im pretty sure i've been thruogh the same stuff you've had so if you ask for fome advice i'll do the best i can to make you happy and no worries....
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lastnite i was on the fone with my boyfriend and my mom kept coming in saying she needs the phone and i wouldn't get off cause my boyfriend and i were in the middle of a conversation. So... she took my cell phone which in this case my dad bought for me (parents are split up) and i pay for monthly and she only did it to waste my minutes. so when i got off the phone i walked into the living room and there she was on the couch talking on my phone and i got pretty pissed off about it. So... i tried grabbing it from her and told her to give me my damn phone but she pushed me away and slapped my arm and then she finally got off but she wouldn't give it to me and she went and got the home phone so again i tried grabbing for my cell phone and she pushed me into the wall and started choking me and cussing at me and so i called her a fucking bitch and she pushed me onto the couch and punched me in the chest and in the face and slapped me across the face and kept saying what did you just call me and i tried kicking her off me and then i finally got her off me and she goes to my stepdad you wanted her here then you can stay with her and she left..... thats just the background... but my question is what am i supposed to do, I have a HUGE mark on my neck from where she was choking me and now i have worse breathing problems (i have asthma pretty bad) i mean like should i call the poilce or should i call child services i have no idea what to do!! HELP ME PLEASE (link)
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you should either go off and live with your dad or live with another family member and if no one takes you talk to your counciler at school and see if she says that you should call child care or the police
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Hey, I hope you can help.
I went shopping at the mall today and my mom dropped me and a friend off. She never told us when she was picking us up. Apparently, since there was the daylight saving time change, I had a terrible perception of what time it was. It turned out that my mom had said 5:30 sometime before we picked up my friend. I finally got her call at about 7:15 and she was furious. She says that I'm incompetent and can't be trusted, both of which are untrue. How can I regain my mom's trust? THanks!! (link)
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do somehting really responsible and proove to her that you can be trusted....like babysitting or doing your homework everynight and it will come back!
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im really not comfortable with my body and i wanna try a diet..but i eat way too much and people always tell me how im not fat but they dunno that i suck it in all the time. This summer i wanna have a hot body and i dunno what to do! Does anybody know of any workouts that'll help me loose some pounds on my stomach?..thanks (link)
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try doing sit-ups about 50-100 and itll turn that fat[that im sure you dont have] into muscle and itll look good but also if you have a friend or if you have a trampoline then jump on that over the weekends day and night and that will also make you lose a lot of pounds
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This might sound strange, but I need tips on how to fight. I know how to hold my fists and how to swing, but I'm scared to break my knuckles or fingers when I swing at someone. I shouldn't be fighting, but I need to learn how to defend myself when someone starts with me, which has happened before and I didn't know how to fight. Also, where is a good spot to hit the person so they back off? (link)
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you shouldnt be wanting to know how to fight but to defend yourself you NEVER hit the other person first let them hit you first so you can either grab their hand or leg and just hit them back you wont break any knuckles but if you hit with your palm across the face then theyll be hurtin
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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this? (link)
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theres a lot of options you can do...you can visit him maybe every once in a while...you can just wait a little while longer and youll get over it eventually or you can get a new maybe even better pet that can replace him
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Ok so I use to play an instrumiment it was the fluet how ever you spell it. But i want to play drums or guitar my dad says no becasue I'll
quite like last time .The only thing i've tryed something and quite was the fluet which was like 3 to 4 years ago. I love the way drums, guitar and some other things sound when I grow up want to be some one who makes up beats. But he said i don't have a good enough reson. I listen to music 3 hours a day(screamo kind)my dad also said he doesnt want me playing drums and guitar cuz there loud . I told him if doesn't let me do anything how I'm I ,going to know what I like if he doesn't let me try. Can you guys give me a good reason that might change the way my dad thinks about drums and guitar? (link)
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i feel the same way with drums and my mom says the same thing and theres two answers to this...either proove to them that you can stay in activities that you like and or tell him that you can get a sound proof garage or room and maybe he'll allow it....
