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will god forgive me and will I still go to heaven when I follow through with what I'm about to do. I figure if I'm going to loose everything I'm going to loose it on my terms. I am going to jail for driving under suspennsion and I,m on disability and I'll loose everything I'm already living my life in a wheelchair from a motorcycle accident. I already have my mind made up (link)
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You need to talk yo a preacher or a priest. Throwing away God's gift of life is not a good way to go.
You might feel like you are going to lose everything, but I believe we all have something good to offer the world. Maybe this is a turning point in your life. I believe everything happens for a reason, and we often don't know the reason for events that lead us down a given path until much later.
Take this as a golden opportunity to change your life for the better and make a positive impact on the world. Just one or two small things can make a small impact on the world around you; and it is truly amazing how the actions of just one individual can impact the entire world!
Do the right thing, suicide is never the correct option.
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My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).
Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.
I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).
My problem is my mother.She's always been an mental abuser and only to me.She says that "I'll never be anything","I'll never go to college,and even if I did I'd fail it","Ill never be anything in life,or have a husband let alone a boyfriend"... That was just this week.
She said that to me because I told her to "hold on one moment" while I was filling up water bottles,and she wanted me to look for a phone number for her.It only took 2 minutes and I couldn't look away or I'd have water on the floor.
My sister is a major suck up to our mother.She sides with her even when moms wrong.She won't stick up for anyone and can't even keep a job that long.she keeps calling out at work and lying to them about why.I tell her to quit it and I get screamed at by mom (mom encourages her to call out).
Right now I got no friends,because I don't have time.I got no other family to go to,and right now mother plans on leaving with my sister.They plan to go to grandma's and I can't come.she made that clear.Were all old enough to be on our own,but we weren't ever encouraged or pushed to go on our own.Our mother was one of those ones that did everything for you,even when you didn't want her to (tried getting her to stop,but that only made her mad and she'd guilt me into letting her).
So where do I go?Do I leave my job and beg my deadbeat dad to go,live with him in another state?
Or do I take my chances on the street?If I do that I lose everything I own. (link)
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It seems to me your mother and sister are holding you back from life. You need to leave that situation now. Do whatever it takes to get on your own. A second job may be necessary , even if it is in the evening.
Get a paper route if you are able to; you might be surprised at how well a paper route can pay. Scratch and claw and do whatever it takes (within the law) to make yourself a success. Don't make any excuses for yourself about how life dealt you a bad hand or how you can't get another job. Your life is in your hands, take control. If you can do it sooner before your mother and sister are able to get to your grandmothers that would be best.
Right now they are relying on you as you are them. Its time to teach them a lesson and pull the rug out. You should always honor your parents for if it weren't for them you wouldn't be here. However right now it is time for your action. You only have one shot at life and your time is now. Don't let your family hold you down any longer. "With the weight on his shoulders Atlas Shrugged."
Make your own path. Good luck.
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ok so me and my husband have been trying to have another baby for the past 8-9 months now.. and I have a tilted uterus so therefore it makes it a little more harder for me to get pregnant.. its pretty frustrating and gets a little depressing.. anyways my question is that does anyone know what we could do/try to make conceiving a little more easier? and yes, we try different positions as well.. thank u in advance!! (link)
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My wife and I just got ripped one night and tore one off, so maybe that will work.
Seriously, there is something to say for not trying too hard. Relax, have some fun (not just with baby making but daily as well), and let nature take over.
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I'm 22, almost finished with college, and currently living with my parents. I desparately want to move out of my house, and I would like to live with my boyfriend, but I am vacillating between both sides. I don't know if I should just go ahead and get a place with him, or stay at home until I graduate (with all my bills and tuition paid, therefore no financial stress on me). (link)
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The answer to this riddle all depends on where you want to end up later in life.
If you stay living at home with no costs you may actually have a chance at financial freedom by the time you are 73 years old. This, however, depends on your career choice. Did you major in some meaningless subject like mathematics? What the hell does a mathematician do anyways? I guess mathematicians probably work government jobs which means you won’t have to work your fingers to the bone until you’re 73, might be 54 or 55 when you retire. If that is the case well bravo!
