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Q: how long will i need to wait to have sex after i get birth control? like we reaaaaaally want to. we've been together for 7 months and haven't! i mean..do we have to wait a full month for the bc to kick in? does it work at all right when you start using it?
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i'd say wait 3 weeks till a month if you love each other you can wait a little bit longer ive been with my boyfriend a little over 2 years and we went through a little over a year without doing it 7 months is not long at all
be smart use a condom as well b/c becausec doesn't protect against std's and it depends on what kind you take and how regular you are taking it as well
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Q: ok so i have started giving my boyfriend oral sex..and i feel really comfortable doing it
i know that i am good at it...but i was wondering if anyone had any advice on how to make it more pleasurable..and kinky i guess?
i asked him and he gave me some
but i want to surprise him with a new technique or something!
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good thing to do is use your hands as well starting from the bottom and one at the top.
caress his testicles in your free hand as well. they really seem to enjoy that. Try to go deep and lick up the bottom of his penis. Swirl your tongue around his head and lightly flick the top of it with your tongue because the head of the penis is like our clitoris. Try different movement and sucking motions and lube. increase speed and pressure as well but if he is about to cum his testicles will rise up and get close to his body and when you see that lightly squeeze them because it gives more rush of ecstacy
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Q: Hi, i haven't started my period yet, and i am really worried it's going to start in the middle of a school day, or even worse PE!!! I know to carry a pad with me, and i do, and i were thin panti-liners just incase, but i was wondering if there is any signs i may be starting soon? I have a feeling i might be starting soon, but i dont know whether it is just me being silly! Also i get a monthly discharge, just like a period, but it's not blood. I'm 13
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Before your period will come you may feel very tired. These signs come about 2-4 days beforehand. Your breasts can get tender and hurt. You may have cramps in your abdomen. You may be cranky for no reason (part of pms) When I started mine I did not have these signs but I do now. Your vagina may hurt as well when you are on your period. You seem prepared enough though, so all you can do is wait. Good luck!
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Q: i just got doen with my period and im spotting pink not like red like when i have my period. i also has PROTECTED sex with my boyfriend lastnight and im on birth control. but im just wandering why im spotting.
if anyone has an answer...
thanks
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well if its ur first time than the whole poppin the cherry thing and if not then maybe it was too rough or you are just irritated but thats all i can think of
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Q: I know this is going to sound random but w/e.
How do I go about asking my boyfriend if we can have sex without asking him straight up?
Any tips are appreciated.♥
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Get into it somehow like work in a story or am ovie about a couple and sex and ask stuff like what if we did that or something like that or would u ever do this and stuff
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Q: Alright. My boyfriend and I have thought a LOT about having sex with each other. I really want to and I'm ready but I'm only 15, and if I explained to my folks that I need birth control, they'd kill me. I know I'm ready because we've been dating for quite sometime, and I'm very in love with him and I want him to be my first. We've planned to stay together for a while and I'm not one of those girls who just blabber on and on about how I love this person so so so much. I take things seriously and I don't say I love you every 5 minutes because it's something very special to say. Not only do you have a healthy, good physical relationship with each other, we've got an amazing emotional one too. We're so open with each other, it throws me off guard sometimes. He's my best friend in the whole wide world and we even broke up with each other a few months ago but we never stopped talking like we do now and we didn't stop seeing other. He's amazing, I love him, and we can't ever get enough of each other. At school, we're together, and then after school we're on the phone until bedtime. Then on weekends we're together. Theres always things to talk about when we're together and theres always things to do. We get along amazingly and we have a really strong connection. Hes so practical and logical too. He's very smart with his decisions and he's helped me along so well. I've had a lot happen to me the past few years and I went off track but now my life is great and things are going smoothly. See now I want to have sex with him, and I already think my parents suspect that we fool around. Would fooling around be considered sexually active? Do I sound ready for sex? Someone please help me, I've talked to him about this as well and he doesn't know what to do. We need some clearing up!!
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First I want to say that is sooo cute!!I COMPLETELY understand your situation I am 16 and been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we plan to stay together forever but anyway if you two have talked it over than yes you seem like you are ready to have sex and sexually active is sex not fooling around. Be safe though yes always use a condom no matter what and be careful because sex sometime s does ruin things but dont let that stop you
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Q: if me and my boyfriend did do it then how long would it take to start bleeding? would it be quick or will it be after 30 min.'s?
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your not bugging me at all dont worry about it! but the bleeding all depends really on how you do it. it depends if he is big and how rough you have it normally i would guess around 10-15 minutes but i could be wrong and you might not even bleed at all...hope that helps some
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Q: If I did start to bleed, then should we ignore it or keep going? If not everyone bleeds then does that mean I did something wrong? and if I did put on a tampon then how would I know if I tore it? please help me
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you probably wouldnt bleed for a while and you would probably want to stop because it will be hurt a little or be sore. No nothing is wrong, everyone is just different bleeding and not bleeding is totally normal and you cant be sure if you broke it inserting a tampon it all depends how fragile it is but im sure you will be ok sorry for not answering that part before anything else just ask!
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Q: 15 f & bf is 18
After ditching school to go to my bf's house one day, my parents found out and my mom said to me "I hope you two aren't having sex, but if you are I at least want you to be on birth control". Her mom was all about "don't do it"..but, duh, people have sex eventually. My mom just wants me to be safe.
