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hEY everybOdy..my names kristin. im from northern va/dc andd i go to woodson highschool. i love my friends and my boyfriend jason of course! i love helping people and giving advice (obviously) and id be happy to help yall with any problems you might have. Im about 5'6" or so..maybe.idk. i have blondish type hair and greyish/blue eyes. i love dogs and music. i hate snobby people who think that theyre better then everyone else and if you have a question or anything that you need help with then post it! or if ur uncomfortable with that then email me or AIM me at JuStxLiKexCanDii i would love 2 help anyone :)
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i think i might have genital herpes... i have never had sex so how could i get it!? its like a ton of little bumps on my penis and i want to know how to get rid of it. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell me! i need to know, im so embarassed! ill rate 5's! and i also want to know if girls will still like me if they know i have it.. im guessing no. this sucks so bad so please help me out. and if it isnt herpes then please tell me what it is.. im too embarassed to tell my parents or a doctor. if you have ANY information at all, please tell me (link)
aww you seem like a nice guy..ill get all the information i can and try to help you out as much as possible!

ok you cannot get herpes unles you have had sex! the whole toliet seat thing can happen but it is like EXTREMELY rare. The bumps on your penis might be an allergic reaction. have you switched soaps or laundry detergents? if so then that's probably the case. If you havent had sex (including oral sex) then you don't have it. and yes girls will date you! i would if you were a really nice guy, but alot of girls wont. The sex will be kinda dead, but they have dating sites you can go to where you find other single women or men that also have it. but im pretty sure you dont have it!



Early symptoms of a genital herpes outbreak include:
Itching or burning feeling in the genital or anal area
Pain in the legs, buttocks, or genital area
Feeling of pressure in the abdomen

Although there is no cure for genital herpes, your health care worker might prescribe one of three medicines to treat it as well as to help prevent future episodes.

MORE INFORMATION:

National Herpes Resource Center and Hotline
American Social Health Association
P.O. Box 13827
Research Triangle Park, NC 27709-9940
919-361-8488 (9 a.m. to 7 p.m. Eastern Time, Monday through Friday)
http://www.ashastd.org/hrc/index.html

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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
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The number of days between the starting day of one period and the starting day of the next one is about 28 days (four weeks, or one month), but different women have different cycle times, which can change with their age. When girls first start having periods, they can be quite irregular, and it might take two years before they settle down into a regular cycle that is normal for them. Some girls or women always have irregular periods.
Welcome to womanhood!

if you anymore information about periods or anything then visit this site (it has like the answers to all your questions)
http://www.addenbrookes.org.uk/shac/normal/female/period.html


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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
dont do anything that you're uncomfortable with! Communication and honesty are important in a relationship. WAiting to have sex after marriage is a very responsible and mature thing to do. Not many people can do that so people would probably respect you more, but the real thing is that if you're uncomfortable having sex then dont. tell him that you're not ready and you don't want 2 and if he doesn't understand then maybe he's just not the one for you. DOn't let him pressure you into anything. Stand your ground and tell him that you don't want to have sex right now.

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When me and my guy do it i never orgasm in fact i have had 3 partners and never orgamsed but once..i love the guy im with now..how can i get calm and do this and do u know of any good positions..or anything that helped u ? (link)
Because I don't have orgasms (or have them rarely)
If this is you, you may be surprised to learn that most women don't have orgasms during intercourse. "The majority of women have trouble reaching orgasm from penis-vagina intercourse," says Hyde. "It's not the most efficient way to stimulate the clitoris, which is what women need." Here's what to do.

If you never have orgasms...
The best way to get them started is by giving them to yourself through masturbation, suggests Hyde. It will help you experience the sensation and learn what--and where--works for you. Experts, including Hyde, recommend sex therapist Lonnie Barbach's book For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality as the best self-help manual for getting in touch--literally--with your own feelings.