On the other hand moving in with your boyfriend can be rewarding as well. You will be free from your mommy and daddy telling you what you can and can’t do. How old did you say you are?
However, within a year you could be pregnant with your bastard boyfriend’s bastard baby as he decides he isn’t ready to settle down and takes off with your best friend the stripper. Well that will teach you a lesson for having a stripper as your best friend, but I guess they need friends too.
Unable to support yourself and afraid go back to mommy and daddy since they told you this would happen, you yourself decide to enter the dancing profession. You then find yourself addicted to meth and homeless in the mean streets of Dubuque. “Is this hell” you ask the local gas station clerk, and the clerk responds, “No, it’s Iowa”.
Bottom line here is to continue free-loading off of mommy and daddy until they ask you to leave. I don’t care if you are 30 and have a little paper route for your fun money, as long as they are willing to fork over the cash to keep you safe and sound, take the deal.
Tell that bum boyfriend of yours if he wants you to move in he better get a damn good job, a big ass house, and the biggest diamond ring west of the Mississippi. In the words of Beyoncé put a ring on it!
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Whenever i try to use system restore, it tells me System Restoration Failed. I have already tried about 10 different restore points. My system restore IS enabled, it is set to use max amound of HD space it can.
Anyone who knows anything about what may be wrong, please help. Thanx (link)
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You've been looking at porn again haven't you? Shame shame shame on you. Porn is bad and that is God's way of striking you down, ha ha.
You could take your system to a computer repair shop and have it fixed in a jiffy. Unfortunately for you, the computer repair geek will see everything you have been up to, you know, the porn you have been looking, among other unscrupulous things, so you are totally hosed.
Fortunately for you though, I can help. You need to wash your computer thoroughly. Your computer is obviously unclean as a result of the porn you have been looking at (shame shame) and it is probably sick with a virus. First, fill up a washtub or bathtub full of water. Then at 2 cups of bleach, awe screw it, dump the whole bottle of bleach in, it’s very dirty. Then submerge your machine completely and scrub thoroughly with a sponge. I almost forgot, make sure it is not plugged in before you put it in the water; that would be bad. Just to be sure there is no electrical charge, remove the battery, and you may want to stand on rubber matt while washing.
Once you are done washing the machine, let it dry out for a few days. Don't, and I mean don't plug it in unless it is dried out completely, as I said, that would be very bad and injury or death could occur. Actually, you better not plug the machine in to a power source ever again.
Next, take it outside and throw it down on the road as hard as you can and stomp it with your feet until it is dismembered. A baseball bat or golf club would do the trick too. Then put it in a box and ship it back to the bastards who made the pile of garbage in the first place.
Well actually Ching Chong in China isn't to blame; it is the engineers out in Silicon Valley who think they know how to design and program computers, so send it to them instead. Attach a note telling them you dug their computer out of the trash and decoded their hard drive, and now you know "everything" they have been up to, including the porn they have been looking at, and their plans to give machines artificial intelligence and take over the world.
Somewhere there is a computer engineer laughing at our incompetence, well now they will laugh no more!
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Here's the situation:
I am a Baptist. My in-laws and my husband are Methodists. My husband and I attend a Baptist church. Under most circumstances, I don't pay attention to denominational differences, because I think we're all going to the same place anyway.
The problem is that my in laws, especially my mother-in-law, have made it clear that they don't like the fact that we're going to the "wrong" church. Earlier we even suggested that they could come to church on Christmas Eve with us, and my mother-in-law burst into tears and ran out of the room.
Evidently, the fact that I am not a Methodist offends them deeply. I don't want to join a different church just to please them, though. Any thoughts on what to do that doesn't involve hurting everyone's feelings? (link)
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Screw their feelings; they obviously don’t care much for your feelings. As many people often do, they are completely missing the point of religion, church, spirituality, Christianity, whatever you want to call it. For these people it is more about being Methodist or Catholic than it is about being a Christian. You could pray that your mother-in-law be raptured immediately NOW. Somebody give me an Amen!
