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this may seem like a dumb question but i heard someone talking about it.

lets say you use a public bathroom & you're a girl. if there's sperm anywhere near the toilet, on the seat, in the toilet itself, is it possible to get pregnant?? if you were juss using the bathroom??

thanks!! (link)
no...sperm die within seconds of hitting air.


I'm 13/m in jr high and I was wondering, how old is an appropriate age for sex? I've heard of people my age that have had sex, but I don't think 13 is an appropriate age, so..... how old should you be to have sex? (link)
I think it depends on the person. I agree though that 13 is not a good age to start being sexually active. I think sex should wait until you're with the right person. A right person being one that does not pressure you into something you're not ready for and loves you unconditinally.
I'm 18 and I'm still a virgin. I haven't found anyone worth losing it to yet so I'm waiting.
Losing your virginity is a big step. I think it should be with the right person.
If your friends tease you about it, just hold your head up high and know that you won't have any kids as a teenager or any STDs.


So me and my boyfriend were going at it the other day in his favorite position. I was sitting on his face kind of and he was licking me out and i orgasimed and from the excitment i sort of got a little rough, slammed down on his mouth, and got a small cut just below my clit. Is this bad? It doesn't hurt at all today (1 day removed) Is there anything i should do to take care of it? Can me and my boyfriend still fool around without hurting it anymore? (link)
Wash it out with a little bit of antibiotic cream (apply after every time you pee/wipe), and wash it at least twice a day as there is bacteria present in this area. I'd abstain for a few days with your bf before you start getting hot and heavy with him again.


my boyfriend and i talk about moving further. he wants to eat me out and everything but ive never been eaten out and sorry but i dont watch porn. what is he suppose to do and how is it suppose to feel? haha wow thats probably the dumbest question ever but whatever. (link)
He licks and sucks and touches where you want him to and the key is to tell him what feels good and what doesn't. I haven't done this yet but I've been told about it from friends. They say it feels a bit awkwrd at first because someone is looking at you down there, but it also feels really good.
No question is dumb except the one not asked.


ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!

-confused (link)
You can still be pregnant and get your period. Its even common to spot around the time you get your period for a few months even if you are pregnant. Take another pregnancy test. Next time, use a condom if you are going to have sex or use abstinence:-) guys do expel sperm in with the "precum" before he has an orgasm.


I'm 16/M... i never had sex before (im waiting til im married) but i get erections WAY too much...like 6 times an hour and its really annoying, i get them when im not even thinking about anything close to sexual. i dunno what my problem is but i was wondering if its normal or not? please resond. (link)
Don't worry, it is normal. Your body is going through a maturation process so you're physically more adult. It will die down soon enough. Just make sure to keep a jacket/books nearby just in case you get a surprise around people:-)
Bravo to you for waiting until marriage to have sex. I am doing the same.


Why do people like giving head and puting guys dicks in there mouths? I think it's completely gross. Why would a girl like having semen in her mouth?
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They might do it because it turns them on, the guys want it, or they think a guy would love them if they do it. It depends on the girl really. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, then don't do it. You don't have to do it because others are doing it or because he wants you to.


I know this is gross and stuff...but its true....i was raped by my teacher and he swore that if i tell anyones hes going to kill me and I see him all the time...like he is following me or something to make sure I am not telling...and so I dont know how to tell anyone beczuse he said he would kill me...anyone have any ideas...because i am scared to tell someone
plz help!
thanks (link)
girl please tell your parents, the school, and the police. this perv needs to get his butt into some therapy and jail cause he's probably not only done it to you. You may also want to get to a doctors office to get tested for pregnancy and STDs. This is illegal. Do not be scared. If he tries to hurt you, run to a teacher you trust or the principals office.


can you get pregnant on your period? (link)
yes you can. You can't tell if the egg has left your body during your period until your period has ceased for the cycle. An egg is the size of one cell which is really tiny. So if you are going to have sex during your period and during the month, use a condom unless you actually want to have kids:-)


anyone kno any good mypace layout websites. ill rate you etremely high if u give good answers (link)
www.spacepads.vze.com (my friend Sara owns that) and I also pimp MySpaces. But I do charge 10 bucks an hour plus I dont put up an ad saying pimp your webpage here or a button.


Hey Ok well I had sex like a few weeks ago for the first time..and my cherry popped..but then I had sex again and there was blood again! is that normal..or what? is this gonna happen everytime i have sex?
i'll rate fives! (link)
It is normal for the first couple times. It means that your body isn't accustomed to having penile penetration. It will stop after the third time I think. If it doesn't, make an appointment with a gynecologist.


waht about popping a cherry



and what the hell is masterbateing ..


and how do you no if you bleed when ur cherry pops

please help me !! (link)
popping a cherry is a euphamism for a girl losing her virginity. A girl has a hymen which is a tissue that can break even while riding a bike. But if its broken not involving penile penetration, the girl is a virgin still.

masturbation is the act of self pleasuring. It helps find what feels good to you and what feels weird. This could help for when you and your significant other decide to get intimate and tell the person how to satisfy you and bring you to orgasm.

you will know if blood comes out that doesn't look like menstrual blood. It is a little bit painful.


I kind of itch, and ache in my vaginal area. I dont know what it is. I dont think its an STD because Ive been checked and I havent slept with anyone else, and neither has he. Theres no odor or anything else coming from it, it just itches a lot. Can anyone tell me what this might be?

Thanks a lot (link)
Perhaps your pelvic area is inflamed from having sex. Or it could be a urinary tract infection or a yeast infection.


i recently noticed small bumps on my penile shaft and was wondering if this is normal i have never had sex before and both my parents are STD free can someone tell me what this is? (link)
perhaps it is just irritation. Did you perhaps leave a pair of underwear on too long or a jockstrap? or a cup even? cause if you do do that, sweat and rubbing of the genital area could cause a rash or irritation.




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