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Well, I'm 15 and I live in the North East of England. I like to go to the cinema and shopping with my friends. I like web design, and chatting on MSN Messenger.

I like to think I am a good listener and can give good advice. I also like to think I know what I'm talking about when I'm trying to help people, as I have had experience in loads of difficult or weird situations.

I also think I'm friendly and easy to talk to. My friends would probably agree with me on that one :)

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me n this girl did it n i think i might like her n idk what to do because i dont really wanna girlfriend

you had sex with this girl, but you dont know if you like her? if you don't want a girlfriend, talk to the girl you had sex with and explain how you feel. hopefully she'll understand, but she may be a bit upset. you might have built her hopes up by sleeping with her, so be gentle when you talk to her.

good luck :)

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I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15?

there's nothing wrong with being not sexually experienced at 15, considering in england the age of consent for sex is 16. i think you will know when you're ready for it, and i wouldnt suggest doing it until you know you're ready. are you sure of this guys intentions? because to me it kinda seems like him telling you he's ready for sex whenever you are is a way for him to tell you he wants sex and is trying to push you. don't let anyone push you into having sex if you don't want to. you have all the time in the world to lose your virginity :)

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Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help!

this is a tricky one. does your friend know you're gay? and has your friend had any girl/boyfriends recently? i'd suggest talking to him. tell him how you feel, and see how he reacts. be prepared for the worst, because he may react badly. but hopefully he'll understand and let you know how he feels. i wouldn't recommend telling him you want to have sex with him straight away. talk to him first, and see where things go from there.

good luck :)

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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
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i believe that if you have to ask whether you should do it or not, then you're not totally ready. if you were ready, you'd know you were ready.

you need to really think about it. you only lose your virginity once, so make sure you don't regret it!

also, do you trust this guy? and love him? those are two important things to consider. i wouldn't suggest losing your virginity until you're positive you're ready, and you know you love and trust the guy.

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15 femaile....i've been a week and 1/2 late on my periode and i'm scared as crap that i might be...i went and talked to one of my teachers today and she told me the over counter isn't going to help n then i had to go to my guidce n i was talking to him and he said he gives me till thursday and if i haven't started by then, then i have to tell my mom...well i'm scared as crap...cuz if i am i lose my recent boyfriend that i care for more then anything...n also they "father" well lets jst say i have no way to get intouch w/ him...cuz i only now lil things bout him! but other then that i'm jst scared bout my mom and telling her...n also losing the best guy ever!!??i'm so cofused n i'm so scared!!!

maybe your period is just being irregular? give it about another week, and if it hasn't came by then, go see your doctor or buy a home pregnancy kit. and you need to talk to your mother. if it turns out you are pregnant, you really should tell the father, aswell as your current boyfriend. they all have a right to know. then you have to decide whether to keep the baby or not. think really hard about that, because it is a life-changing decision which you could regret for the rest of your life.

good luck :)

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