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i'm melanie, call me melly ♥i'm 18 years old & from long island
i go to University at Buffalo,im majoring in nursing and absolutely love it!
i have the big accent, the big smile and the even bigger heart :)
i love giving advice and helping people out, which is why i`m here. I also love getting feedback, it tells me if I did my job. =)
No question is stupid, ask away! ♥
....I might not always give you the answer you want to hear, but from me youll only hear the truth
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i did the cabbage diet, the original version from Poland, and i lost 7 pounds in 6 days. it's an unhealthy diet since you don't eat carbs, but you should only do it for 1 week at a time. And most people say its impossible to keep the weight off, but I prove them wrong.
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ok so im going to homecoming.
and this guys gonna be there.
and were kinda planning on hooking up
he said to "grab his balls"
how do you do that without hurting him? or making it awkward?
I dont think when he said "grab my balls" that he means you to actually grab them. If you dance together, you should totally grind up on him. When you grind while facing eachother, thats your chance to "grab his balls", but dont grab them, just rub around, he'll most likely have a boner. Be seductive, and have fun.
;]
hope i helped
xo
how many times does a teenage boy think about sex in a day. im a boy, but its not like im going to count, but im sure some sad psychologist has, so im wandering, what are the guys findnings? jus curious
I remember watching something on discovery channel saying that boys have urges about 17 times a day, while girls have it at about 7. I`m not exactly sure.
hope i helped
xo
my boobs are getting bigger and bigger ... and i want them to be smaller! ...is there any way to get them to lose a cupsize without surgery?
Wow, I wish my boobs would get bigger and bigger.
But nevermind that, a way to make them look smaller is to wear a sports bra, it flattens the breasts out more. I don't believe there actually is way to go down a cupsize without getting surgery or losing alot of weight. It would've helped if you included your age, because during puberty, a womens breast will remain the same size no matter how much weigh tyou gain or lose. But after puberty, the size of your breasts is determined by your weight.
Hope i helped
xo
Is being all over someone and hooking up with someone the same thing or different?
hmmmmm
it's different with every situation.
hooking up is making out with someone, and all over someone could be kissing/touching/fondling or lying on top of eachother.
hope i helped
xo
Okay so tomorrow im hangin out with this kid and he obviously wants to have sex because hes really horny all the time and hes like open about it.
he says i love you to me but i highly doubt it. he told me he gets made fun of cause hes a virgin but i think thats the only thing he wants from me. how do i tell if he really does love me? he says he doesnt want to rush anything and hell wait until im ready but i dont know. should i trust him?
Hang out with him? No
Trust him? Hell No
have sex with him? Fuck no
Calling him "this kid" can tell alot about your relationship with him. It doesn't even sound like your friends. You need to be more specific also. like when you met him, your relationship with him, etc. He tells you he loves you and he barley knows you? he's full of shit. People throw the phase "i love you" around so much. He's probably telling you all this so he can get you in bed with him. Actions speak louder than words. What desperate loser. Guys do this all the time, believe me. You say he says he doesnt want to rush anything but yet he tells you how he wants to have sex with you and that he tells you he get's made fun for being a virgin? Like i said, he's only trying to make you feel bad for him so he can convince you to sleep with him. Look, just know what you're doing before you do it.
Make the right decision, but if i were you, i'd kick his sorry virgin ass to the curb.
good luck, be smart, be safe
hope i helped
xo
I think that i am fat. my mom does to. she calls me fat all of the time, and now my sister does. honestly i hate myself and the way that i am. ive always wanted to be an actress or a singer, but my mom told me that i wont make it because i am way to fat. she tells me that i will never get a boyfriend if i am this big. i way less than 160 and am about 5'4". i kno that i am huge, but i cant lose the weight. i used to cut myself becuase of how terrible i am, and now i am giving up at life all together. if i have to be fat all of my life, than i dont want to live at all. please help. if you can give me ways to lose the wait. i thinking of suicide, and am only thirteen. my family and all guys hate me. i need help and fast.
thanx for listening..........
http://ifitandhealthy.com/polish-girls-do-it-right/
i found this interesting, and it's not even a diet, it's just how to eat right.
