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I cook my chicken pan fried with a light amount of oil on medium heat, half covered. I cook the thighs for 30 min, they come out perfect. I cook the winglettes for 20 min, perfect. But... the drums and the drummets always seem to come out rubbery and tough. I cook the drums for 30 min and the drummets for 20. What am I doing wrong with the drums and drummets? (link)
I think you should use other resources from books to computers on websites you trust


Me and my ex were dating for a year and everything seemed almost perfect. Of course we would argue quite a bit but it was small stuff that every couple goes through. We both loved each other very much and never lied to each other or anything like that. Sadly my dad passed away from brain cancer and it took a toll on our relationship. I wasn't able to be there for him and
I became depressed. We had a small argument on December 19th and he told me he was done with me. I told him I was so sorry for everything and that I would try harder but he didn't want me anymore. He said he was doing it for me and that he wasn't able to be there for me, he aslo said he wanted to fix himself. I told him multiple times how sorry I was and that I realized I was not there for him. I told him how much I loved him and that I wanted to be there for him now and that I regretted everything I did. He said he still cared about me but he just couldn't be with me anymore but maybe in the future. A couple days later he tells me that he is over me and that he has moved on and I should move on. Then a couple days later he tells me he still has feelings for me again and that he wants to love me. Then he popped by my class two days in a row and we had lunch together and he asked for a hug. Only to have him ignore me again. It seems that he is constantly changing his mind about how he feels about me and ignoring me. I finally sent him a message about how angry I was that he was constantly changing his mind and told him to talk to me when he made a final choice and that I still loved him. I also told him I would always be waiting for him because I dont want anyone else, he was a big part of my life. I told him that if he never messages me after that I will message him in June to see how he is. It hurts because he was able to move on so quickly and all I want to do is love him and be there for him. He never replied to the message and I know he read it. I feel so confused because he would message me and see me and then ignore me again. I dont know what to do I love him so much and I know he is going through a lot right now. He even admitted he keeps pushing me away because he feels numb right now and doesnt care about anything. He also said he couldnt keep going on knowing how much he is hurting me right now. Is their even a possibility we could get back together? I feel like a part of me is missing I just care about him so much.
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to tell you the truth you won't get back with him. he is probably telling you he doesn't want to be in a relationship in a kind way. please try to move on and give yourself some space from your ex


One of my male friends said that if his wife does not want to satisfy him sexually then he has a right to cheat on her with another woman. Or if she denies him sex then he should cheat. He says that women should always please their husbands. A lot of people agreed with him on this. I don't its okay to cheat just because your wife doesn't feel like having sex. What if your wife can't have sex because of medical conditions? What do you think?
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I think that if a guy will cheat for not getting sex the wife needs to give him a divorce. Also maybe she can't have sex because a medical condition or she doesn't want to risk having a child


is it possible that i can get pregnant aft having sex with my undergarments on and where at same time my boyfriend has removed his boxers in the middle of it and then we continued ..... and all these happend just one night before of expected day of menstruation. I want to know. .is there any chance that i can get pregnant bcz its been 6 days late, i dint my period.previouslymy periods were quite regular.. Should i worry?should i contact a doc for this? (link)
run some tests if you are pregnant and can't handle a child don't give abortion that's killing a life wait till the baby is born than give it to a foster care or adoption center but if you want the baby conquer all fears and become a good parent and prepare


Is it possible for a person to have both the disorganized and paranoid schizophrenia combined? And if so, what would that be called? (link)
yes and no. lie or truth it can't be a scientific fact


We are in a long distance relationship. We met when he was visiting my city 5 months ago.

I was extremely drunk last night at a bar with some friends. We were all dancing and the entire evening I made sure that no guys would try to grind up on me, etc. I got more and more intoxicated as the night went on, and towards the end of the night, some dude grabbed me to dance with me and I didn't resist. We made out briefly, pulling away maybe two or three times, before my friends found me.

I was extremely torn up. I began to sob immediately after I realized what I'd done and I told my boyfriend the next morning. He was upset but said that he forgives me; however, he doesn't know if we will be able to get through the inevitable trust issues that will arise from this.

I've never been in such a situation before. I guess I just need some wisdom. What do I do?

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You may or may not get his trust back but show him you love him. Don't tell but show him. But it never hurts to say I love you. But don't be hurt if a long distance relationship doesn't work. your boyfriend might cheat on you without the influence of alcohol. But for now love him like crazy



There this thing that have been bothering me for the past 5 years. You see, there's this person who I shall name O who was once was my 'friend', I say 'friend' because I'm not sure we were even friends.
Right now I'm in form 5 ( I think its equivalent to second last year of high school in the USA. ) student in Malaysia and this happen during form 1. O and I became friends when we were placed in the same class with someone from the same elementary school as us. She was extremely sarcastic and the only reason she put up with my freshman awkwardness because she hated the other person who is poor and knew about O immigrant background. She was tolerable with me through out the half year of school until sports month came.
Since I was competing an important match and needed moral support, I seek attention from her. The first time I went to her she was OK. The second day she gave me the silent treatment.
I was frustrated by her actions. I mean, why give me the silent treatment when I only seek comfort for only once from her? She didn't even tell me what I did wrongly to her.
What surprises me is that she gave me the Ghost treatment too. She acted that I was not there, she even dared to not pass a handout directly to me opting for putting at my claasmate seat. Heck, she never bother to talk,face, or interact with me during compulsory group work.
At first I though it was just a 13 year old phase and we'all become friends again. But it continued on for 5 years. I talked to her friends about that and they all told me that O has been gossiping and backstabbing me relentlessly, the reason? I was a fat ugly annoying whiny bitch who worth nothing in the world.
I admit I was annoying when I was 13 whatnot with entering puberty with my awkwardness. But I am 17 now, and I become more confident and yet she continues to give me both silent and ghost treatment. She even rolls her eyes and glared at me when I do something that garner the class attention.
I am still fat and ugly to this day but since this year will be our last year as high school students and taking our final examinations, I want to forget the past and renew our friendships. My friends say that I shouldn't start talking to her or even thinking about apologize.
Yet, I think im the at fault after all if it isn't for my whiny annoying personality in the past she wouldn't have do that. I am intimidated by her but I also respect her for being smart.
I heard somewhere that being treated like nobody or a ghost is the most cruelest hatred ever and I am the only person O treated with this kind of treatment.
I really want to reconcile with her, but I know she don't want to. With what her ego, snobbish, manipulative personality can damage me, I really don't know what to do.
Any advice and should I just go and apologize or not? (link)
If how your describing o is true she isn't your real friend if you had to go through sadness for 5 years then don't bother talking to o at all and make as many new friends as you can and try not to become independent because you will be lonely the rest of your life. But if you make a friend that treated you like o see if that friend is being bullied. If you see they don't answer then move on. Plan the present but focus on the future. PEACE!




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