If you only have orgasms sometimes...
Do you only have orgasms during oral or manual stimulation? "You may be setting unrealistic goals for yourself by expecting to have them during intercourse," says Hyde. "If you can orgasm from oral-genital sex, why worry?"

for more information on this topic just go to
http://www.prevention.com/article/0,5778,s1-6-83-195-4332-5,00.html

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Is it normal to have a late period?..like a 2 week-late period?Also,anyone have websites that would answer my questions please? (link)
The number of days between the starting day of one period and the starting day of the next one is about 28 days (four weeks, or one month), but different women have different cycle times, which can change with their age. When girls first start having periods, they can be quite irregular, and it might take two years before they settle down into a regular cycle that is normal for them. Some girls or women always have irregular periods.

if you need mor einformation about periods this site has like everything you need to know..
http://www.addenbrookes.org.uk/shac/normal/female/period.html

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what are ANY other signs of pregnancy other then sore boobs, and morning sickness??? (link)
1. Food cravings: Sure it's a cliché, but food cravings sometimes can be a sign of pregnancy. Don't rely on them as a sure symptom (it may be all in your head, or even a sign that your body is low on a particular nutrient), but if cravings are accompanied by some of the other symptoms on this list, start counting the days from your last period.

2. Darkening of your areolas: If the skin around your nipples gets darker, you may have successfully conceived, though this may also signal a hormonal imbalance unrelated to pregnancy or be a leftover effect from a previous pregnancy.

3. Implantation bleeding or cramping: About eight days after ovulation, you may experience implantation spotting, a slight staining of a pink or brown colour, as well as some cramping. You might also see some spotting around the time you expect your period; this is caused by the egg burrowing into the endometrial lining.

4. Frequent urination: Once the embryo implants and begins producing the hormone human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG), you may find yourself going to the bathroom more often.

5. Fatigue: Feeling tired? No, make that exhausted. High levels of the hormone progesterone can make you feel as if you've run a marathon when all you've done is put in a day at the office. Fatigue is a hallmark of early pregnancy, though probably not a surefire symptom on its own.

6. Tender, swollen breasts: If you're pregnant, your breasts will probably become increasingly tender to the touch, similar to the way they feel before your period, only more so. Once your body grows accustomed to the hormone surge, the pain will subside.

7. Morning sickness: If you're lucky, morning sickness won't hit you until a few weeks after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But as early as a couple of days following conception, you may begin feeling nauseated and queasy. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea can be a problem morning, noon, or night. You may also notice that your sense of taste changes. Some women say they have a metallic taste in their mouth, others that they cannot stand the taste of coffee, tea, or a food they usually like.

8. Your basal body temperature stays high: If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed above the coverline for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant.

9. A missed period: If you're usually pretty regular and your period is late, it's worth trying a pregnancy test. A missed period is the surest sign of pregnancy in a woman of childbearing age who usually has regular periods.


And finally ...

10. A positive home pregnancy test: If you've waited to test until at least the first day of a missed period and a blue line appears in the test window, you're most likely in the family way. Make an appointment with your doctor to confirm the news, and head on over to our pregnancy area.


information from babycentre
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I seriously love my boyfriend alot ive been with him for a long time and he doesnt feel like im atracted to him but i am i think hes the hottest thing in my eyes but he says i dont show him that he is very well but when i try to he always is like "yea right" and i know hes not the best looking in the world but i still think hes really hott and we fight alot (which i dont care bout ) when im mad i dont feel like touching him and stuff can anyone tell me what to do to make him feel better and something that he wont be like "yea right" to and just for reference i have done "stuff" with him.... (link)
you shouldn't step up the relationship a nitch to sex or anything just to show him that you think he's attractive or to make him happy. When you guys are BOTH ready for that stuff (if you havent already done it) then talk about that. But that's completely different from attractiveness.

Find ways to tell him that he's attractive. Guys are sensitive and self-concious too. Just try when you're hanging out with him, randomly tell him that you think he's amazing and hot or something sweet like that. and yes, communication is one of the key things in a relationship so tell him that you think he's hot and that even if he thinks he isnt you would love him regardless.

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