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What is the normal "Chest" size for a 14 year old girl?

I wear a C cup, but there are many people with way bigger cha-chas, and what are some ways to make myne look bigger???
Thanks, and please no "they are fine the way they are," and that kind of stuff. I'm just wondering. (link)
normal size of the chest depends upon the height and race. you're cup c and you're only 14 years old? wow! you're really blessed with big "cha-chas". but if you want to get bigger breast, you may use push-ups or pads. good posture also enhances your breast so stand, sit and walk in good posture. use clothes that also enhances your breasts. do not use too loose clothes. wear something that are somewhat fit on the waist or below your chest to impose your breast. this helps your cha-chas look bigger.
hope this will help. :)


i've had my period on april 17th, it started april 17th and now i have some discharge, well it the discharge is usually clear liquid or kind of brown but now sometimes when i wipe myself there is some blood.....sometimes not a lot though only on the toilet paper....is that normal cuz i've never noticed blood it's usually just clear or kind of brown....it's kind of freaking me out....i am married i do have sex i know i am not pregnant for sure......is that normal or is something else going on....please answer as soon as possible any advice is appreciated. Thank you !!! (link)
if its the first time that you had this kind of menstruation, there is a possible problem. ask your doctor about it. there are some women who have the same problem as you but it happened to them ever since so its normal but in your case, you've only experienced this recently. I advice you to get a check up for assurance.


Well, me and my boyfriend had sex like 3 or 4 days ago and he told me he got off in me, twice, 'cuz we had sex twice that day and that he got off in me both times. well, he said that he's had sex before with like 3 girls and he's got off in them and they didn't get pregnant. He says that he thinks he may not be fertile, but I'm just scared that there may be this chance that I could be pregnant. If I am, my parents would absolutely kill me. What are some of the syptoms that you get right after you get pregnant..like food cravings?.. things like that? is there a big chance that I could be pregnant. answers asap will be appreciated very much!!! (link)
well there is a big chance that you could get pregnant. don't rely on what your boyfriend told you that the three girls didn't get pregnant. each woman reacts differently. maybe they did it when those women were in their infertility period.
anyways, these are the possible symptoms but take note that these may not appear on every women.
:> nausea
:> morning sickness - note that morning sickness does not happen in the morning only. these may happen anytime of the day.
:> a feeling of swollen breast
:> possible drowsiness
:> a feeling that there is a butterfly in the stomach
;> frequent urination
:> food cravings
:> missed period - this is the first sign that you are possibly pregnant. When you missed your period use the pregnancy test. this will help you.

* Note that these symptoms are also signs of pre menstruation. So be careful and don't be mistaken on menstruation with pregnancy. for assurance, use the pregnancy test or get a check-up.
* don't be afraid of your parents in case you get a positive result. just tell them truthfully and im sure they will NOT kill you. you may be scolded but eventually they will accept it. think positive and be strong. expect for the consequences and be prepared for it. and PLEASE in case do not get an abortion ok.
I hope you will not get pregnant and i hope this will help.


alrighty so i'm 15/f and i'm still a virgin, never had a bf and never fooled around before. so basicly i'm totally unexperienced. but it's not cause i'm ugly or something, in fact a couple of guys liked me but i'm probably the shyest person ever: i cant even look boys i like in the eye :/. so yeah nothing ever happened.
so all my friends and classmates already did stuff like fingering, blowjobs handjobs sex etc.
theyre also around 15 years old. i'm like a total outsider and i cant even imagin a guy seeing me without a top or anything. i'm just extremely shy as i said before. and i'm NEVER gonna make a move. the only guys i can talk to are ugly guys cause around them i dont feel nervous obviously. (sorry if this is a bit offencinve)
and also, is it normal that everyone is already doing this stuff at this age??? i feel so weird. i mean yeah i like imagining me doing that stuff as well, but i CANT in person. and yeahyeah i know its not all about physical stuff but i cant even TALK to a hot guy or a guy i really like.
is the behaviour of my friends normal at this age?
and is there something wrong with me?
and as i said it'S NOT my looks because i've been told i'm one of the prettiest girls in school. and i SERIOUSLY dont wanna brag or anything, i just want to give you the facts so i can get good answers :P
well thanks for reading. :) xxx (link)
CONGRATULATIONS for not giving up your virginity to others!!!!!!!!! IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!. engaging in sex is not to be proud of. don't be jealous of your friends because they are not "well-kept". they are not concerned with their body and their future. virginity is a precious gift that you can give to your future husband. It's something to be proud of.
PLEASE don't conform with your friends and classmates because it is really NOT NORMAL especially at your age!!!!!!! it is like treating yourself GARBAGE!!!!! wait for the right time.


ok so like this is really embaresing but seriously i like brush my teeth like 4 times a day, cause for sum reason when i brush my teeth and floss and use mouthwash about 30 minutes later they feel dirty again my mouth feels dirty and my breath smells! idk what should i do? i was just at the dentist like a month ago and he didnt say anything was wrong.. is there anything i can do to help my breath and teeth? pLease help k thanks! =] (link)
i think there is a problem with your eating habits. do you eat on the right time and the right amount and food? if you aren't eating, you may have the tendency to have foul breath because of the acids released in the stomach. this is probably the reason why you feel dirty. Even if you brush 50 times a day if you aren't eating, you will still have to suffer from bad breath.


What are some things girls can do to a guy to really turn him on while you guys are making out.

Hope that made sense.

I will rate or whatever. Lol (link)
every man has different fantasies that makes them turn on. think of things that you haven't tried before. im sure this will give them a big urge. try kissing, licking and blowing his neck, ears and the back of his ears. also, try sucking and licking his nipples. this gives them an electrifying feeling.


okayy so im 15 and a female.. well i know for a fact, 100 percent that i want to wait until marriage before i have sex and i know that in the future guys will respect you more if yoou werent out and about being a little whore..but right now i feel like i cant get a boyfriend.. at all bc im just not like that idk im not ugly and im not shy but it feels likee every guyy just wants to have sex like all the time or something. idk what to do..is this just how they r at this age?? (link)
don't worry if you don't have a boyfriend now. besides you're only 15 years old. there are lots of years and guys to wait. if a guy wants to have sex with you in order for him to be your boyfriend, i tell you leave that guy because he doesn't want you as you and you will not be happy with him. Wait for the guy that will respect you and love you. I'm sure God has designated a perfect man for you. All you have to do is to wait for him.
Don't always conform with the society. men at your age are naturally like that because they are on the experimental stage. they don't have enough knowledge to control their cravings.


hi. well my prom is on thursday(i go to a really small christian school and its cheaper to have prom on thursday) so anyway lately i have had pimples on my neck and i have never had it before-i think its because my hair is longish now and actually reaches past my shoulders--so anyway i was wondering what to do that could clear that up fast and make it look good. i have been using this new cleanser that does wonders and is clearing it up well but my hair is going to be up for prom and i will be so embarrassed if anyone sees. also my forehead has some really tiny small pimples near my hairline and those bother me too so anything to do to get rid of those small problem areas would be great!! thanks :) (link)
since your prom is fast approaching its impossible to clear your pimples right away. I suggest u to put on concealers to hide those pimples. anyway its only for a night. why don't u try it now and see for yourself. It may not be as effective as you want but it can help you lessen the exposure of those pimples. i hope this will help.




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