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I've never had vaginal intercourse, but about 6 years ago I fooled around with my first and only bf. I performed oral sex on him and also let him perform anal on me without using a condom.
I tell everyone that I'm still a virgin and saving myslef for my husband. No one knows about what I did with my ex bf.
Should I get tested for any STD's? Just to be on the safe side? I know it was 6 years ago. Also, what are the chances that I could have caught something? (link)
Yes. Very high. Get tested immediatly and you aren't a virgin anymore.


I put this in spirituality even though it doesn't really fit...

When I was a young teen I was very active in my church and school. I was in the choir, I helped to organize the children's liturgy, and I took part in the discussions and events that our Catechist organized all the time.

When I was seventeen I feel in love with another girl. For a few months we kept our relationship secret, but eventually it had to come out and my church pretty much ostracized me and told me in no uncertain terms that my help was no longer needed. My relationship with that girl lasted for two years and we are still very close friends. What happened with my church makes me very sad, but I don't regret my choices. I am a bi-sexual woman and I'm not ashamed of it.

The problem is now I am dating a guy and have been for a while. Old friends from the church are suddenly talking to me and being all nice and welcoming again. It's breaking my heart because I know if this relationship ends and I meet a woman I want to date I'll be kicked out again just as quickly. They keep inviting me out to dinner or to mass, (I have kept going over the years but I'm basically ignored by everyone.) Part of me wants desperately to be accepted and loved by these people again, the other part of me is just furious with the way they treated me and the pressure they are putting on me now to conform. Should I just accept this while it lasts or should I maybe say something to these people? (link)
You should be all like "YES I AM STRIAGHT I AM SORRY I HAVE SINNED" and ask to make a speech during church about your expirence and why it was wrong. But when they time comes go up and say what you feel. The church shouldn't discriminate against anyone. Doesn't God love everyone?


Okay .... well a while ago i cut myself on the top of my wrist and now i have thid huge scar on my wrist.. what can i do to get rid of this scar?!?!?! Give me the BEST one you have that i can buy at like CVS becayuse i will have to get the stuff on my own (link)
Honestly? If I get a scar, I open it up again and put Neosporon on it (however it's spelt). If you don't want to; I'm sorry I couldn't help.


I don't know what to do! I am in a rut! My cheese nuggut of a Grandfather tried to sell me his inhaler and told me my Grandma was a whore! What should I do? Take up the family bussiness? (link)
Well, kitten. Do you have food upon the table? No money to support your druggie hobbit? Then yes; take up the family business, or become a lawyer. Sam is a butt-wipe.


I just dont know anymore. I'm falling apart in life. I feel like a mother. I'm 15 Female and i clean my house every day! feed all the animals on the farm. And with all of that i still have to have a teen life. Last year wasnt my best year i went through like 10 boyfriends and all they wanted was sex. My family has been falling apart. My love of my life and the boy i lost my virginity to moved far!!! away this year. All i wanna do right now is die. I just dont know what to do with myself. I only had him and he talked to me listened to everything and had a answer. He told me he wanted to keep in touch so i wrote him and he never wrote back and it should have been here already i called him once and im gonna call agqain but no one picked up.... =/ how can i make myself happy again. Be the girl i once was. Make my mother proud of who i am and for her to stop saying i dont do shit for her in her life!! And to try to get through loosing the bestest person ever cause i dont wanna get over him but....i dont know



---->Lonely (link)
Hey... uh... IDIOT. WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COW PIES. You need to understand that not everyone is ment to live a happy and cow-free life... get over yourself. You want to escape the 'Simple Life?' Take some weed and SHOVE IT IN YOUR EAR. Maybe that'll cure a few things. Think about it. Someone out there is a lot worse off then you are. Take me for example. I am so sexy that I don't know what to do with myself! I mean, like, all the guys love me but I SO don't know if there in it for just my personality! I want guys to want me for my body! WHY WONT ANYONE TOUCH MY BODY?!I am going to do some crack-whores. Call me if you need me. 1-617-861-3962




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