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heyy mah naims Courtney..im 14 yrsz old i go to B h S..and iim a freshmann..i like doin alot of stuff..like dancin singin playin' b-ball i gotta horse..I
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Location: bensalem babaii
Occupation: student at bhs!!*
Age: 14
AIM: xcexi courtx
Member Since: October 23, 2004
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Last Update: October 27, 2004
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One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much (link)
heyy...well you can always tell sum1 your opinion but..it's her decision and if shes ready for sex then noones gonna stop her..and if shes really commited to this guy and their in love then I dont think its slutty...but its always good to tell someone how u feel even if it wont change their decision about something-- cOurt*


ok..heres my thing you guys...

*my best friend lost her virginity last year and alot of people consider her a whore now :(
but anyways...my boyfriend wants me n him to lose ours now for our 1 year anniversary hes 16 and im 14...i really dont know if i should becuz i dont wana be considered a whore or nething like what happened to my friend....please help me in doin the right thing!!
signed,i honestly dont know what to do (link)
if your not ready for the responsbilities of sex and ur havin doubts about it then ur not readii..but you have been together for a while and u sound committed..but its all on you i don't think you would be considered a whore..well i wouldnt consider you a whore anyway ..haha xO-- cOurt


Ok my boyfriend and I just recently started having sex a couple of weeks ago, and everything went fine. This may be an over share but we took every precaution, using spermicidal condoms and having him "pull out". So this is why i don't understand why my period is late. Not by too much but by a few days. Then yesterday he fingered me and there was signs of blood about a half hour later. (and he had already popped me before that so its not that)I'm freakin out... you don't think i could be pregnant do you? Help me and ill do anything you ask... PLEASE (link)
even though condoms are great for protection they're not 100% ..theres always that sligh chance that it could have broke or it was on wrong..but if he fingered u and there was blood then most likely your getting or going to get ur period shortly..and if not then i think you should go to the doctors..but there always is that slight chance that u could be pregnant but idoubt it...xO --cOurt


im 14 and my b/f's 15. He's a really sweet guy and always tells me that hes going to wait for me for when i want to lose my virginity and hes a virgin too. ive known him like my whole life and he is the sweetest guy ever and he is so nice and would never do anything to hurt anyone. all weve done is make out but everytime i come over or he comes over his older sister and older brother and older cousin will ask what we did and he just says nothing and theyre like well damn have you guys at least made out??? and they tease him sometimes n just be like oo all you guys do is make out??? and all that stuff and so lately i think its been bothering him. i know im young and all but i feel like, "pressured" to have sex with him and like i want to in a way so they stop teasing him, and i also feel that theyre gunna think im some prude kind of person and i dont want them to think that of me, i want them to like me and not talk about us. i dont really know how this is a question but i need some kind of advice, like what i should do and if i should have sex with him or not. (link)
you do w/e makes you feel right..if you wanna take the next step in the relationship then go 4 it..but don't listen to what anyone else has to say if your not ready for it..if your not ready for sex or the responsibilities ofsex you shouldn't do it..but if you know your really committed to this guy and you want him to be ur 1st and you know ur ready then i would do it..hope ihelped xO--cOurt


Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do? (link)
hmm..maybe he's scared he'll do sumthin wrong or hurt u..its prolly not u he's prolly jus nervous about wut ur reaction might be..and maybe he doesn't even realize he's doin it..it might jus be a natural reaction..or maybe he thinx u dont want him to do it and he's waitin for u to tell him its ok..so next time he does that just tell him its ok and uwant him 2! xO--cOurt




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