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*NaMe: Kayla* *AgE: 13* *HeIgHt: around 5ft & 4inch* *EyEs: blue/green* *HaIr: blond with red highlights* I've always loved helping my friends out with there problems and as soon as i found out about this website i had to join. So please, if you have a problem come and ask me id be more then happy to try and help. It doesnt matter to meh what the topic is even if its personal.
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Occupation: Berkley Middle School
Age: 13
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Ok i have a really important question. i really want to have sex but i am not sure when girls can get pregnate. i have already have my period but is it after u get it wheil u have it or what?? plz help me (link)
Any time after you have it for the first time. It coulb be while your having it or inbetween months...i doesnt matter


Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage? (link)
not a clue...yong kids now just think it makes them kool or suttin i guess but i agree wit u its stupid...it would mean so much more to doo it with sum1 ull love forever!


Ok, I'm sorry, I really don't need advice but...

Is it just me, or is every1 else sick of these kids in their early teens talking about having sex?

It is fully YOUR decision about whether or not u are ready 4 sex but if u r having any doubts about it that u prolly aren't ready. Even better, u should prolly wait until ur older (or even married) cuz then u know that u truely love the person cuz u shouldn't b doing anything that u might regret.

Ok... I think that about does it w/ my tyraid... (link)
i feel the same way as you. to many kids are doing it so young. What they dont know is that girls give off a hormone that attatches then to the person they have sex with for he first time. Guys dont so when you brake up ur heartbroken and wasting a lot of there time on this one guy.


how far would you go with a guy, and could you seriously answer the question? cause if you dont that doesnt seem to answer my question, dont be shy! (link)
Im kinda a goody goody so I would make out wit a guy and mayb let him up my shirt or sumthing but i would have to really feel comfortable wit him and been wit him for a while


i recently had sex with my boyfriend, now this was my first time and i bled, i have read when you streach out the skin down there it is possible u may bleed during your first time. i didnt realize it until i got home and saw my undies,i was absolutly horrified!! when he invited me over again i wanted to mention it to him and when i saw his bed there was a tiny stain possibly from me i was so imbarresed but he didnt say anyhting about it, so i figured he either feels bad or hasnt noticed or frankly doesnt care but its been really a stress to me keeping it in the back of my mind that he could think im some kind of gross person i mean hes had sex before and i doubt it happened to them


ahhh!!! what the hell do i do!!! (link)
Ok...calm down..lol. This happens to a lot of gurls there first time. Before mentioning it to him see if he acts strange indicating if he really does think your gross. If he still metions things like having sex again maybe he honestly doesnt care. If you think he does know and you feel like you can talk to him about nething just tell him whats goin on. If he has had sex b4 im sure you werent the only one this happend to. If hes really that experianced im sure he new this could happen and really doesnt care. If he still asked to hang out with you after everything im sure he doesnt think your gross. Honestly i wouldnt let it get to you. When it comes to guys they try to ignore things they dont like so if he thought you were gross he wouldnt try to hang with you again. But he did so you got a good one! lol hope i helped


I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
Well you needa start by telling your parents. Yes its gunna be hard but what else are you gunna do wait till they question you on your belly getting big. The abortion thing should be up to you. I personally dont agree with it at all and if u dont want one tell you parents you want the child. As for your boyfriend hes gunna need to no and he needs to take responsibility for his child just like you...hope i helped..pleas rate


What is a hand job exactly... im trying to tell my friend but i dont know how to word it (link)
A hand job is basically givin a guyz dick a "rub down"....basicaly all u do is apply lotion (optional but makes it easier) and move ur hand up and down and all around (never make a pattern..surprise him a lot wit diff ways)..lol untill he becomes hard...hope i helped




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