risk his reputation and his job! You, on the other hand, are still so young! You guys have such an enormous age difference..this guy isn't a teenager anymore, and he has a job! You, on the other hand, are either in middle or school or just starting high school. You guys won't be able to relate about much because you are at such different times of your life! Also, dating this guy risks you losing your good reputation or ending up with a broken heart. If you find out he likes you, please politely decline anything he asks you to do that could break the law.
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I have had my navel pierced since last july and right now it is so infected that it hurts to touch any where near it. any advice? (link)
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Oww! Go to a doctor, posthaste!
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ok, i really want bangs. i have long blonde hair and i think it would wrap the look up. people say i should but then there is someone called my MOM who says i cant! it pisses me off because she doesnt let me do anything to my hair! how can i convice her? (link)
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Well, ask if instead of having short, blunt bangs if you can have long, sideswept ones. Those look classic and flatter almost any face shape!
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I have blonde hair, and i want to lighten it so it's even more blonde, like the color or paris hilton's. my friend thats going to be ligtening it asked me if i wanted it dyed or bleached. what's the difference? which one should i do? (link)
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Haha whoaaa back up...bleaching your hair is SO SO SO bad for it especially if your friend is going to do it! It will be all gross and white, and it will get all frizzy and poofy and nasty from the really really strong chemicals...if you are going to go blonder, I suggest dying it perhaps one shade lighter of blonde to see how you like it if you are going to do an at-home-kit. Otherwise, for a drastic color, go to a hair salon! DON'T RISK RUINING YOUR HAIR!
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i am 13 and i went and got blonde higlights on my brown hair and i noe the highlights will start to go away but i was wondering if i striaghten my hair everyday and wash it everyday will it make the color go away faster?? and is there anything i can do to keep my highlight from not letting the color fade away so fast?? can u plz help me!! (link)
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Well, to keep the highlights nice and shiny you want to get a brush that has silver "tongs" or whatever you call the brush things lol...and then you want to wash your hair with a color stay shampoo...there are products such as Herbal Essence and Pantene Pro-v that offer "Colorstay" shampoos and conditioners...but I suggest investing in Redken colorstay shampoo and conditioner...that will really work. Also, the highlights will not just disappear if you straighten and wash it every day...but they will fade. You see, the highlights are growing out while your hair grows out, but they will fade when washed. Just take good cares of your hair! If you have any more questions, please leave them in my inbox!
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