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Hello, My name is Sierra. I am a high school student. But please dont let that fool you. I've been through more in my life then a teenager should have to. But i've grown and matured from thoes things. I'm open and honest, I love to give advice. I'm a very nice person. I have a wonderful stedy boyfriend whom i love more then anything.
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its a bubble after sex. its like my lip blows up somewhat
I'm sorry but i looked it up and did'nt find anything.
Well if your lips just inlarge after, But go down later on. Then thats somewhat normal, Because all girls lips inlarge to create lubercation. But if its not that, Then i dont know.
everytime i have sex i get this werid bubble thing on my lower area. At first i thought it was because he was going to hard or because it was dry but i got it twice what the hell is it?
Is it a bubble after sex, Or a bubble feeling during sex?
i know this is a weird question but what does and orgasim feel like.
i really dont know how to explain it. But you can tell when its coming. You can slowly feel it and it gets more and more intence in the good way and then it gets REALLY good and then it releases and makes you really realxed.
15/f
okay, so this is probably going to sound really bad but i need help. i dont really know why but i love "getting around"- not sleeping around or anything though. but like every guy that im into ill make out with them and i always let them finger me. but girls are starting to hate me and saying im a whore but guys really like me. and i know most of them just like me cause ill let them play around with me but i really dont mind- i really like it actually. but after most weekends i look back on what all i did and i let like at least 1 guy finger me a weekend- a lot of times more. is that really bad or am i just having fun? and feel free to be honest. thanks!
Honestly, I've been there. And while it may be fun and all, But you will regreat it someday. Like maybe when your ready and have a real realtionship, No guy will take you seriously because you atract what you put out. If you dont repect your body and slef, No one eles will eaither. And belibe me there is nothing better like a man who worships your body but respects it and is someone who will stick around. And also, I know you may think i'm being dramatic but belive meee if you dont smartin up will you move on to other things like sex. And that is a very bad place to be. Worrying about STD's and wondering if your pregnet or if that person you slept with will stay around if you are. And when you fall in love someday, Your going to wish you had a clean slat that way you can enjoy that intimate stuff with the person you love.
This is currently what i am dealing with. I was lucky to not be pregent or have STD's by the time i stoped being so stupid and learned to caryy myself recpectfully. And it was not long before i met myself the kind of guy every girl should have. Before i just got a bunh of gusy who could carelss about me other then when we did stuff. And i still deal with the sterotype, And its not something fun.
And just so you know, I'm not some woman pep talking you. I'm a 16 year old who knows eaxcastly what you are going through.But i've been there and back and only hope that you dont end up having to go through what i did.
What are some interesting and fun ways to kiss your significant other? any unique tricks or tips you know of? share 'em
I know my boyfriend likes when i suck on the tip of his tounge, Or if i very lightly bite his/her lip. Or maybe right before you go to kiss, Kinda (very sexy like) get really close and slowly pull away and then let him/her kiss you after. Or suck his/her lip. Maybe even try putting ice in your mouth and giving it back and forth while making out.
so me & my boyfriend had sex for the first time last friday. and also saturday. & we used a condom & since it was our first time, we didnt do it too long since he popped my cherry & it hurt the second time. now im wondering if i could be pregnant? we used wasted 3 condoms & filled each with water once we were done with them & there was no hole, so the condom was good. so is there any chance of me being pregnant? i doubt it , but i just want more opinions.
Your very smart for being safe and going the extra mile as to fill them up. And yes there is a chance, But its like VERY close to impossable. Really, Dont worry.
i'm on my period, obviously, and i'm starting to get really bad cramps. i wake up because it really hurts. what are some ways to make it stop hurting? or help ease the pain?
Well medicines such as midol work well, But maybe lost of water and lost of my friends say ice cream helps. But i'm not sure why.
my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.
so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/
Well first of all, Its all up to you. If your not confortable with it then say no and he better respect that. But here is a very easy way to make it as confortable as possable for you.
First off, Buy anal lube, None other will
Work as well and last as long. And alwassssy
use a condom. Becasue its safer, And because
Without one when he cums he runs the risk
of the sperm runing down into the vigina.
Crazy but possable. Well first ask him to put
A condom on his fingers and lube and put one
Finger inside your anal until its confortable
About for you, And then another one. Take your
Time and do this until your third finger. And then put a condom and lots of lube and try it out
Tell him to go very slow.
Dont let him put it in your vigina after unless you change the condom. It will be unconfortable
For about three times, But belive me, it does
Get better.
my girlfriend and i were having unprotected sex, but i pulled out before i came. i washed my penis and peed after, and then we did it again, but i was wondering if there could be any left on my penis from the first time that i came, which would make her pregnant
PLEASE dont give me crap about "you can get pregnant from precum" because it's completely untrue, anybody with google could tell:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0922.html
http://www.corporatemofo.com/stories/021201inandout.htm
http://www.idsnews.com/news/story.aspx?id=33698&comview=1
condoms = 3%
pulling out = 4%
if that's not enough evidence maybe a government website can convince you:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=pubmed&dopt=Abstract&list_uids=12762415&query_hl=9&itool=pubmed_docsum
im not an idiot i did research before we did it
please just answer my question and none of the crap about precum because that's what i got on the other advice websites
I have a couple friends who got pregent on precum alone.