First of all, you shouldn’t do ANYTHING to please that bitch who bore your husband. I’m sorry, but this is the most ridiculous thing I have heard in quite some time. I did not know the Methodists thought so highly of themselves versus the other denominations. And don’t worry about your husband’s feelings on this; you are the woman and therefore the boss. He doesn’t have any say in this whatsoever.
You should consider becoming Catholic. After all, no one thinks more highly of themselves than Catholics. Then when you get together with your in-laws you could taunt and tease her for being a lowly Methodist. You could even come up with a little chant similar to what you might here at a college sporting event. Just sing, "Catholic Rejects" while pointing in her direction, and make sure to clap your hands to the beat and make it fun; or "The Methodist Church has got to go, hey hey, ho ho".
Another fun thing to do would be to join a holy-roller church. You know, the ones where they dance with rattle snakes while drinking turpentine. If your mother-in-law gives you any guff, just throw a snake in her lap.
That ought to learn her a lesson. If not, you could always become Mormons. You probably would not approve of your husband having more wives, but trust me on this one. Just think, instead of having just you to hate on, your mother-in-law would have 6 or 7 other daughters-in-law to worry about. That's 6 or 7 other wives in your corner to gang up on your mother-in-law. Then she will have a real reason to shed some tears.
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Ok I work with a guy who is super smart and would like to "pick his brain" about stuff, He has initally said "I ask ALOT of questions" to his "best friend who is a woman. When I ask him questions about something job related all he says is ok. I know they said he is shy to other people or warms up slowly, but come on when do try to talk to him its just OK. OR he has his "entourage" of women around. He is polite to me, and I am him as well. When do ask his BF questions she just laughs, told her am not trying to hit on him. Just want to ask work related questions and get a better response. Now to her and other women he is an open book. What the heck? I dont over load him with questions or anything. And if do talk to him prefer to do when he's alone. Just tonight heard him and her laughing and whispering cause know she told him what I said. Just want better working enviroment, not trying to flirt with him. (link)
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Yeah, like, Im really sure his brain is what you want to pick. You said he has an entourage of women around him, are you sure he isnt secretly an advice columnist who goes by the name Dink the Shrink, because that sounds just like someone I know; a drink in one hand, a Cuban in the other, and a fine cigar close by. This crush of yours, oh I mean smart guy at work as you tell it, makes me proud to be a man. However, it does sound like you are being made out to be a fool by his girlfriends.
He himself is probably a good guy, and you seem to think he is smart and worthy of giving opinions. The problem may be that you are NOT trying to flirt with him.
What do ya say, should we fix those hussies up for good or what? You can start by wearing some very skimpy clothing to work, I mean skimpy. If you dont think you will get his attention think again. He is a guy and it wont take much, but the skimpier the better just to stay on the safe side. In fact, if you would like to send some pictures along my way just to make sure you are on the right track that would be…no better not, I dont think Mrs. Dink would appreciate that very much even if it is in the name of helping others.
Now when you know you have his attention with your wardrobe, some revealing poses will help get his FULL attention. You know, bend over to pick something up in front of him, and lean over his desk and pick something up, gosh darn it, Im daydreaming again..........okay, Im done, and now back to your PRECIOUS question. The point is to make his girlfriend, and his whole entourage of women as you put it, jealous as all hell. You can try running your fingers through his hair while you talk to him. Rub his.......back a little bit at lunch time (and get your mind out of the gutter).
When you start to do these things, you wont be hearing any snarky laughs from his lady friends anymore, thats a guarantee. Those little bitches will probably be waiting for you at the flagpole after work, so be careful and keep your head up, and maybe leave through the back door from now on.
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I have been married for about 2 months. Me and my husband have talked about having kids, but I'm not sure when the right time to have them is. Help? (link)
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The right time to have children is NEVER, ever ever. You've only been married for 2 months and already youre talking about kids? Are you insane? The honeymoon isnt even over, and there are far more important things you should be doing in this part of your marriage.
Right now you should be thinking of nothing more than pleasing your husband. Other than giving it up to him at least 5 times per day, there is much more you need to be doing in order to make sure he is a happy man.
