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Molly/ 13
Im a freshman in high school and this junior guy named Michael has been sexually harassing me. When he sees me he would grab at me and he would make disgusting remarks. Today i was leaving class and he pulled me into the bathroom and pushed me against the wall and put his hands down my panties. I tried screaming but he covered my mouth. I dont know what to do about him I'm to scared to go to school and I dont want him to hurt me for telling. Please help me.

This happened to me but it was my brother in law who sexually abused me. I know its hard to tell someone but you need to tell a adult you trust weather its your parents,teacher,prefect,principal,neighbour,aunt or uncle pretty much anyone! This is a crime and you shouldn't feel uncomftable or scared of going to school I really hope you take this advice and tell someone I know its hard but you did the right thing of comming here. I'm 12 by the way but I have the experience. If you ever need to talk you can email me on michaela.star@hotmail.co.za or inbox me


Goodluck x

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I know many people think this is a stupid question, but how can I kill myself with no pain at all? I've been through so much from abuse, rape and so on..I just feel like its time leave this world.

Its not stupid I've also been thru this! I've also thought about comtinting suicicde BUT please don't ! Its the worst thing you can do! Go to a conseller or somthing and don't make a permaent decision to a temporary situation talk to somone please it will help

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Please,no abuse please this is really serious.

When I was about 10, my cousin james was very "horny" if you like, and he'd always try to get me to have ''sex'' with him. I didn't want to at all, but I was too scared not too. He didn't really have sex with me, he just touched me in the wrong places.

Then, when I was 12. My brother and I were really close, so we'd sometimes sleep on the same sofa and stuff (no sexual activity at first) but then one night, I fell asleep with my mouth open and he started ''kissing'' me. I just let him. I got him off me and ran upstairs. Then, I was sitting with trousers on and my legs slightly apart and he started ''feeling me up''. I also just let him, and ran upstairs after again. Now he always tries to put his hands up my top or down my trousers and I'm too scared to tell anybody.
I think I'm a bad person, seriously I need help, what do I do?

You have done absolutly nothing wrong! My brother in law molested me and I'm 11 btw we learnt about this stuff in LO and I told my teacher because I felt so upset about it!she helped me and gave me advise on how to tell my mom I did tell my mom and she has to have a meeting with my teacher and principal. you should watch trust its very much like your situation but she just meets him on facebook.he rapes her and she allows it but doesn't want to. Hope I helped

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13/f
I was with my cousin today hes 18 and he was touching in the wrong places. I told him to stop, but he said that he knows I like it. Now I feel really dirty what should i do.

Ok so I'm 12 and my brother in law did and is doing the exact same thing and I haven't told anyone yet either BUT I am thinking about telling my teacher. You must report him because he can be doing this to a lot of other children to and he needs to be stoped so please tell someone older that you can trut

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When I was younger my father would chase me into my room and beat me over the littlest things (ie saying I don't like broccoli), but after he got arrested he stopped, mostly. But now my older brother is taking after him. He is a six-foot-four three hundred pound football player, and has tried to break my neck before, and today punched me in the ribs and now I can't breathe right or move my left arm. When I told my parents they told me to grow up and stop being so dramatic. What can I do? (16-year-old girl)

You have to call the police sweetie family or not I was molested by my brother-in-law and I had to phone the police if your brother carries on well then he might do it to other people to

Hope everything works out sweetie:)

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sorry for the length..
Im really confused..lately ive been thinking more and more about this and wondering what is wrong with me. I dont really know how to explain this but my whole life, or ever since i could remember, sometimes every now and then i would randomly out of the blue feel this weird feeling throughout my body..and it made me feel gross and uncomfortable..and if i was wearing something a bit low cut i would feel like i had to cover up or just go somewhere and be alone..i know that sounds really strange and i dont even know why that happens but lately ive been thinking about it and its been happening more often. my mom and dad got divorced when i was 12 and ive been living with my mom so i dont really see my dad that much. my dad always tries to talk to me and hangout with me but i just dont really ever want to anymore..i think its because i recently found out that he cheated on my mom while they were married and thats why they got a divorce..but i also just get this weird feeling when i think about him..i just feel uncomfortable. lately ive been wondering if maybe he molested me when i was little and i just dont remember? because when i look back to my childhood i dont have that many memories of my dad..i know he was there, but i really dont have many. i remember this one time when i was in 4th or 5th grade and my sister was in 6th grade, we were walking up a staircase and my dad was behind my sister and he squeezed her butt for a second and she said something like ew stop..and he was like what your my daughter or something like that..and my aunt (his sister) told him not to do that cause its not right. and thats pretty much the only weird thing i can remember..
when i was 16 i became so promiscuous and loved attention from boys which gradually caused me to do things i now regret. i had terrible self esteem problems. i still do. this is really something i dont like to think about but i was so desperate for attention that i hooked up with almost any boy that wanted to. i wanted to someone to like me so bad, or just have a boy care about me. obviously i was too dumb to realize that having sex with a boy will not make them like you or have feelings towards you. i think i just wanted some type of male figure to have and give me attention and care about me.
im 19 now and have had my first boyfriend for about 6 months now. he makes us have sex everyday and half the time i dont want to. sometimes i dont even feel attracted to him in that way and just want a boy that will love me and care about me and not even think about me in a sexual way. its so weird. sometimes when he touches me it makes me feel weird..i honestly dont want to believe that anything happened to me when i was young and more than half of me thinks nothing ever did. but then why do i feel this way?

Well I'm 11 turning 12 soon and when I was 10 my brother-in law started molesting me and it does sound like some kinda memory cause I feel like that to I feel like somone is always watching me and I get so scared! I'm sure that he did maybe you should ask a phycoligist or somthing

Hope everything works out:)

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