But anyway, No worrys. Because first off you wash then your clean and if you pee, your clean. But also, once spream is exposed to enough air it dies anyway.
Hi,
The condition:
I have a female friend, who commonly wears very revealing clothing. Short shorts, or tops which show cleavage and stomach, etc. It seems a little bit wrong really.
Although I wouldn't want to go out with her, because of her slightly egotistical personality, and way of dressing, I find myself incredibly physically attracted to her, almost to the point of wishing I could seduce her, even though I know it would be a mistake.
So I know that being around a well bodied girl, in a state of scant dress (even though I don't look favourably on the behaviour) causes this reaction for me.
The Question:
Men in short shorts, etc, just seems like an even worse social wrong than women (although there's no real reason that it should be so, apart from that society is sexist).
I would like to know if there is a similar thing happens to women, around men of scant dress, or even simply showing as much arm and leg as they can, without seeming vulgar.
Thanks
It really depends on the girl and what they are into. But the media has made us belive things such as men wearing releaving clothing it more so "gay" then "apealing" Now maybe wearing knee shorts and a fitting shirt might catch the eye of some girls depending on your body status. But for the most part, its really not a noticed feture.
Hope i could help. :]
(I'm just a fast typer, I realized I spelled alot of things wrong but i had to leave so I did not fix it, Thanks for the insult, when all I was trying to do is help.)
On Myyearbook.com i posted on a confession that i was a virgin, and the website said this is potentially innapropriate content, your profile may be deleted and the police may be contacted. the website says they contact the police on pornography and violent threats, do you think the police will be contacted??
PS, i didnt use my real email, or name, location, and i deleted my account right after that message.
I really dont think so. And if they do, I'm sure they'll eaither let it go or just talk to you. Because saying your a virgin is not something innapropreate for the most part. I dont think you should be worried.
Me and my boyfriend just had sex.. and I'm not supposed to get my period for like 2 or 3 weeks. How long do i have to wait to tell if I'm pregnant or not? ..
It depends on the test you buy. If you buy the EPT test then you have to wait till five days before your missed period.
how much effective is morning after pill? is it 99% effective? i heard that the first time, you never get pregnant. is that true?
They are pretty effective. And i cant stress this enough, You can ALWAYS get pregnet, No matter where, When how many times. Always. But i really hope you deside to use a condom. Or get birth control. And if you dont want to, At lest please ask him to pull out, And then take the pill. Dont forget to take it though.
i have a problem, well actually two. so i need some advice asap.
one: with my skin i am prone to get ingrown hairs, VERY easily. it scars and doesn't look very appealing. i dont want this guy to get the wrong idea, its just on my bikini line though. im afraid to shave cus if i do everything ill have ingrown hairs all over down there. so i dont know what to do?!
two: i've been with a two guys before just fingering, and it was abosulutely unpleasurable. i got nothing out of it. and i want to get wiht the guy i like, but i dont want nothing to happen, again..
so if anyone has any ideas on what to do//whats wrong. please let me know..
Honestly, I dont know what to say for your first problem. But for the seond one i guess all i can say is that if you dont want anything to happen with him, Tell him stright out, And if he does not respect that then its his loss. But if you do, Maybe try waiting till you really get confortable with him, And when your completly relaxed and confident about the whole situation. Try kissing alot and touching until you get "excited" alot, Hopefully that will help self-lubercate. But in the event that your still unconfortable, Go buy some lubercation and aply this before to make things alittle more slippery. Ask him to try a bunch of new things, And tell him when he is "hitting the spot" Good luck :]
hey everyone,
well I have a boyfriend and we have sex and all that and I'm always wet and stuff, but I don't know why but my pussy smells weird/bad and I don't like that smell, I always take a shower clean my self and all that, like what is causing that smell? how do I get rid of that smell, I get so embrassed, but he doesn't care, but I do it makes me seem dirty, but I clean myself and shower like everyday (I'm a neat freak) so please help! has it happened to you? help! how do I get rid of this smell?
thanks for the help =]
I've had that same problem. It could be a multiple of things. First off, Think about if he is your first, And if you are his. That way you could add or elimidate the question of an STD. If you think for sure its not an STD then it could just be BV. It is very common in girls, I had it about three weeks ago. If you do have it, You could go to your gyno and get a medicine. Or just buy summers eve cleaning wipes for odor. Use them like three times a day for awhile and you should be fine. Also, Take more bath then showers, Because shower steem can cause bacterial build up, But dont douch or put any water up there. It will only make it worse. Hope it works out for you.