i'm not the skinniest person either, but i have some tips for you. after i watched MTV's Made True life: i'm obese, i realized that it doesnt matter if i have a little extra flab. One of the girls in the show was obese and was a struggling model. it showed her going to an audition, and she was the only fat girl there, and she made it. she was pretty AND fat. it is possible.
http://ifitandhealthy.com/cabbage-soup-diet-the-new-cabbage-soup-diet/
help me find my clit?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
that'll answer your question, and you'll learn something new!
hope i helped
xo
Ok well i've had my period for about 5 or 6 months now. It's always been irregular. Is it normal to skip a month after youve had it for 6 months? Im still a virgin too so i can't be pregnant.
yes it is normal. and yes, most girls periods will always be irregular. i've had mine for about 6 months too, and my period is already regular. every girl is different, sometimes it can skip after two months even if you dont have sex. if you're really concerned, then go see your doctor. but i'm sure he/she will tell you the same thing i told you.
hope i helped
xo
Weird question but i dont wanna look like an idiot, when you give a guy a hand job or head and you dont want him to come in your mouth where does it go and what are you supposed to clean it up with?
i jsut wanna be ready and not look like a retard in front of this guy
if you dont want him to in your mouth, then ask him to tell you when he's about to cum, guys know when they're about to cum...then you could switch to a hand job and it will go into your hands instead the best way to clean it up basically is papertowel and moist wipes. it does the job well.
hope i helped
xo
Ok, So im a guy and im wondering if girls like guys when the shave down there. Should We shave completly or trim it so its out of the way. Whats best? All answers are appreciated.
personally, i like it better hairless.
it makes it more comftorable and the sliding is a little easier.
but then again, that's my personal opinion.
hope i helped
xo
I have a doctors appointment tomorrow. What should I expect the doctor to do??Is he going to touch me.
it depends why the appointment was set up for. if your going to get a checkup, ( i dont know if your a boy or girl) then he might check to see if your balls drop or if your vagina is healthy and infectionless.
if he does touch you and you don't feel comftorable, you should ask him why he is doing that. he should answer and tell you what he's expecting. it's okay to ask. if you're close with your mom, you should bring her in just in case he does something inappropiate that he shouldnt be doing. if you really feel uncomftorable with a male doctor and your a female, i suggest you ask your mom to get you a female doctor. my doctors a female, and she has never touched me inapropiatly (sp?) besides by the breats. hope i helped
**you should include more info about your question
xo
15/f. when ever i masturbate, i usually get an orgasim quick, like with in 2-3 minutes, but it only last fo like 20 seconds, maybe less, and then the feelign starts to drift away really quick. Is this normal? thanks in advance
of course it's normal, the most my orgasms have lasted is about a minute. everybodys different too. i have never gotten an orgasm from masturbating, so like i said, everyone's different. but you're lucky you get orgasms quickly...lmao
hope i helped
xo
i am 16 years old, and my boyfriend and i have been dating for 8 months. we have both performed oral sex on each other, but i have one question .. can girls cum? and how do you know if you're having an orgasm?
yes girls can cum.
you usually know when you have an orgasm, it's usually of all a sudden, and it feels so good, it also usually only lasts for a couple of minutes, maybe even less. you should really know if your having one.
orgasm-
–noun 1. the physical and emotional sensation experienced at the peak of sexual excitation, usually resulting from stimulation of the sexual organ and usually accompanied in the male by ejaculation.
2. an instance of experiencing this.
3. intense or unrestrained excitement.
4. an instance or occurrence of such excitement.
that what an orgasm is, hopefully i helped. =)
I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.
Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<
Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.
And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes
hunny, i'm going through the SAME EXACT THING! until this year, (i'm 14/f too) i always thought i was going to save myself till marrige, but then i realized, i would not be able to stand not having sex, i'm a really horny person, so whenever i think about saving myself, my thoughts go straight to having sex. I definetly know i won't be able to hang out that long without having sex.
personally, i will most likely experience sex before marrige (safe sex) and if your curious and don't want your husband to be your first, then go for it, but you should wait till you're sixteen, and YES wait till your ready, and feel comftorable.