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Q: my boyfriend and i have been going ou for 2 months and almost 3 weeks and i STILL get like nervous/shivers before i hang out with him and it takes me time to stop being like that. is this normal? By the way... im hanging out with him in 10 minutes ahhh

it sounds like your more anxious than anything ! ive been dating my boyfriend for nine months& still get like that somtimes. it will ware off eventually. :D

Q: I have just gotten my braces off about 4 days ago. My gums are sore and my teeth are a little bit yellow. I brush twice a day with aquafresh extra whitening but im not seeing any difference. What can i use to speed up the whitening process. I am only 13.

my'n did this to; ask your mom to go get your teeth cleans& make sure you brush everyday& you should be fine.

Q: Can anyone find me some pictures of longer versions of this hairstyle. The same cut but like at the shoulder or longer.

http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0Je5x5cwsBG_W8AqRGjzbkF/SIG=136dc488c/EXP=1187124188/**http%3A//fametastic.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2006/09/victoria_beckham_short_hair.jpg

The haircut is called "asymmetrical bob.". Yes, I have googled, yahoo it but I found nothing.

you might be able to find somthing here me& my friends find ours here most of the time

http://www.bosshairstyles.com/medium-hairstyles-01.htm#

good luck !

Q: okay my boyfriend broke up with me and i cried a lot, i was really hurt and then when i told my friend about what happened she was really shocked and sad and then she keep asking me if i was okay and she gave me a a lot of tight hugs and she said call me if you need anything and when we were chatting she sended me a couple of RnB love song that relates to me and also she send me a card online saying feel better and cheer up and she told me shes gonna buy me a chocolate when ill see her soon and after that she came to my house and bought me a chocolate and gave me a hugs what do you think about my friend?

well; id say you have one of the most amazing friends ever! i have a friend like that too- actually three of them. we usually get together& give the upset one candy& stuffed animals. :DD

Q: Firstly, I should say that I really, really like my boyfriend. [Even if I can't remember why, like right now]. But I am really, really upset with him because he's been bailing on me for the last few nights when he promised me he'd see me. The problem is, we can't see each other on weekdays due to conflicting schedules so we try to see each other on weekends, even if it's just for lunch or something. But lately it just seems like he doesn't even remember me. And this is all at a horrible time, too, because I just met another guy who wants me to just ignore the fact that I have a boyfriend and get with him. I don't want to get with him. All I want is for my boyfriend to care, or even be jealous of this other guy, but he isn't even around. In fact, I talk to the other guy more than I talk to my boyfriend, because he actually makes the "effort" to talk to me, even if it's just a text message. My boyfriend just seems to think that he doesn't need to.

I guess my main question is how do I get my boyfriend to care? I don't want the other guy, I only want him. I just want him to make an effort. I want him to know that he isn't the only one who wants me, and I want him to stop taking me for granted, but I don't want to tell him straight up because he might think I'm overreacting and that would only make things worse. Even if I have to tell him, what should I say?

i'm sorry to tell you that the only thing you problly can do is be up front about it. don't be afraid to say what you want to- or even have a close friend talk to him for you! or be with you there when you do talk to him. call him or somthing at her house! just incase. my boyfriend& I kind of have those problems to& i just go over a close friends house& if i feel like i want to scream or cry or somthing i give her the phone. it helps alot just having her there !

Q: She is really mean to me and ignores me half the time. We always fight. she says she is my friend but she doesn't act like it. Is she my friend or not.
13/f

This matters to wether or not she has always acted like this ? if she has just started acting like this she may just be having a hard time& doesnt know what to do so she is being well pissy! but if she always has then she doesnt sound like much of a friend! i've had a friend kind of like that but we havent talked in a while it will either pass or get worse just figure out what you want to do.

Q: I was just wondering, I just got my haircut and highlighted and I straighten my hair after I blow dry it. I noticed that my ends get split when I do that. Is straightening bad for my hair??

yeah- its pretty bad for your hair; trying putting somthing on it when you staighten it or even just straightening it every other day not every day.

Q: okay well i have a really big problem. im 15/f. ok im going out with this guy and ive been going out with him for like 10 months.. which is a pretty long time considering im only a freshman. i really love him and stuff but like i just feel like i dont really want a boyfriend right now. i wanna just feel free and do whatever i want. especially since its summer right now. if i break up with him i dont wanna get into another relationship right away. i just wanna like be free. and also he gets jealous really easily so that makes it even worse because i really feel like i cant do ANYTHING. so what should i do? break up with him or stay with him? and i know that if i break up with him i will still hang out with him and stuff because im friends with his friends and stuff. thanks xo

Ive been dating my boyfriend for that amount of time to and i know how you feel. somtimes he just doesnt understand and you want to be able to look without worrying he is going to find out and freak of somthing. But figure out your feelings before you go out and totally destroy a relationship that has been going on for a while. you may find that it was a mistake and you didn't want it but it was to late !

Q: Ok so im in my last year of middle school and i have a best guy friend (and my only true friend) who happens to be one of my past boyfriends and i like him a lot! but the thing is he doesn't have the same feelings for me! i've liked him for about a year and a half and i don't know how to get over him because he's the only really super close friend i have(besides my gal pal cortny whos to obsessed with her boyfriend and her boyfriend happens to be my best guy friends friend)! On the other hand i have another guy that i like who i've been keeping my eye ever since summer when he kissed me on the last day of school. but i think it would be to hard to keep a steady relationship bcuz i'd be having to spend time with him and time with my friends and family who mean a lot to me (even though were going through a rough time). I don't know what to do! who should i like? and how do i get over the person i shouldn't like?

Okay so you said your friend and your guy friend are dating anyway. Well go for it with the other guy. bring him on a double date or somthing- you never know what could happen ! Your friends may like him and all the troubles will be gone. If it doesn't work out with him and your friends then just reason with them; it isnt always what someone else wants take some time for yourself !

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I'm keri& yeah im a little ackward. but you'll need to get over that. I'm defintly here to help& i've been through so much i most likely can. I have the most amazing boyfriend so i've been through that& some best friends but not many. lots of people hate me mainly for no reason- please dont be that person