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I used to really hate people who asked relationship questions online. I'd see them, shake my head and say "Gezz, deal with your own life, internet people have no way of knowing the personalities of those involved and therefore no way of a shot of answering you"
...BUT... here goes...
I'm a female in highschool. Ok, moving on, I have a boyfriend. He's awesome. I know I should just be myself.. and I usually am... but... you know, I'm trying not to screw this up. Surely you can relate. Anyway... I'm just starting to feel as if he is liking me less. ...Or something. I have to call him if I ever want to talk to him. (Not that I mind, but I'd like a call directed at me occaisionally).
He'll hold my hand, stroke it... whatever.. but seems reluctant to hug me? Sorry, that's probably unrelated... I was just curious.
We were supposed to go see a movie today with another couple, but I forgot to remind him last night and I have no way of contacting the female of the other party. I'm just not sure what to do.
I know, this is a crappy question... Sorry. And A little jumpy... ok, here's I'll sum it up.
*I feel like he likes me less. What do I do?
*He'll touch me physically, but doesn't want to hug goodbye. Why?
*Any way to save today's outing?
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well idk what you should do about the hugging goodbye, but i do know that maybe you could try to call him and remind him about the movie that you were going to c to day before it is about an hour away from when the movie starts. if you can get a hold of him early enough maybe he wont have already mad plans for that time today. I dont really know if he is starting to like you less or not because i havent ever had to deal with that part between a guy liking me less but i started liking a guy less and broke up with him i just dont know what its like when a guy starts to like you less. I mean I dont know how they act and stuff.if you need anymore help about the movie i can try to help you some more if you im me at seksielilchink09@aol.com or if you email me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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im going out with someone and my family doesnt know it.....wat should i do???....i dont want them to know cause then they might not let me go out with her....how should i keep them out of my life?.... (link)
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i think that you should be like: "mom,dad you know im 13 right and im almost 14"and then they will say yes. then just tell them that you think that you are old enough to have a girlfriend and they should understand. tell them that you like this girl and that she has told you that she likes you too. and go on like that. just sit down and have a inteligent conversation with them. they should understand that you want to be able to have a girlfriend with out them watching your every move. tell them that its not going to infer with your homework and stuff like that. your dad should undrstand really easily but your mom might not understand as easily but she will understand.IF you NEED anymore HELP with this topic you can IM me at seksielilchick09@aol.com or EMAIL me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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I met this guy online, and he's 36. Yea old but I didn't plan on going out with the guy. He said he liked me and this guy is looking for a serious relationship. I am not, and I just want to be friends. We still talked on the phone, and online when I told him that I didn't want to be more than friends. Well he awlays got mad because he really likes me and he thought that if I talked to him more and more I would change my mind about going to visit him. He would always mumble stuff on the phone and I hated it so much. And when he did it another time, I was so pissed off. So I emailed him, told him that if hes trying to get me to come visit him that its not woking. That its rude to be saying what he says about me not coming to visit, and that he has to understand that we will only be friends. He understands but I'm scared he's not going to talk to me anymore. Because if he was trying to get me to change my mind.and if he knows its not working. I dont think he's going to try anymore. But this guy is so cool, and a great *friend* if he doesnt call this weekend I'm gonna be pretty sad. I regret sending the email, but on the other hand I dont regret it. Because I'm always hiding my feelings but this time I stood up for myself. Sorry its so long. I will rate you 5's! (link)
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well you shouldnt feel bad about sending the e-mail number one. number two you told him that you didnt watn to be more than friends and he was still trying to get to to feel bad about it and trying to get you to go visit him. I think that you should explain to him some of the reasons on why you are not looking for a serious relationship. when you sent him the letter you were letting him know that you didnt like him mubling stuff under his breath trying to get you to go visit him and you tried to tell him over the phone and he didnt pay that much attention to it. I also think that if he dosent call you then hes going to be hoping that you realized how much you like talking to him and stuff. because im pretty sure that you have heard the remedy that you dont realized ho wmuch you need someone or love someone untill they are gone, and he will be hoping the you will call him to show him that you cant stand not talking to him. if you need any more help you can im me at seksielilchick09@aol.com or you can e-mail me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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Ok i have a problem there is this girl that i like well i should say that i basically fell for and shes going out with someone already. She still treats me as a very good friend and everything and we are kinda close but it just sucks cause she has a boyfriend and she doesnt realize that he does things to annoy her and a lot of other things that make her mad but she doesnt want to accept it. Im not sure if it is just me talking or what but i need to ask am i just jealous of the guy or am i looking out for her? and also what should i do about this? (link)
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well i think that you are looking out for your friend. it seems to me that you care a lot about your friend and you dont watn to see her hurt! no i dont think you are jelious at all.if you need more help on this answer im me at seksielilchick09@aol.com or e-mail me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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well, he's the scenario. in the summer before 7th grade, i called me friend, nick. nick said he had to go to lake tahoe the day i had invited him over, and i said ok, call me back whenever you come back, he said ok. he doesnt call for many many weeks, so i decide to give him another call. he says he has to go somewhere else, so i say ok, call me when you get back. my dad says he sees nick walking with josh and matt (his 2 other friends) walking around where i live (because we live in the same area. im not friends with matt and josh by the way) so i guess ok he's blowing me off. i decide not to call him again. school starts, and i dont see him so much, and when i do, we just passed each other without a word. its his fault our friendship hasnt progressed at all. this year (8th grade) i see him in halls a lot more. when i go past him, should i say hello or nod my head? because remember this guys ruined my 7th grade world. i had to make all new friends. luckily i'm a great friend maker, and have gotten myself into 2 groups of my own. so should i acknoledge his existence? or pretend he's not there. thanks, and have a nice day. (link)
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well if i was in your shoes i would prolly give him another shot at being your friend. i mean its completely up to you but if you really want to be his friend again talk to him if he still blows you off then just ignore his exsitance on the earth. if you need anymore advice you can im me at seksielilchick09@aol.com or e-mail me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com
signed~:~Des~
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