Hey everyone! My name is megan; I'm 15 and going to be 16 in a few months. I've been through alot of stuff that some people haven't. I'm really good at giving advice and i love to try and help others. If you have a question or need someone to talk to message me and I will try my best to help you. I'm here for everyone and anyone. I'll do everything i can to help you. I'm looking forward to your questions. Thank you; megan!
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Okay, my boyfriend and I haven't even been going out for a WEEK, and he's already kind of hinting that he wants to have sex with me. I know I shouldn't, and I won't give in, being as that I am Catholic and have religious morals. But, I was with him yesterday and he had an erection. It kind of freaked me out, because we weren't even kissing or anything, and I really don't think I'm ready to have the same type of relationship he wants. And also, yesterday, he showed me condoms he had bought, and that pretty much just took me over the edge. He told me if I really wanted him to just stop everything, he would, and I do believe him, but when I'm trying to tell him no, my shy-side won't let me say anything. Is there any way I can simply tell him no and I want to wait for things like this until I'm older? (link)
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okay hun; i know this is really hard for you and that you shouldn't even have to deal with this at the age you are but; it's going to come up many times in your life. Just like you i didn't want to have sex before i was MUCH MUCH older or until i was married but i DIDN'T talk about it and just let the boy control my thoughts on the idea and did it anyways. My advice for you doll is; 1. talk to him about it. i kow it will be akward but it's good for you to be open with him especially if he is showing signs that he REALLY wants to; and it seems to me he does.
2. Don't loose your morals because your afraid to loose him; i did. Now that i have and think about it i wish i didn't because it's something your never going to forget.
3. If he decides that he doesn't want to be with you because of this; forget him. There is going to be so many more guys in the world and you WILL find one who will love you for you.
i know it's hard because i remember i was 13 and i wanted someone i could call my own but; you have your whole life. You shouldn't be worrying about this. Cheer up hun and follow your heart.
-megg.
ps.i hope this helps. if you need anything message me :]
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ok the thought of a guys thing going into your thing kinda gets me freaked out cause it sounds like it hurts and is painful i mean really.. so what does it really feel like.. does it hurt? (link)
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okay yeah it hurts the first few times but after that it gets better. It may hurt alot the first 3 or 4 times but after a while it gets better and you will like it. I remember i was really scared to!
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If you aren't experianced I don't know if you want to read this.
My bf and I have been together for 1 year and 6 months and have been sexual active together for about 4 months.
Well he came over last night and we were fooling around and started having sex. Everything was going fine but then he started getting rough. It was getting to be wayyy too much for me so I told him to not be so hard. He didn't listen and just kept at it.
It got bad enough for me to where I broke out in tears and he still didn't slow down.
When he was about to finish off he took it out and cummed all over me adn my sheets. I usually don't have a problem with that but when we were done (or when he was done anyways) he wouldn't let me clean up. I wanted to take a shower so bad but he wouldn't let me. We just layed there and slept which was very uncomfortable for me because it was gross and sticky.
Now I don't know if I can be comfortable around him. He's never done anythign like this before. he always used to listen while we were in bed adn never went too fast or hard. I don't know what got over him. What should I do? 18/f (link)
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Hm maybe he thinks he has control over you..you need to talk to him and make sure he knows that when you say NO or stopp. or even slower that he needs to. (it possibly could be considered rape) and if he doesnt listen to you, you need to drop his ass
megan&kayla
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i was on birth control for about a year and i just recently stopped because me and my boyfriend broke up. i figured i didn't need to be on it if i wasn't going to be sexually active. so now that i'm not on it is my period going to be really messed up? i'm just wondering so i'll be aware of this.. (link)
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when i stopped using birth control the only shock that came to me was no knowing exactly when it came. but you'll be okay
megan & kayla
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then. (link)
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Yeah! if you said NO then it's rape..it doesn't matter if you did before. If you tried saying no but he wouldnt listen then it is rape. you dont owe him nothing he may be your b/f but its your bodyy..if you think he would do this again you need to get away from him ASAP..tell someone you can trust
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I haven't got my period yet. Im kinda scared about getting it. What if im in school? what if im in the middle of class and i have to get up and someone sees? what are some signs when i get it differnt from just an itch. Gimmie info (link)
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Don't be worried about your periodd, it's a normall thing&&if any one ever says anything about it to you.. just tell 'em it's normal. Other signs would be: Mood swings, cramps, back pains, tirednes, you may be more emotional, mayy feel wet down there and then you wil want to check. But honestly dont worry its scary your first timee but after a few times you get use to it..
Megann&Kaylaa
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I was talking to one of my guy friends and he said that the taste of a guy's cum depends on his diet. Is that true? Like, he said that if the guy ate fruits and stuff that it'll be sweeter. (link)
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My friendd is telling me that it is true..So heyy who knows? lol
Megan&kayla
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okay i shave down there nd like 2 weeks ago i got like sum little red bumps nd finally they went away .. but i got it again im thinkin its ingrown hairs from a not so good shaver . is that wut it is ?? nd how can i get rid of it . im so afraid my bf is gunna c it nd think its STD or sumfn .. help (link)
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Oo don't worry its just razor burnn, either you used a dull raizer or you shavee to hard. Don't flip out butt my friend and i both have gotten it beforee.. no need to be alarmed :)
Megan and kayla
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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!! (link)
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Uhh okay. You must remeber ALWAYS use protection ..exspecially a condom. not only bcuz you could get pregnant but to protect your self from any kinda of STD. The firstt time i did, i used a condom but i was still scared..It's kinda of a normal feeling. but just make sure you keep trackk of you period and you dont get it at least a week after you must go talk to either, your parent(s) or closest friendss. becausee you can't do it alone&its not just your life anymore it's yours, your b/f, and that baby's.
Megann&kaylaa
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