I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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my boyfriend has suddenly unfriended me frm fb nd he iz not evn exceptin me request nd not evn answerin ma txt ... nd i love him love him like hell ... so plz suggest me some pills which r easily available in india nd any chemist.... i m a 16 yrs girl.
Nd i frm INDIA. (link)
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You're only 16 years old did you really expect to find true love at this age. He unfriended you, so what, if u could find him you can find somebody else, if you show him you don't care he might come back to you, but if you are clingy to him he will get upset so give him some time. Listen to me hun no life is worth being lost over a guy, you have plenty to live for and a month later you're gonna be glad I told you these things. Treat yourself to a girls day, get your hair done, go shopping, spend time with your friends and keep yourself busy, these thoughts will go away
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My husband went to USA 5 months back,i miss him terribly and living without him is a hell.For some reasons , I cant get my visa.can you help me in my suicide ? I do not have any friends , all I have is internet to suggest which pill can certainly take away my life. please,i beg of u. (link)
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I really don't like the way you're thinking hun, you've been blessed with a life which you can do so much with have so many opportunities. How do you think your boyfriend will feel if he finds out you are trying to take your life away? How would you feel if your boyfriend wanted to take his life away? Start a hobby, go out, socialize, get a new haircut, try some new lipstick and make yourself feel good, I'm sure this is a difficult time for you, but this too shall pass, this is a rough patch in your life that you will get over with in time, I guarantee you and when it does, think of me
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I am 9 and know about sex I already experimentid and it is fun (link)
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Well firstly, think about what your parents would think about this. From a medical point of view your body is not yet physically able to handle sex, you're still at a young age and other activities should catch your attention. Think about all the sexually transmitted diseases or a risk of pregnancy, these are things that should not concern you at your age, enjoy your life now and worry about that later, I advise you to stop as sex complicates everything
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My boyfriend and I fool around ALOT. and i like ir really rough.. and he was pounding me really hard with his fingers and i was LOVING it... but when he pulled his fingers out they were COVERED with cum.. like an inch worth.. is this normal? i'm not a virgin and he has been my only sexual partner.. (link)
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yes that's completely normal
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I am actually 13 but I started wearing a G-String(thong) when I was 10. Is that to young? People say that they are uncomfortable but I think they feel way better than normle underwear!
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10 was abit young but their just underwear and you're right they really are comfortable so you should wear what makes you feel good
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I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time awhile back and it was my first time and ever and when I got home I checked to see if there was any blood and there was nothing. Was it possible he didnt 'pop my cherry'? The first time was kind of a quickie but then the next time we had sex it felt like he hit it hard but I never bled. I heard when a girl loses her virginity she will bleed during or after. Am I still a virgin or? (link)
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even though it was a quickie if he was in you then you're not a virgin and all girls are different not all of us bleed or maybe you just broke your hymen before without knowing it you can do this by some exercises and even riding a bicycle but he did pop your cherry so you're not a virgin
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I'm sixteen and female. Because I am the age I am and I'm not sexually active that often, I don't shave all the way. It's usually just a trim, and I'm fine with it, but now I am just so grossed out by it. I have shaved with a razor and soap, trimmed it with scissors, but I want to really get it all thin without it being annoying and such. Bikini Wax is out of the picture definitely because I'm kinda broke and I don't think I'm old enough. Is there anything I can do to shave without any pain or expensive procedures? (link)
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you could try hair removal creams that are specailly made to get rid of hair down their and they're not really that expensive
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What does it mean when girls "pop their cherry" ??? (link)
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when a girls virginity is broken, she is no longer a virgin
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does size really matter (link)
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not really, every girl likes different things and thats up to you decide but you should be more specific on your question
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how do you know if a guy really loves you, or if he is just using you for sex? (link)
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well if he's your boyfreind or girlfriend and you're in a relationship and he's willing to wait and not have sex then you know that he's not using you if he respects your decision and doesn't force you into it then you know that he really loves you
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what does being felt up mean? (link)
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being touched in a place that usually gives you pleasure like your breasts or your genitals
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So I have had 6 different sex partners. No need to judge I'm a freshmen in college, but anyways I thought that after awhile sex would stop being so painful for me but it hasn't at all. When I'm on bottom it probably hurts the most and it feels like I'm going to pee. Sex just never feels good for me but I still enjoy it for some reason. I want to stop having painful sex. My recent sex partner and I always have to stop because it hurts so much and than keep going, slow down or change positions. It's just so frustrating because I just want to have pleasurable sex. And I popped my cherry over a year ago so I know that's not the problem.. Any suggestions? (link)
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there could be many causes i'll name a few but still think you should visit a doctor
first:vaginal infections they're often present without noticable symptoms but during intercourse the rubbing of the penis against the vagina and genetalia sometimes causes burning and stinging
vaginal dryness:normal vaginal lubrication is given for most woman however the vagina may be dry at certain times making vaginal penetration painful
there could be pills and creams taken visit the drug store you can get some over the counter stuff hope this helped
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Well.....i am a 15 year old girl...and recently I have masturbated.....but....everytime I do...I feel guitly and dirty...and I don't want to continue...I want to ask my sister, or brother, or even my parents..but I'm scared to...I keep thinking they will laugh or get mad at me....and say that I am disgusting...so I just wanna know...Is it bad or wrong? And why? (link)
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it's completly normal to masturbate almost every girl does it i'm sure you mum or sister have too however i don't think you should speak to them about it because masturbation is really personal and it would be really awkward for you to discuss this with them but you shouldn't feel guilty it's a normal healthy part of life
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Im not gay but I would like to masturbate with my friend but I dont know how to ask him. (link)
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dare him
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My vagina hurts and i don't know why,it started hurting after I had sex after the second time. I don't but its like hurts when i touch it,and thats about it. I just wanna know what it could be. Cause im a little scared. (link)
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you say you had sex for the second time and it is quite normal that it would hurt for about three days but thats it if it continues for longer than a week i think that you should go see a doctor just to take precaution because it could be an std don't be too stressed out about it take things one step at a time
best of luck
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You are requested to name the most effective sleeping pills availabe easily at medical store.