When your hubby gets home from a hard day of manly work, make sure you have an ice cold beer, or two, or three, waiting for him on a silver serving tray. Then tell him to park it in front of the television and give him a nice shoulder and neck massage while he enjoys his first brew of the evening.
Over the weekend you could invite his friends over to watch "the game". Make sure to have all of his favorite foods: fried cheese curds, jalapeno poppers, pizza, chili, those little pickle ham and cream cheese thingys, and of course lots and lots of cold beer. You could add a nice touch by serving them in a French maid outfit or something slinky. Yes, your right, I'm daydreaming again, so what.
Now you ask what the hell does this have to do with having children? I know you are ready to strike when the iron is still hot and start popping out little pukers, but it is way too early in your marriage to be doing that. You need to make your husband think he has hit the wife jackpot first. This is something that can take considerable time, but the payoff will be worth it.
Do you have to tramp around the house in slinky little silk teddys, serving ice cold beer and laughing at all of his stupid jokes? Absolutely a must. You obviously have never had a discussion with one of your lady friends or mother about how to hook your man for good, otherwise you wouldn't be thinking about having children 2 months into your marriage.
The above behavior is a definite must for at the very least a full year. Then it will be the right time to sink the hook and yank him into your boat for keeps, and thats when you tell him your pregnant. At that point you can tell him hands off, get your own damn beer, and no your idiot friends cannot come over. You can also tell him to cook his own damn dinner from now on because he is the bastard that did this to you and he isnt gonna get anything from you ever again. My advice to your husband, get it while you can brother.
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I am a female and am 22 and have never had a boyfriend. This seems to bother my family more than it bothers me.
My mom, grandma, and aunts will make comments about it. I can't relate to my sisters and cousin who are completely different from me, and have dated since they were 14. Recently someone I don't know asked my mom about me, a guy, and said he eNter to meet me. I am not interested right now in dating, I like guys and eventually want a boyfriend but not now. I am under slot of stress right now, I have slot of anxiety, depression, my home life is not normal, not is my parents relationship, and my family is very judgmental. My mom wants me to,meet this guy and I don't. Now everyone thinks im weird. What do I do? (link)
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It is quite normal for mothers to meddle in their child's life, and this probably will never ever end, so get used to it kid. Seriously, this is just the tip of the iceberg that took out the Titanic. Just wait until you get married, assuming you will ever like anyone else, ever decide to date, and get married. Your husband will truly be in for a treat. As for your grandmother and aunts, well, apparently they need a hobby. Why don't you ask your grandmother to go make a quilt or something. You could even get her a cute little bumper sticker for her car that says "Id Rather Sewing". Then tell her to park her fat ass behind the sewing machine and get to work.
Now Im not quite sure why your aunts would care so much about "your" love life, but you could tell them that their choice in men has turned you off on the whole dating thing for a while, maybe for life, and thank them for ruining yours.
I do have good news. There is hope. You can fix your mother, grandmother, and aunts for good. Or at least you can have fun trying to do so. Head down to your nearest college and watch a womens softball practice for a scouting mission. No, you are not going to scout the best softball talent, but rather the best woman. I want you to find the biggest, burliest looking lady you can find; preferably one with a butch haircut, some tats, and one that rides a Harley. When you find the right slice of meat, invite her over to dinner at your house to meet your family. If you or your new friend is uncomfortable with this, you can offer to pay her to take you to dinner. Then hire someone to be waiting at your house to take pictures when you come roaring up the driveway on the back of a hog, because the reaction from your family will definitely be a Kodak moment worth saving. The best part is the fun doesnt stop there.
Introduce your new friend to your family and tell them you are moving in together. You dont have to come out (pun intended) and say anything about being girlfriends, they will deduce that quickly enough. After a scrumptious dinner, and some winks and games of footsy with your new friend, tell your friend to get down on all fours and crawl around the living room while you ride on her back spanking her and screaming "giddy up". You could then start making out in front of them, but that might be a little over the top; and I would hate for you to be charged with murder if your grandmother, aunts, or mother were to keel over. At this point I would normally invite you to send pictures of a make out scene, but in this case please dont, Dink doesnt want to see that. Not that I have anything against lesbian love, Im all for that.
