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My boyfriend wants me to give him a blow job and I really do want to but I feel weird every time I try to do it. It's not that I feel bad about it but I feel like I'm not doing a good enough job. We've talked about it a lot and he's even given me "tips" on how to do it right. I still feel weird. I want to make him happy and I love him a lot. I over think this entire thing a lot and even have had dreams of it. It's something I DO want to do. How can I get over this hang-up or whatever you want to call it? It's horrible because I can work him up to it and then...I just...can't go all the way through with it. It just feels too weird then. :\ (link)
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You may WANT to do it, but maybe you're just not ready. Unless you're absolutely comfortable with it, then it's not gonna work. I would wait a while and try it another time in the future when you're more comfortable with him. There's nothing wrong with saying that you're uncomfortable or don't know what you're doing. However, if you're going to go through with it, then I suggest that you work your way up to it. Maybe you can use your hand for a while and when you really feel like you're comfortable doing it, then just go for it. Guys really aren't picky about things like that. As long as you don't bite, I'm sure he'll love it. You don't have to WOW him the first time. I think it's something that you can improve on. Do it once and then ask him what you can try to make it even better for him. But just remember that you don't have to do anything that you don't want to do. Don't feel bad because you don't do it when he wants it. He should be glad that you're even considering doing it at all! lol
Good luck! Be safeeeee.
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I think that I need some advice on whether or not I should stay with my boyfriend. I have been dating him for about a year and two months. (We broke up briefly in the beginning of August, but we decided to get back together, and are still together as of now. ) I'm very confused about my feelings for him. He is a really great guy and there are qualities about him that I don't see in anyone else that I know. That is part of the reason that I have stayed with him for so long; I don't know anyone else that I believe will treat me like he does, or be there for me like he is. He definitely gets me. He's funny, affectionate, and he is very loyal and kind. He gets along with my family and friends, which is very important to me. We both share a lot of morals, too. That was part of the reason that we started dating - we were friends first, but noticed qualities in each other that we couldn't see in any of our mutual friends and it progressed from there. We have been together for such a long time, and that is why it was very difficult to go from being so close to completely broken up. We broke up for a week, and whenever I saw him I wanted to cry. The reason we broke up is complicated. I'd been feeling like breaking up with him for a while now, but there was always some big event that the two of us were looking forward to that stopped me. (For example: I couldn't break up with him before senior prom, etc.) Then he told me he loved me on our one-year, and I just didn't feel right saying it back. It's incredibly difficult for me to think about breaking up with him again, but I know that deep down I shouldn't be with someone that I don't feel like I 100% love. I don't want to hurt him, and I know that he was really hurt when we broke up before. I was too. When we broke up, I felt so alone, and I felt like it was the wrong decision. I feel better now that we are together; I feel content. Whenever we hang out, I have a pretty good time. But there's still a part of me that wants to be free, and wants to search for a guy who is an even better match for me, and be able to do whatever I want in the mean time. I have no idea what I should do. I'm torn between staying with him and breaking up with him. Just the thought of us breaking up makes me cringe. What do you think I should do? Thank you. (link)
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I agree with Lindsay10. If you have a gut feeling, then you should go with it. Deep down, you know you're staying with him because you feel like you have to and you're used to having him there. You also said that some big event that gets in the way of you breaking up with him. The truth is that no time is the "right" time to break something off with someone. You just have to stand strong and do it for yourself. If you keep making excuses and waiting for a perfect moment, things will just get worse. If you care about him, but don't want to be with him anymore, you have to be honest with yourself and give him the respect he deserves by at least being honest with him as well. Hope I helped. Good luck!
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I've been in relationships since late 2008. It being mid 2010, I'm EXTREMELY used to having a boyfriend all the time. I've been single for about a month now, and I'm over the ex and everything, I just miss having soemone there. I'm a junior in high school and I know a relationship especially now is just asking for disaster, but I love having a boyfriend... it keeps me happy and balanced. So, I'm trying to stay away from boys because of the constant heartbreak. What are some GREAT advantages of being single? I'm NOT used to this at all and I miss the idea of a boyfriend so I just need to be more confident about it. Thanks :) (link)
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I can tell you from experience that I know exactly how you're feeling. I started dating a boy in the beginning of 7th grade and we broke up in 11th grade. I was so used to having him there and having someone to call when I had good news or someone to hangout with and hug and kiss whenever I wanted. It was so strange when we broke up because I didn't know what to do or how to handle myself. I found myself just wanting someone there for me, but I didn't have that anymore. However, after a while I realized that I really didn't NEED him there. I was just used to the comfort of knowing he was there. So as a newly single girl, I started spending more time with my friends and even starting talking to new girls. I also had a lot more free time to try new things by myself such as joining the softball team and caught up on my homework. Being single turned out to be lots of fun because it forced me to be independent, which in turn, forced me to go out and find other way to make me happy. I ended up learning a lot about myself and had fun experiences without having to worry about whether my boyfriend would approve of it or not. I had more time for myself because I wasn't always attached to his hip. You're only in junior high school so you have so much more time to have plenty more boyfriends and break ups. Right now, you should enjoy being young and just have fun with your friends and do what you want to do. I'm 18 and I'm just learning now that no boy is more important than my own happiness. So go have fun and make friends and be silly! Sorry that was so long. :) Good luck, single girl!
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I went skinning dipping at the lake area last weekend with this guy I know. We fooled around in the water and he did cum. My period was due yesterday but it hasn't started. Can you get pregnant by skinny dipping like this? (link)
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There is a very, very low chance that you could be pregnant. However, that itty itty bitty chance of it happening is still there. Maybe you're period is just abnormal. Abnormal periods are especially common if you're a young teen or if your diet and mood has been arratic lately. My advice is to wait a couple days and see if you're just late. If you still don't get your period by next week, then see your school nurse (if you're in school) or go to a local clinic for a free acurate pregnancy test. If you were in water and he didn't come in phyical contact with your vagina, then I highly doubt you're pregnant.
Good luck! And next time, use protection so you don't have to worry!
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