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i think my sister is anorexic or bulimic....idk what to do tho bc every time i ask her about it, she just denys it, but all of her friends tell me she is, what should i do?! (link)
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wait for her to tell YOU...dotn try and rush her...if you be super nice to her maybe she'll feel more conferatable around you and tell you
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I am at the end of my rope, I have been married almost two yrs to my High school sweetheart.(after a 18 yr seperation since high school)She has two kids age 13 and 10. I have two boys age 12 and 9. My problem is this, Her children disrespect me and lie to me and get away with murder, while I make my kids respect her and do what they are told. Her son 10, has A.d.d and cried to his dad so much, that he was taken off the prescribed medicine. His father was too proud to accept the fact that the boy needs the meds to concentrate. He repeatedly says this to his son until he is unbearable. He cried and cried to get his mom to stop the medicine, Because he didnt need it. He was an A student until a month or so ago, when his dad decided that he didnt need it. Since then the child is unruly .whiny, moody, throws temper tantrums, and lastly his grades have already dropped. Yesterday i checked the kids grades on the Internet, and he wnet from all A's to a D+, C, and a couple B's. He threw a temper tantrum, when told he was now grounded, and then blamed the teacher for his grades. He looked his mother in the face and screamed at her" you made me take medicine that I dont need. All while crying and throwing a fit. I said to my wife, if that isnt his dad talking i will kiss your a$$. I was the one reprimanded by her for saying that to her, not her sons bad grades. She then coddled him the remainder of the night. Herelies the problem, He calls the other kids names, he tattles, he Lies to my face, and He comes out smelling like a rose. He was grounded from his game boy, his brother asked to play one of his games, he said no, until i stepped in. The previous day he was allowed to play my other sons game boy because he was grounded from it for a bad grade. His mother made my son give him the gameboy because he forgot his at his dads house, yet said nothing when he wouldnt let the youngest use his. A little later the yougest son(of mine) said your being a jerk, and was immediately told to go to bed. Unlike her children, My son immediately complied and went to bed in tears. I am at the end, i just cant deal with this crap no more. I grew up with a step mother who acted the same way and it makes me sick to see my kids treated that way. My wife refuses to see this and it is ruining my marriage. Please Help. The question is How do I make my wife see this is going on, and stop it before its too late. (link)
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well...if you love your wife enough then youd stay with her....but wouldnt you think that if the kids really didnt like you then theyd live with their dad? but i know how it is to have a step dad and i know i would treat mine bad....but now i regret it... theyre just having a hard time realizing that their mom and dad arnt going to get back together....and just have patients and DO NOT tell your wife that her kids are treating you wrong because she might take it the wrong way and it will start madness....but if she loved you enough i'd think she notice or say something to her children...
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im 16 and had a baby 3 months ago today.my mum and dad are strict catholics and demanded that me and my baby)s father to get married.well me and the babys father split. so my mum and dad were like "i told u so". i left home and moved into a council flat.i have got exams this yaer and im finding it so hard.even tho i have paid childcare thoughtout the day im so tired to do anything.my mum said that i had her and so shes my responsability.im getting desperate now and even thought about adoption.has anyone got any good advica on how to cope. the last thing i want to do is say to my mum that she was right.sorry its long. (link)
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You can appaligize to your mom and tell her that you're sorry you kinda messed stuff up but DO NOT! put your baby up for adoption...it wont be worth it... you might be having trouble right now but in the future it will be so worth it...try getting back with your boyfriend adn work things out and if not ask him if he can help out with the baby...
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This guy I know has told me he liked me a few weeks ago. I STARTED to like him BEFORE he told me. When he told me and continued to confess his love for me, he just got less and less attractive. He got clingy, and obsessive. He calls me 3 or 4 times a day and can't go a day without tlaking to me on the phone, as if we are in a relationship! I suggested we hang out during spring break so I can get to know him, but then I got too busy. Then he made me promise I'd go out with him during the summer when I'm not too busy! OMG! I have tried not talking to him on the phone and avoiding his calls, but nothings working. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I DID tell him I wasn't into a boyfriend right now. Any advice? (link)
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I've had a guy like that...and what i did to aviod him was i told him to stop calling so much and that yall arent dating so yall dont have to talk everyday and just tell him that you liked him better when yall were friends.... and or just keep avioding his phone calls and he'll calm down from you and get the idea
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ok well i have a boyfriend and we barley get to see each other and the only way we can tlak is on the phone or the computer so we can't reallie do much together so when we start to on the computer im fine but then i dont kno wat to type becuz i dont consider this becuz i juss do it in real not over the computer and my hands start to freeze up and i dont kno what to type that would you kno make him enjoy it more. (link)
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well dont worry if you say something wrong because if he was true then he would like you either way... and yall should maybe go out more like to the movies on the weekends....
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i got a sun burn on my face today..and my face is like kinda red..like along my nose and forehead and cheeks..well i dont really wanna looks so red tomorrow for school....is it possible that i can lessen the reddening by tomorrow? Thanx! (link)
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put some colld water on it and dont try to rubb it... and if anyone tries to make fun of you just ignore them and hang out with youre real friends and before you know it your sun burn will be gone
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