For a further note, i am not mental illing problem or any domestic prob., I am 38 yrs male indian, single, doing pvt. job, just fed up from living unmeaningly life with unwanted issues which are not even relate to me.
Thats why, I want to take it for easy suicide. If you think I need any guidance to live, just ignore the massage.
Thanks (link)
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i'm really sorry for whatever has driven you to want to commit suicide but i don't think i can help you out with your question as we are not allowed to give out that kind of advice, for every problem there is a solution and i'm sure you can find yours maybe you shouldn't i'm sure you're a great person and you juat need to let your feelings out
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I am 15 years old. Ever since I can remember, I have been unhappy - including my early childhood, which was filled by drunk and uncaring parents. I was sexually abused by my step brother for 2 years, and when I tried to tell my parents, they threatened to send me to a therapy session for 'false memories.' I grew up a quiet and introverted child, and I could never change my ways. I have always been filled with this guilt, sadness, and hatred, which led to me wanting to commit suicide. I hate speaking about my past. However, I want to learn how to open up and let people in - to trust them. I want to not worry about what they might think and to just move on. How do I do that? (link)
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first of all i'm really sorry it sounds like you had a terrible childhood and to be honest with you if you don't speak to someone about this and open up, your past will haunt you for the rest of your life and you will never be able to trust people, the fact that your parents don't want to believe you is a problem so you need to speak to someone else that you trust and tell them about your step brother, maybe another close relative someone that your parents are going to listen to you should even try going to a shrink because this will impact your life dramatically if you don't let it out soon
best of luck
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I'm 15/f and my bf is 17... sorry if this is long bt i really need help..
okay so i have a daughter she is my world she will be two tommorrow and my bf (baby daddy) abuses me everyday for no reason we live together i got kicked out of my house when i was 13 my mom died when i was 12 and my dad wanted nothing to do with me so i moved in with my bf Dametrious i love him so much we have been threw hell we been together for three years. he hits me hard he leaves bruises and scares yesterday he burned me with the iron i have tears running down my face as i write this he hurts me really bad he got mad because some guy texted me saying that he got my numb off of myspace and my didnt believe him ! im scared that if i keep letting him hurt me then he will hurt my daughter too !! he slaps me in front of her calls me a bitch he spit in my face i have no where to turn what do i do? i have no family!! and all my friends cut me off when they found out that i was preg. ohh ya and my bf cheats on me all the time like about a week ago he brought some girl named asia over our house and told her i was his sister and my daughter was his niece !!!! wtf?? im really crying right now how could he do this to me ? and after that he went upstairs and had sex with her i know because you could hear them !!! what do i do !!!! help ! (link)
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oh my word okay i'm sure you don't want to hear this but you really need to leave him he treats you this way because he knows that you have nowhere else to go and the fact that he is hitting you in front of your two year old daughter will really really affect her later on in life and she will probably behave in the same manner please for the sake of your child try to find woman shelters around where you stay you really don't deserve to be treated this way your boyfriend is a real JERK if you continue staying with him he would most probably end up killing you please try and seek help there are many organisations that can help you nobody should live this way
i'm really sorry
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I know this will sound crazy but what are good tips for giving a lap dance (link)
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haha as you probably know guys love hips and your butt let your back face him and put his hands on your hips while moving side to side slowly going down but sexy of course then kind off sit on him while rubbing like dry humping and do a sexy dance damn this is really hard to explain on a computer
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how do you know when your cherry is popped (link)
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well when you have sex you would normally bleed because the hymen tears if you are.... well stretched down there then you lost your virginity
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