Lesbian love is what this may be about. Your family probably thinks you like the ladies and not the guys. So indulge them a little bit, have some fun, and then tell them to BUTT OUT!
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Hello, I am 22 and will be attending my last year of school an hopefully get my social work diploma. So far there have been some budget cuts to the social services sector in Ontario (Canada) and I am concerned about the quality of work I will be able to get when I graduate. I anticipate I will be about 4000 in debt when I finish school, as I have saved all my life and have been able to pay for most of everything myself (school, braces, books, clothes etc). My family was never really financially "comfortable" and so I have never been the spoiled child. I have been dating someone for 6 yrs and he too comes from a similar background and not financially comfortable. I love to go out and do things with him (travel, camp, shows etc) but it is really hard to afford and so lately we have been trying to compromise about where we can cut our expenses. The thing is I am not cutting on my savings and he will not cut his car expenses which I respect because we are still individuals an have the right to spend on whatever we desire. My problem is I would love so ideas on what I can do for free!!! And what I can do to feel better about myself financially. I help my mom out at home and btw do not like living at home (my mom smokes in the house and I have asked her to stop or smoke outside and it is a constant fail so I gave up) . Do right now I make 900 monthly (255-bills such as home phone, cell, cable & Internet, 125-savings, 200- debt, 80-120 on transportation which leaves about 200 for food, school medical and everything else monthly including entertainment.) I just would really love to be spoiled right now and have someone pay for everything for me! I am So frustrated with being poor!!! Please help, there really isn't much I can cut down on. The bills are mostly to help my mom out! Should I tell her I can afford to help her out anymore? What are some things I can do for free to give me time to relax and enjoy myself and my bf!!! Please help, any ideas are better than no ideas. THANKS (link)
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You chose social work for a major and career, and I must ask, what the hell were you thinking? Social work, really? How do you expect to make any money in your lifetime with that career choice? I would suggest changing your major to something that will at least pay a living wage.
In the short term have you ever thought about a part-time job or full-time career in the performing arts? There’s this great place down the road from me called “Pole Position”, and I hear that people throw money at the performers. Seriously though, you should do what most sane clear-thinking women would do in today’s society, dump the bum! If you have a job that isn’t going to be self-supporting, then you need to find a sugar daddy that does. Stop thinking of things you can do for free and find someone who has some serious cash. However, if you chose to go the boring route and stick with your bum, I do have some good suggestions for free entertainment.
Take a trip to one of your local smut stores with your boyfriend, preferably one with peep booths, but when you get there, don’t go in. Instead, open the door and laugh and point at everyone you see, and then run! Another activity involves spending some money, but great fun is guaranteed. Take your parents for a ride. Make your next stop a convenience store, but park on the side or somewhere you won’t be seen by many other patrons. Have your boyfriend go in for snacks and offer to buy your parents a snack or drink too. When your hubby comes back, have him run to the car wearing a ski mask, get in, and tell you to floor it. Do this after you have told your parents you’re pregnant and getting married because you have to. Maybe not the greatest of activities for a future social worker, great fun nonetheless. A social worker, seriously?
Mother Theresa would appreciate your career choice, but your ‘bank’ won’t. Yes I said bank and not bank account. You can be one of two people when you go through the drive-thru at the bank: the one who barely gets a greeting and a smile from the snotty teller who can see your finances on the screen in front of them, and then your given some cheap dollar store suckers for your kids; or you can be the person that gets smiles and adulation from the gold-digging tellers, not only that, they just may break out the big candy bars for your screaming little brats in the back seat. The choice is yours, who do you want to be?
