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ok so say someone has sex and the guy cums in you a little bit. The last time you got your period was on the third of july. until july 10 very normal and what not until the 16 of july you get something thats light brown and sorta red not that heavy and that goes on for a while then its sorta heavy and red and then it ends on july 24. you have sex and havnt gotten your period in the month of agust yet. is that normal? if you are prego what are great sighns of that in the first week or two?

Trust me if you were pregnet nothing the slightest bit bloody would come out of you. The brown you saw was merely dry blood and is quite normal. As for the weird cycle, everyone has an irregular period every once and a while.

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so me and my boyfriend just started having (protected) sex. i was a virgin before, and we've done it like 3 times but the first time it didn't go all the way in, the second time it did go all the way in and it hurt but it was bearable. but the third time it hurt so bad i bled. will it get better? and is there any way to make it more comfortable for the time being?

thanks a ton =]

alright well if it bled this time that means the worst is over. Your "cherry" got popped. That means that was actually your first time having real sex. When your cherry is popped that means the penis went fully into the it. So now that the worst is done with it should be much more pleasurable. If it hurts again than please as me a question directly

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Ok. I know everyone is going to say that I am to young for this. Well I am a 14/f and I had sex for the very first time. I am not on the pill and I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and i thought i was ready. We used a condom but he put it on inside out. It has been 2 weeks after we had sex and i am feeling uncomfortable. I have not had my period yet and i have been feeling sick everyday. I do not know if i am pregnant and i do not know how to tell my boyfriend please help!

Alright before you do anything hasty sit it out a week. If you start having werid eating habits or you start vomiting buy a pregnency test from your local pharmacey. If it turns out you are pregnet you have 2 things to do. 1. Tell your parents. I would probley tell my mother first because it will just be way less awkward. Chances are she will be angry but eventually she'll understand.
2. Tell your boyfriend. Trust me, this will be WAY less awkward. Explain it all to him and if you both have really been togeher for 2 years i think he'll be very understanding and supportive.

~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~

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i went to this party last night and made out with 3 guys and gave one a handy and some stuff..and i was drinking a little. i cant remember exactly what i did with the one guy, but i kept worrying i had sex with him. im a virgin, and last night was my first time doing anything besides kissing.

well pretty much it was a hump and dump, and he got pissed at me for some reason and all this sh!t. it made me feel horrible. but anyways, im worried something happened..like i would remember if i had sex or he fingered me right? it hurt a little down there, but not too bad. and i remember both guys with there hands there, they were like both laying next to me. and then when i stood up my pants were undone.

then, this morning i find out this guys basically a man whore, and i feel like such a slut. all his friends are like your gonna get some gross disease! ahahah. and no not funny..is it possible i could catch something from making out or hand job i dont even knoww! haha help! =]

Alright well first if you think you only drank a little than you probley would remember doing stuff. Just in case go to a gyno and ask her (you should probley get a female one for this kind of stuff) to give you a little looksie. She will be able to tell you if anything penetrated there. As for the slut thing...we all have our days when were a little more naughty that nice. You'll get over it.

~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~

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Ok well my boyfriend and I have been talking about fooling around but hears the thing..I have never given a bj before so I was wondering if you could give me some tips on what to do.

lol neither have i! but my friend's have and they have tried to teach me. well once you have it in your mouth even if he wants you have to have it in all the way but you shouldn't cuz u can choke. what you do is lick the top of it and actually drool all over it and slide it in and out and kinda massage it at the same time

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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.

I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard

Well I'm only in middle school but I think I have an answer for you! If you feel guilty about "pleasuring" your self be sure not to rush into sex! If you like the guy date him but make sure he's not a guy just after sex! Get a guy you really care about! Remember you only get one first kiss!

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