I haven't had sex yet, but I am ready for it. I'm comfortable with my boyfriend and we talk about sex and birth control and what we would do if I get pregnant.And since he has had sex before, he went and got tested for AIDS and well, the whole deal really.. - Me and my boyfriend see eachother once a week, if that, because his parents don't like me, and my dad doesn't like him.
My question is this: If we only see eachother once a week, will I still have to take birthcontrol all week long? And if so, why?
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Yes you will... you should take birth control at least a week BEFORE having sex. If you don't know this much yet I think you should wait until you learn more about it in a health class but birth control tricks your body into being pregnant and if oyu are going to have sex you should continually take it otherwise your body will get all messed up Your period will be off and you could also feel sick. Birth control releases hormones about being pregnant and it take a while for those to take an effect. Hope I helped
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Q: OK.im a 14 year old female, I have herd that after you have sex you bleed. well, how long do you bleed? and if you do start bleeding do you just ignore it and keep going or stop? if you do it with out a condom will i get pregant? I am sorry i don't know this stuff... my mom is strict and my boyfriend is probably going to be ready soon. I am right now but im not so sure about it.
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Not everyone bleeds the first time you have sex. When people mention "popping a cherry" it is a term for tearing the hymen which is a tissue between the vagina and close to the cervix. Some people never get torn and some people tear it while inserting a tampon. You will learn more about it during high school. You have a very high chance on getting pregnant without a condom and if you use a condom correctly (which most teens dont) it is only 80-89% effective. You shaould open it carefully and what not. If you are not so sure than don'tdo it. You want to be ready and sure. You can have many boyfriends but you can only give your virginity once. Hope I helped
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Q: ok so alot of people my age have had there first kiss and alot more but i have not actualy had a real bf is this normal i mean i am just really nervous around guys when it comes to that stuff cause i am just scared i will do something wrong or something and i am in this long distance relationship but i kinda lied to him about what "base" i've gotten to like 1st base 2nd base 3rd base and so on now i told him the farthest i have ever gotten was making out but i have never even kissed a guy or been kissed what do i do should i try to get a guy out here to like me and try to get experience before me n my long distance bf meet???i mean i know he is not some 30 year old rapist cause he is friends with my sister cause they met in 4th gradeso please any advice will help please help me i need help??
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Well first off. . . kissing isn't hard at all . . . You basically just lock lips and slip your tongues in mouth and it wont be hard. . . It will come naturally you'll know how to do it and just be yourself and hey . . . guys also like it when they know they are their girls first kiss and stuff like that hope i helped if oyu have anymnore questions just tell me
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Q: i would really like some tips on giving a hand job. i have done it to my boyfriend about 10 or so times but i would like to know some little things i could do to make it even more enjoyable for him. please help
oh yeah.. and the other day i was with my boyfriend and i was strateling(sp?) him when he was laying down. and i was basically sitting on his area and i had no shirt on. he said he has never been so turned on. any tips on things i could do while doing that too
thanks
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"How do I give my guy a hand job?"
Q This may sound silly, but how do I give my guy a really good hand job?
A Pleasuring your man manually -- whether it's a prelude to penetration or an erotic act in itself -- is an incredibly sexy sack skill that's often overlooked. When you and your man are fooling around, have him lie on his back and straddle his thighs. Then, gently rub some water-based lube on his penis. To perform the basic hand job, firmly, but gently, wrap your fingers around his member and move your fist up and down his shaft in a slow, steady motion.
Variety is one of the key ingredients to a moan-worthy hand job, so mix up your speed and pressure as his arousal grows. Don't forget to pay special attention to the super-sensitive corona (the ridge where the head meets the shaft) and frenulum (the thin ridge that runs the length of the underside of his penis). Periodically massaging them with one or two fingers will make him swoon.
You'll also want to try using both hands in tandem -- think of it as doubling his pleasure. To give him an incredibly erotic two-hander, form a ring with your thumb and forefinger at the base of his shaft and gently tug downward, while simultaneously fondling his TLC-craving testicles with your other hand. Another make-his-toes-curl strategy: Handle his member with both hands working in precision, first one hand scaling down his shaft followed directly by the other. Make a gentle twisting motion on the way down, and his head'll spin. Or, wrap both hands around his member and move them in opposite directions as you work your way up and down his shaft. As he nears orgasm, continue stroking his shaft with one hand, while you gently massage his perineum (the nerve-packed stretch of skin between his anus and testicles) with the pointer and middle fingers of your other hand. You'll set him on fire.
Since no two guys are alike, you'll have to experiment with different moves to discover exactly what sends your man over the edge. Just ask him what feels good. Or, have him give you a hands-on demo of how he likes to stimulate himself, then follow his lead. Remember, just as important as technique is attitude, so try not to get hung up on "performance anxiety" and have fun. The fact that you're so willing to please your man is as big a turn-on as any hand job.
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_647603,00.html
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Q: me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex last night he pulled out and came.. but he had it all over the head of it and didnt wipe it off. could i have got pregnant from this? or does semen die outside the body???
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u could be pregnant bfore a guy cums they have a clear liquid that has sperm in it but they cant feel it so u might be pregnant
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Q: Ok im 14/m and im thinking about eating out my gf she shaves and shes had lots of bfs and none have said anything about it so i hope im the first one but still is it a bad idea to eat her out?? and what will it taste like? and also will it feel good for her?
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u can eat her out and it will feel good and the better u do it the more it will feel good to her and it depends on the taste i really dont no
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Q: My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!
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follow what ur heart says to do if you dont feel comfortable w/ it then dont do it!
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