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My bf and i are 16 and his penis is about 5.5 inches long is that the average? Im not sure he's a bit insecure about it i don't want him to feel bad. (link)
well im not sure if its average...but its not bad n he shouldnt feel intimidated. well me i have seen sum that range from 5 to 7.5 inches but they r all 14 or 15 yrs old...i think u should tell him that that u dont care bout the size or sumthing he shouldnt feel insecure but yes it migh be average but im not 100% sure... i read the the average pnis range from 5 to 8inches... hoped i helped....tell me wut u think..


My and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 15 months and we have come close to have sex sooo many times... the only thing stopping us is that he doesnt have condoms. We both know that if he did, that we would probably end up doing something if we had the chance, but we are also both worried about pregnancy! Thats why we are hesitant about buying condoms.
I am 16 and he is 17.
What should i do? (link)
well if u really want to have sex with him... try birth contrl n make sure he wears a condom... there alot of ways to prevent pregnacies but of course non 100% safe... i know not to much help but i tried... let me know how it turns out


i need help because i am so ready to begin a serouse relationship but my mom thinks im to young! im ready to kiss a guy or make out but im scared my mom will find out! hat do i do! (link)
well hun it depends on ur age... im 14 n i told my mom i was ready n she freaked out n told me i wasnt able to until i was 16 at least... i went behind her back n had a couple of b/fs n i know she knew but she never really told me anything.... but its a bad idea cuz now she dont even trust me no more... but i think u should talk to her n telll completely how u feel! good luk n tell me how it turns out.. goped i helped *ANABEL*


i was the girl who was wondering how much i should do with my bf who we have dated for 5 months. well he's 16 i'm 14 our bdays are both in aug. hope that helped and help me (link)
well ummm ok...
dont rush into it(sex) make-sure ur ready for it... n make sure u use protection!! for me honestly if i was dating sum1 for 5moths i would have sex with him just bcuz of how much care n love i would have for him! i honestly think that u maybe having sex with him on his b-day would be a good bday present... but make sure u r ready hun n dont just do it bcuz everyone else is. 14 is a common age for us to be having sex (i lost mine when i was 14 back in feb, im turning 15 sept. 12) so yeah... i really hoped i helped n plz tell me how it works out.... *ANABEL*

but if u dont wanna have sex but wannna pleasure him u can always give him a handjob or a blowjob!


ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not? (link)
it all depends i think ur boy sounds very nice n its great he can wait... but if u wanna have sex with him go ahed if u really tink hes da 1 (u dont wanna do the same mistake i did, i lost it to sumone i oved n cared for but he just lied bout feeling the same way towards me) REMEMBER USE PROTECTION!!!but i think if u like him alot u should do it but wutever ur comfy with! remember that


im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel??? (link)
ok im 14 n i know its kinda wrong but ok the first time it hurts not extremely bad but it does... n then u bleed afterwards!!! it really sux (that the only part) but then once ur first is done n u do it again it feels goo a lil painful but nothing much...its great
hoped i helped ANABEL


i've bene really close to having sex with my boyfriend but we havent.. i heard that if u wear tampons it doesnt hurt too much. well. i'm still a virgin. of course but how is it and how does it feel? will it hurt really bad? (link)
ok this might sound bad but im 14 n i lost mine in february with the wrong guy by the way! :( but ok the first time it hurts not like "ima die" pain but it just hurts! umm i did use tampons b4 but it still hurt. actually after u lose it n ur done u star bleeding from down there like if u got ur period or sumthing. to tell u the truth the pain on the first isnt horrible but the second time boy its good...
hoped i helped luv anabel anymore questions holla!


well to make it kinda short i do drungs. not all the time but i do get high. Well. it seems like thast the only time i can get horny. i mean i know what i'm doing but thats the only time i get "in the mood" and when i'm not i still like making out with my bf. but i'm not horny. and it seems like i dont want ot do anything.. is this normal.. (link)
i think instead of getting high u should role-play n that will get u in the mood. well it should. i get in the mood whenever im making out n the guy fingers u or sumthing like that but it depends on the ppl. ok well hoped i helped
love u ANABEL


how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months. (link)
well i think that 5 months relationship is very good and since u guys have kept it going for that long u guys might trust n love each other. well yeah maybe knowing ur age would help me answer this question better. but if u trust n care for ur partner maybe u should ask him how he feels u guys are ready to do. or mostly is what ur comfortable with anything u dont want dont do... here to help u... AnAbEl.




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