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Member Since: April 28, 2005
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Last Update: April 29, 2005
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1. well i was wondering if a girl that is 15 turning 16 in 2 months is going out with someone that just turned 25, could that someone go to jail?
2. what if the girl is not a virgin and the cops find out and they try to accuse the boy and she denies it could they file charges???
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yes and yes/ if her parents choose to file charges they could


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Well, I've been going out with my bf for 6 months. Today I found out he still has feelings for his exgirlfriend from his old school. It made me question how I feel for him. When he came to our school, I was the only one who was nice to him. So I think he's just going out with me because of that. I really love him a lot and I want to know for sure if he feels the same way about me. Everytime I ask he says "You're the only person here I care about." So I think he'd rather be with the other girl. What should I do? How can I get him to talk to me? And how should I break up with him if I do? He's the only person I have so if I lose him I'll be miserable. And it's impossible for me to be "just friends" with him. I don't like him as a friend... Please help. PLEASE! I'm so confused! (link)
It's not possible to love someone if you dont like them as a friend..i see what you want to say ...however, a lover is nothing but a best friend of the opposite sex


ok well my dad is an alcholic and he drinks like every night and like a month ago he got pulled over for drunk driving he is in jail now and gets out in a few monthes! but before he went in he would always hit me and my family (not my mom tho)!! it gets me upset and dont no what to do!! and he only hits us when he isnt drunk so its either hes drunk or really mean does ne one no n e thing i can do w/o my mom knowing cuz she would freak if she found out that i tell ppl!! ~kel (link)
school guidance counselor...tell them...they will think of a good reason on why they came to the conclusion and call the cops...i know it sounds hard but if your own health is at stake do what you have to do


Okay well i have been on a diet for about a month now. I have lost 10 pounds. (I'm pretty big so i'm nowhere close to goal weight.) I was wondering if anyone had any tips to speed up the weight loss? And also, I know it takes time, but no one has even noticed that I lost weight so it is starting to really get to me. It is very hard to stick to a diet but I am doing it and no one is even noticing! Some people still make fun of me and it gets discouraging. Does anyone know what I could do to just block out what they say until I lose all the weight? (link)
I think Roger Ebert put it best..."I can lose weight, but no matter what you do your always going to be the guy who directed that horrible film" I think this could work for you if you change it a bit to fit the situation


hey well last night me and my bf where talking online for like 2 hours and then he had to go and take a shower and left his away message on and while he was gone his uncle came in and saw what he was sayin to me and he got in trouble because he was sayin bad things online and for some reason i think it is my fault. is there anything i can do because now his uncle doesnt want him talkin to me so the only way i can talk to him is by email. can someone plz help me??? (link)
Trust no one when it comes to online...IMs, more than anything are read by many people, not just the people they are directed to...I'd just try and wait a while with your bf...wait it out and take the opportunity when it arises...you dont want your bf's uncle hating you, so wait until he thinks its alright


My heels on my feet are seriously cracked and dry. Its disgusting. How can I make my feet smooth for summer? Are there any lotions/treatmants you recommend? (link)
Any lotion will work for feet really but try st. ives apricot scrub..it can help get rid of dead skin


What amount of sperm is needed to be in a female in order for her to get pregnant? (link)
1 sperm...thats all it takes...more sperm however increases the chances of the girl getting pregnant...sperm are like a chicken with its head cut off... however if it happens to find an egg it has a chance of fertilizing it...the normal ejaculation releases about half a million sperm though


Short versions of a verrrry confusing story:

this guy likes me so much. hes nice, soo sweet, easy to talk to, pretty cute and funny. but i keep comparing him to this guy i used to like. the guy that likes me now. he seems like the perfect guy, but always tells me about his feelings for me..i think its clingy and annoying. hes soo perfect but i just don't have feelings for him! i keep trying to stop comparing him and i think if i give it time, i might like him. but, i just don't see that happening. he likes me soo much and thinks i like him a lot too and thats my fault because i let him think that. but WHAT should i do! i'm not into talking about feelings and he is, its like hes obsesed w.me. should i break it off now or just wait?? PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
If you like him let it be....seeing that you say you dont like him tell him...anything short of that would just be being a total bitch and no one likes wants to be known for that...dont worry about his feelings either...better now then later




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