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Ever since i was born, i was always the shy girl and quiet. I've been trying to changed and asked God to change my life. But i am still the same girl. I am 23 years old, im a women now. I have been hurt so much. I cried almost every night because my heart in pain. I graduated from high school in 2008 and have not have a good job. Beside now i am a housekeeper. which is my worst night mare job ever. my dream is to go to college but i cant passed testes to get in.I have been tried about 10 times to get into school. And i couldn't cuz of my dumness. I have no friends. No one likes me. I dont know why. all i ever do is being sweet nice and innocent. Every day im thinking about dying. I am really hurt. The longer i live the more hurt i get. The only people love me are my parents. My siblings are not even like me. They always ignored me. I have a phone but no one ever call me. I am hurt and lonely. So, what is the best way to die? What kind of pills should i take? Please tell me.

Don't take your life, it has so much to offer. In regards to your job, you can look for other small jobs that make you happier, or you could take up a hobby in your spare time (like cooking or drawing). As for school, look into a community college in your area, those provide more flexible classes and are usually open to anyone in the area. Another thing to improve your social life could be joining a community club, even the soup kitchen. I find it to be a really rewarding experience and you can meet people who are helping and make more friends. You also have your parents who love you, and would be devastated if you took your life. I have a phone as well but I don't get phone calls, but that's okay. Just go out there and make your life the way you want it to be. You have the power to be happy, and I know you will.

Hope this helps, please keep me updated!
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hey! how long the penis should be to make a perfect sex! or to make her gf feel good?

Honestly there's no "perfect" size. Anything is manageable. 5-6 is the average size penis and usually if you're size 5 or smaller there are certain positions that you could do in order to make it feel deeper. Look into positions online and read up on different angles- these will help.

Hope this helps!
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If you're cuddling or spooning with a guy and he happens to get an erection what should the girl do to make things less awkward? Do you just continue to cuddle, or do you back away and give it time? or should you take things to the next step?

If it doesn't bother you, ignore it. Guys get boners about 10 times a day, it just happens. If you like the guy and want to do more, go ahead. Just start kissing and it will progress from there. Don't worry about it though, it's completely natural.

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So my friend wants me to give him head, and i want to and all, It's just I'm not quite sure how.
I know that you like basically get down on your knees, hold it with one hand and stick it in your mouth, but it would be great if someone could just clear this up a bit for me. :]
thanx. :]

this page gives you a good explanation
http://www.ehow.com/how_1000252_oral-sex-man.html
hope i helped*

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im 13 and im scared. i dont kno if i should shave mi pubs or not. i know it's gross but help!

yea alot of girls are questionable about this. if you feel like you WANT to do it, go ahead. but if your scared, you dont have to. you shouldnt really even worry about this until your a little older, but just go with your instinct.

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I am 13. I have had sex. I am scared to go to the doctor to get birth control pills because i am afraid he'll tell my mom and he'll look at me and be like you only 13... and/or how do i get there.. haha i dont know just some advice will hepl. :]
kthanks

tell your mom
but that was stupid
you shouldnt have even had sex
i mean, your only 13
but tell her
cause shes gonna find out eventually

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my boyfriend and I have been togther for 3 years now, he wants to do more, and want me to give him head, PLEASE HELP!because i wouldnt know how.

do you want to ?

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