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My husband and I attended His brother's daughter's wedding. We are the very immediate family.All of my husband's brothers and sisters(also immediate family) and their spouses were seated at the front of the room at table 1 and 2 ,however we were assigned seats in the very back of the room.We were surprised and saddened by their choice to put us there. The whole family is very kind ,loving and religious.There are no problems between any of us, we really love all of them. We feel so hurt. Should we address this? If so ,Is there a polite way to do it?I am lost and so hurt. Thank You (link)
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The question you need to ask yourself is why they seated you in the back of the room. Maybe they just don't like you and that was their cowardly way of telling you so. Are you annoying, self-centered, untidy, or just plain ugly? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then BINGO there's your answer, and I would suggest avoiding any public appearances from here on out. Of coarse I'm joking, mostly, and if anyone reading this takes me seriously then just take your head and stick it where the sun don't shine. You were wronged and made to be fools in front of your family and friends and you have every right to be outraged.
Not only were you not seated in the front at one of the family tables, you were assigned to sit in the back of the room. I can understand if space was limited and not everyone could sit at table 1 or 2, however, they didn't even make an attempt to seat you somewhat close to the front with the rest of the immediate family. Your so-called loving, caring, and religious in-laws chose to make complete asses of themselves by doing the same to you. Now it’s time to let the fun begin.
Revenge is sweet, fun, and justified. Most of the politically correct advice columnists in print would not agree with this revenge verdict, but that is because they are weak little cowards. There are several things you can do to get even:
Have your family and friends over for a party or holiday dinner, including your own personal family as well as your in-laws. When you all sit down to eat, make sure you seat your in-laws as far back in the room as possible, maybe even in another room. Better yet, have them sit at the kiddie table with the kids, assuming you or those flaming jackasses you call in-laws have any children.
You could confront them directly and ask them why they chose to embarrass you and your husband in front of everyone you know and love. If you don't get the answer you like, throw a drink in their face and ask them again why they chose to be rude and embarrass you in front of everyone you know and love. If you still don't get the answer you are looking for, throw another drink in their face.
Here’s yet another great way to accomplish your goal of getting even. You need to get each one of your husband's brothers and sisters together for a little one-on-one talk, each individually and not as a group. When you are alone together talking, drop something on the floor in front them. When they bend over to pick it up, kick them in the ass. However, maybe that task would be better handled by your husband.
Donald Trump was right on when he suggested recently getting even when someone takes advantage of you. Anyone cannot deny how good it feels to get revenge. At the very least you or your husband needs to confront your family on this issue. It doesn't matter how nice, loving, or self-righteously religious they are, if you do not get an answer, or at the very least some closure, this will eat you alive. You were wronged and it's time to make it right.
Now go out and have a nice sunshiny day!
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MY fiance has went to work on a oil rig camp. I thought everything was fine and i didnt think much of all the horror stories i heard...until a maid answered his phone one day...when he was in the shower and she was RIGHT there. why would the maid be right in his room or so near his bathroom? anf turns out they have been talking, and texting when he goes on his night shit ALLL night long as i saw his phone records. I cant see much reason to seek out the maid to be so close with when your engaged? (link)
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Sounds to me like the maid is cleaning more than just his room. However, you did say the maid answered the phone while he was in the shower, so maybe that is a good sign as she very well could have been "in" the shower with your fiance. The texting and talking all night long raises a few red flags, but I am an optimist. After all, she could be giving tips on how to scrub grout with a tooth brush, or how to properly dust with a feather duster. The real question is what she was wearing while she was performing her "maid" duties. If you could get me some pictures I might be able to better determine her activities in your fiance's bedroom. So, where you go from here?
If you do indeed believe your fiance is not being faithful, and I think that is quite apparent, it is time to move on---immediately. Of coarse this isn't easy. You were planning to spend the rest of your life with this person (in today's A.D.D. society that would be a few years at most). The first thing you need to do to move on is have a night on the town. Get your friends together and hit the bars, movies, bingo halls, whatever you do to have fun. Next, you need to one-up your fiance and find a maid to do a little "cleaning" for you, maybe even try out a few maids and get the cleaning of your life. Then, tell that hoser that thinks he is engaged that he can have his ho, and he is not going to have you. Don't be the victim be the aggressor, you deserve better. Take control of your life. Life is way too short to be miserable.
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